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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx
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hi i think that ur to young. U need to slow down....he might be the love of your life but ur to young to know for sure u should wait maybe one more year and if you two or still together it might be the right time.
--Jilli--
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Hey =) I think you should do it whenever you feel most comfortable. Don't let other people influence you - do whatever YOU feel most comfortable with. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox! <3 Steph
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If your friends jump off the Empire State Building would you do it? You're 14,try and have some sense.
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I wouldnt just have sex with him for a present! 14 is a kind of young age to be having sex really, dont let others below your age influence you because they have .. it doesnt mean you have to!
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YOUR TOO YOUNG LIKE ME wait untill your older its the smart thing to do
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Hey.. I really fell in love with this question because I was in your EXACT position last year. Last year was my boyfriend and my First anniversary (And I was just 14)... And I had this romantic pitcure in my head of giving him my virginity and blah blah blah. But then I slapped myself in the face because I realized that was what held our relationship together, and that I'm way to young to have sex. If he loves you, he'll wait for you. Now Patrick and I have been together almost 2 years, And he's still waiting. Even though I love him so much. I think that sex is not to be taken lightly. Wait until you are surely ready with NO doubts at all. Maybe make him a scrap book, or get him a watch. Maybe even make him dinner, and rent a movie? Hope you guys have a wonderful 1 year ann.! Best Wishes :) -Britty- ((Sorry I put a personal story int here.. I thought maybe it could help seeing someone in the same position))
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DO NOT Have sex with him you ARE TO YOUNG EVEN IF YOU THINK HE IS THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE DONT
SINCERELY askLane
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ur too young lol, give him somethin else... uh u know- be creative.. id wait till 16 personally
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If you want to and you are comfortable with the idea (you sound like it) then go ahead, WITH PROTECTION. It wouldn't be a very nice gift if you got pregnant. Good luck!
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Im 14 and I had sex as a 1 month anniversary present. I think that if u feel completely comfortable with the guy u r with, and u know ur ready, then u should go for it.
Have fun and be safe though!!
Hope I helped!!
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Hunny by having sex with him isnt the best present in the world its just by you being with him you dont have to have sex with someone just cause its your one year and everything...For me 4 years same guy we havent had sex and our relationship is really good and is still going..But if you really feel like you need to do this then im not going to tell you not to but i think that you should wait not tell your 16 but till you really know what you want cause your a little young to be having sex yeah there are people younger then you and everything do stuff but i mean you dont have to have sex to stay pleased and everything you have oral too...You just dont want to have sex to be like everyone else cause thats not the point of having it...you want to make sure its with someone that you know will love you no matter what and when you have it you know that the will respect your wishes when havin sex...I say once again Follow your heart!
-Cass-
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too young. you can buy him a present i mean u dont have to have sex with him for ur annerversery. u can get preganant and you can get a dezize. i dk y ppl my age dont understand that their to young to have sex. ok... if u wunna do it then do it jus realize wut the consequences are. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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okay well you should definitely wait. you are only 14. you're hormones, emotions and impulses will be raging for the next couple of years. do you know how many "loves of your life" you will probably have? i mean you probably think i am being a total bitch. but i am being honest, and telling you from experience. wait! i know you think you are comfortable with this guy now, but he may not be around forever so just wait. and if he cares about you he will understand.
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I mean it is ur life do what you want, but you are WAYYYYYYYYYYY TO YOUNG! I'm still a virgin and 16 yrs old! But it dosen't matter if younger pplz than you have done it...so what! You don't have to do it cause everyone else is doing it, do it when you feel ready, but also take into consideration that you are young so plz wait! It only takes 1 time to get pregnant with/out a condom...if you wait, life will be sooooo much easier in the future! I promise you that! Well I hope you make the right decision! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~
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ur 14 hes not the love of ur life thats silly, but if you feel that YOU are ready which you probly arn't at 14 u can do it, but it would be best to wait. and plus just bc ppl younger than you are doing it dosent mean you have to.
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I think you are too young to have sex, i mean your only 14!get your bf a nice present but don't rush into things.If you decide to take another road and do have sex, please use protection,don't be stupid and make a wrong decision.Think about the consequences.thank you
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It really all depends on you. Every person is ready to have sex when they're ready to have sex, no one can really tell you when you're ready. Granted I think its a little young to be having sex, but if your biological clock is saying you're ready than you are. Just please be safe about it. Ofcourse, once you have sex with him, he's going to want more. just a heads up. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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I think that if you need to ask other people if you should have sex with someone as a gift, then I don't believe that you are ready. My advice is to wait until YOU feel you're ready.
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no, i don't think that's a good idea....you could get pregnant or get some STDs. (sorry if i sound like a health teacher, but it's the truth). But hey, that's just my opinion.
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You should...do what feels right. But I can't seem to fathom the idea that a 14 year old is completely emotionally and physically ready. Sex is a big deal. It's not like giving him a blowjob or anything. It's big. You WILL never be the same again. I know you think he is the "love of your life" and maybe he is, who am I to say that? But you don't know what life will bring you, and I don't want your life to change because of it. You will look at him a different way, and he'll look at you a different way. And once you go foward, you can't go back. I wanted to do this once, but I then realized it wouldn't be a one time thing. It's ongoing. And I don't know...but I don't think you are ready for a sexually active relationship at 14. There's so much that could go wrong, because you both are inexperienced, and it's really not worth it right now. And trust me, if you wait, you won't regret it. It can only go up right? I mean... if he is the love of your life, what's another 2 years? Then atleast you'll be more sure. :) Have faith in yourself.
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well honey im sorry to tell you and i know this probally isnt what you are looking for but him being the love of your life is some what un reasonable. Your 13 right now and im sure in about 10 years you two still wont be dating...you wont be married...and you probally will only remember him by being the guy you lost your virginity to. And if you know people who are younger then you and they are already having sex then that is sad. Little kids shouldnt be doing stuff like that. And you shouldnt say that your going to lose it when our 16. Just dont be in a rush to give up such a precious gift. Just wait and get a few more years under your belt before you make a decision like that. If oyu give it up no...you will regret it i promise you babe!!!!
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