Kay im almost 15 female...i met this guy bout 3 1/2 years ago...we went out a four times (in tha 3 year period)n he played me 2 times...n tha other time i broke up with him..n tha last time...about 10 months ago he broke up with me bc things were two complicated...well tha whole school year we were on n off friends...he was tha first guy who ever told me that they loved me. And sumhow i noe in his own way he does...well now im not sure were we r at...we have been talking online ALOT flirting n stuff n we talk on tha fone alot two! well he lately we have been really close...n online we were talking and he had said that he really missed me n wanted us ta kick it soon n stuff n he had told me he was sorry bout everything in tha past n that he wants to be with me...well b4 earlier in tha year he would NEVA come ova to my house bc him n my mom dont exactly get along to good...well two nights ago him n his step brother came ova just so he could see me..they stayed fer about two hours or so...we kissed...n then later we made out just a lil bit..n we flirted infront of everyone n we have sooo many inside jokes but yeah...n he would keep tickeling me bc he noes all my tickleish spots n then he had his arms around me n was playin round n kept hittin my ass...it was all in fun n i had alot of fun! then they got picked up by one of there friends...he called me later that night at like midnight n we talked fer an hour or so...he use to neva call me...him n his step brother are 15 and 17...they went up to their grandparents cabin this weekand unsupervised so that kinda sux fer me but he called me twice y-day which he usually doesnt do...i really think he has changed butttttt....my friend stephanie thinks they r guna hook up..she is like obsessivly crazy for him and it is so irratating..im not sure what to do tho?!!?should i trust him n try to be with him or should i try to just forget it... Plllz help XoXo
hellofro answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:27 am: my friend says... botoom line: MEN DONT CHANGE.. i say if thats really it and ur not just thinkin it means more.. than go for it [ hellofro's advice column | Ask hellofro A Question ]
TheNextRingo answered Saturday August 7 2004, 10:40 pm: Well it does seem like you never want to let eachother go. But sometimes it's for the best, that way no one gets hurt in the end. Because there are a lot of fish in the sea if you catch my drift...I hope you come to your senses and make a good decision. [ TheNextRingo's advice column | Ask TheNextRingo A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 10:28 pm: well why does your friend think she is gonna hook up with him? does he flirt with her too? or make her think that? if so then leave the guy alone because he is just playing with your head again. but if you honestly think he is not interested in her, then tell your friend to leave him alone. tell her you still like him and plus it is gross for her to be with someone who you have been with. why does she want your seconds? but as for you and the guy. it seems like he does still like you. maybe he has changed his ways. talk to him about giving things another try. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
Phatfarmgrl2 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 10:13 pm: u should talk to ur friend steph to see how she really feels..n then talk to ur x..but if i was u i would really only be friends wit him cuz he hurt u by playing on u n if u guys broke up that many timez(no offense pllz) something wasnt going rite dat u had to take that many breaks from each otha u understand..
but i try my best to help n i hope i help some what ..if u need anything else juss let me kno
good luck
~*Rebecca*~ [ Phatfarmgrl2's advice column | Ask Phatfarmgrl2 A Question ]
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