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dont know waht to do
ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks
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okay gurl lisen im the same thing as you say but dont call ur self a loser...jus think do you really like these boys do you really need them..i have been through the same thick and thin..an its hard for the first one ..im not as poupler as people think but still i kno it very hard to go ask people out ecpessicly for us gurls and what you sould do is write a note to him and it dont hve to be perfect.but befor you do ask anyone out make sure you kno them well enough not to well or else it mite brake up the friendship.beloive i went out with this boy not even knowing him and he is such an ass to gurls..i hate im so befor you do anythin make sure you kno him pretty well and dont think about that boy 24/7 ...you should jus try to have fun...hope i helped..box me in if ya need me
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tasha
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You are still young, and it shows that you are nervous around guys. So instead of asking them out on a date try being their friends. Get use to being around guys and how to react to them before you start going out with them. I personally think you are too young to be dating anyway.
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GET THERE SN FIRST and ASK EM OUT ON THE INTERNET THEN ask him if u could meet up with him AT SCHOOL LOOK EVEN THOUGH YOU DONT Want me to tell you this i personnALY THINK YOU SHOULD JUST FLat out ASK THE GUY I MEan you live one life tAKE CHances
sincerely ASKLane
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man people have this problem its not just u, if u like someone dont just go up to them and ask them out..make sure they et to know u, let down ur "shyness" and go talk to people. once u think ur ready u can ask them...theres no rush
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Hello =) I think you should get to know a guy really well before you ask him out. Then, when you get a good relationship - ask him if you could start dating and getting into a serious relationship. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox! <3 Steph
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well when the guy comes along that you like start feeling him out. After you have known him for a while, see if he could ever see you two dating and if he ever thinks you guys could have a civil relationship that would be more then friends. and talks like these are usually ALOT easier on the internet if you cant talk like this to a guy in person(which not alot of girls can). So just start kind of seeing where he sees yall going and who knows!!! he might ask you out first!!!!
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Break ur shell!! Be someone crazy and great! Go up suprise them guys r really not too bright girls will notice the change but boys will just be like woah that girl is soo coool start going to games after school football, soccer u know join clubs. Dont bring ne of ur old friends if u feel they drag u down! i mean this may sound uber shallow but just try to have more fun typically wen a person is having fun theyre the best person theyve ever been! talk to boys dont just ask them out become freinds then move it up a notch! believe me babe ive been there and i had to change somethings before they got better! if u dont like something change it! + ur going to highschool soon correct like in a year? U just wait things r soo much better at the highschool u have classes with upperclassmen and ull beable to make new freinds and there will be hottt boys in ur classes! Hope ur life is great! hope ive helped! things will get better! :)
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Well, you should become friends with him before you even tell him that, (thats if you dont know him), n if you do.. hang out wit him more, go to the movies, and maybe he will get a hint.. but dont like scare him away..!
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I was like that in Middle school and some of High school. Don't just go ask someone out though, what you need to do is learn to be happy with yourself. The only way your going to get over this is to realize that your not a loser, and if someone thinks that you are, then it's their loss.
I don't know how to help you to just be happy with yourself, I'm still sort of working on that. But confidence is really attractive. Just be friends with guys, and maybe you'll actually meet someone that makes you feel good about yourself, instead of someone that makes you too nervous to even talk to them.
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That's exactly how I was in middle school. Don't worry about not having a boyfriend now. Heck, I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I was 16! You'd be surprised at the amount of people who didn't have boyfriends or girlfriends until they were in their mid-teens or so.
Just keep talking to the boys you like, and become friends with them. Eventually you will have the courage to ask someone out, and you won't care about what other people think.
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It's normal! I mean alot of girls are like you! Your only 13 don't get to serious, you have your whole life ahead of you! Don't go to fast, don't get too deep, and watch out for yourself!
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