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i have a guy friend that i like for a while and i still do like him and he likes me one problem is that he gots a gf and we close and he always tells me that he loves me and we can talk for hours and not worry about who knows we talking but my question is is it a bad thing that he has more feeling for me and not his gf? plz help!
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If he was really in love with you he'd break up with his GF.. plain, and simple.
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tell him that if really loves you that he will break up with his gf and if he doesn't that there can't be anything between you cause it's not right.
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Yes, it is a bad thing, and you should keep your distance.
To be honest, I'd stay away from this guy. For one, if his girlfriend is your friend, and you and he date, it'll probably make her very angry. Boyfriends come and go, but real friends in high school are hard to come by. Plus, if she's popular enough she could start some nasty rumors... and while that's no good reason not to do something, it is an annoyance and a hassle that will make a turbulent time even worse.
Further, if he will do this to his girlfriend, what do you think he'll do to you when you're dating him? There's an off chance that he really genuinely loves you, but I'm guessing that you're in high school or junior high, and at that age it's not very likely. Even if he does care about you, this doesn't speak well for his honesty. There's no way for you to know if everything he says to you is a lie too.
I think you should distance yourself from him. Tell him that you want to be his friend, but you can't because what you're doing would hurt your friend. Break it off. If he takes it well, then keep quiet; if he doesn't, or tries to do anything, tell her.
You want to avoid telling her if you can, becuase she'll blame the messenger and see you just as being just as guilty as him. But if she asks, pony up, or else you'll be in for a world of trouble. Whatever happens, BE HONEST when asked. Don't lie, don't cover up. Tell the truth. It may cause some hurt in the short term but it'll be less embarassing and better for you in the long run.
Just remember, at our age, it's more important to have friends than to have boyfriends.
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Well, it's not real good if he likes you more and continues to string her along.
Maybe he just likes you as a friend?
You need to ask him these things.
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I dont think that its bad that he likes you more because its not really something he can control. I think that if he wants things to not get really messed up he should tell his girlfriend so she doesnt get hurt. I wish yall the best. Hope I helped
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No its not bad.. or atleast i dont think so..it sounds like my situation i had with my ex.. i would blow my ex boyfriend off to talk to my current boyfriend and i would lie and stuff to my ex..which for some reason i dont know why but i had feelings for my ex boyfriend but i had more comfort and my boyfriend now had more time for me.. so then me and my ex broke up then i got with my current boyfriend and we have been together 9 months now..so maybe this will happen to you.. i dont consider it bad its jus how somebody feels.. i mean when i had it goin on i felt bad but i couldnt help how i felt.. i wish you luck sweetie..much luv dez x0x0
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No its not bad but it does suck for his girlfriend. I think that you should wait until they break up because if she ever found out she would be really hurt. You wouldnt want your boyfriend doing that to you. x0
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