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guy #1 vs guy#2
My bf and i (together 2 years) took a break and during the break i had interest in another guy who just came out of a 2 year relationship. Well my parents found out, w/out knowing about the breakup of me and my bf, and stepped in right away telling the other guy to stay away from me. After about a 3 hour talk with my parents they apologized to guy yet still say they dont want me with him, want me to quit my job, cuz thats where i met him (although he only works weekends, and since of late he has quit), and they tell me that there is something about him they dont trust even though they've only seen him once! They also think i am rushing too quickly into a new relationship and that i am not ready when in reality they arent ready! I am still friends with my ex who is tryiin to do everything and anything to get us back together and the other guy and i have agreed to be friends and cool things down until everything is settled! I just dont know what to do! Should i just go back with my ex or try working things out with this new guy?
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I don't think you should date someone just because your parents like him. That is a bonus but it isn't their relationship.
If you honestly can't decide which one you want date them both. I would talk to your parent's again to try and understand what it is they didn't like about boy number 2 just so you know.
It seems that you have a pretty good relationship with them. But let the final decission be your own.
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this sounds like a messy situation. The best thing I can tell you is to not get with either one of them right away. I think you should stay friends with your ex so yall dont lose what yall had and at the same time get to know the other guy somemore. You should try letting your parents sit down and talk to the new guy so they can have more trust in him. I do agree that you shouldnt rush into a relationship with him until you know its really what you want to do. Good luck and I hope I helped
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