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super confused...
Ok, i used to talk to this guy david and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. but then he accused me of "having something" with his friend John. But it was total bull. So we stopped talking. then, a couple of weeks ago he called me after i texted his cell. we talked for about an hour and then he had to go. We have been talking since. He told me he still liked me because he knew/knows i still have feelings for him. we made plans to meet at a dance club and hang out. seems good right? wrong. his girlfriend showed up so i got ditched. he barely talked to me all night. i was devastated that he would do that to me. but we got over it. now we are talking again and he is calling me and continuing to make plans to hang out. But he still has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do because i really do like this kid. please help. i rate high.
~Confused (15/f)
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Well, if you really like the kid then you should still hold those feelings in your heart. you have to just go with the fact that he has a girlfriend and he may pay more attention to her. Keep talking to him on the phone and make a lot of plans. Soon he might realize he loves you more then the other girl, dump her, and ask you out. When and if he dumps her wait 2-3 days to see if he asks you out. If he doesnt by the 3rd day i suggest going right for it and asking him out before he gets a new girlfriend. If you really think he likes you then he'll definitely say yes especially if you talk all the time and make plans. If he says no then you'll just have to get over it but still remain friends. Hope I helped!
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I wouldn't go anywhere with him if he can't promise not to ditch you. If he wan't to date both of you okay. But, if he's going to ditch you whenever she twitches her tail forget him.
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I wanna say first that its wrong of him to not tell his girlfriend that he likes you. If he really likes you then you shouldnt do anything with him until he tells his girlfriend or breaks up with her so you dont get hurt. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about him having a girlfriend and saying he likes you. If he is really serious about you he will understand and do something about it. Good luck. I hope I helped.
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look sweetie you need to reealize that you can do better than some dude who's gonna play games...your probably gonna come across alot of boys that play games like that and you dont need them...even though you might have strong feelings for him you need to understand that he going to continue to play games with your head and obviously he doesnt care because if he did he would take your feelings into consideration i would tell you to tell him straight up how you feel and what you think but you probably wouldnt like the response you might get back from him so my advice to you is to just be cool with him and if you have to many feeling for him then just leave him alone all together it might be hard but im telling you unless you wanna keep being the fool in this game you need to get over him..he knows hes got you right where he wants you and you need to show him that hes not the one thats in control of your feeling you are..trust me everything will work out for the best if you listen to me even if you dont think it will...when i tell you this im speaking from experience...hope i was helpful to you be strong and do what you need to do
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Wait until him and his girlfriend break up. If you guys make plans again his girlfriend is probablly going to come and you would get ditched again and you dont want that but anyways.. try to get over him since he has a girlfriend even tho it might be kind of hard since you like him but that was totally ignorant what he did to you and its mean!x0
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