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Insest? Oh crap!
Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not?
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Hey!well i'm sorry to say this, but i don't think u guys are hill billys(( no offense to who is)) but honestly, dat is illegal in da U.S.!Ur cousin is just open with u, N dat's it, like brothers N sisters! He looks at u as a close friend/companion. so yea it is wrong dat u like him, no it's not unusual, cuz otha ppl had this problem too, but they eventually ogt ova it!!! Juss talk to him, N i think he might understand! but like as i said, it's illegal, N he does have ur blood in him too! which is a bit odd, N disgustiong, i don't mean to offend u in any way tho! so sorry! but really try to get ova him, he'll be a friend N family member, but nothing more, if u kno wut's best for u, talk to ur family member, but best thing is, is to talk to him!i hope i helped
-Phuong
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He is your cousin and is related by blood.. maybe you just see him as a regular guy, you might be thinking of him like that and imagining him as a good friend. He is probably your best friend, and he probably is a great guy, but he is related by blood. You enjoy hanging out with him but maybe you should try to like someone else, like talk to your cousin about it. Your heart will tell you what to do
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Sweety,this guy is your cousin. Just because he talks about sex with you doesn't mean he likes you like that. He probably felt comfortable stripping down in front of you if you are significantly younger than him. It's just not right that you like him like that and please give this some more thought before you make a total fool of yourself and tell him you like him.
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Okay, ignore the jokes ... that's a bit mean. Your just confused right now. But, no, don't pursue the thing with your cousin. He sounds like a sweet guy. A good guy. I think that maybe, mentally ... you don't have a crush on your cousin ... i think that you have a crush on that type of guy. the gorgous, funny, sweet type a guy that has no problem with telling you anything. I think you have a crush on the fantasy of that guy, not your cousin. Your just confused. And your cousin only undressed in front of you and felt comfortable doing it because your family, and I don't think he would expect you to be like "wow" at him because your his cuz. Anyways ... and he probley talks about sex with you all the time because you might be the only person he's close enough with to talk about that with. Anyways, I hope I helped. Bye.
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okay there is nothing wrong with thinking your cousin is cute. and he probably wasnt uncomfortable being getting undressed in front of you because you guys are family. also, you probably dont have feelings for him. you just think you do because he is probably the only guy or one of the only guys you have really been hanging around lately, and he is a really cool person to you. but trust me you realyl dont like your cousin like that. that wouldbe wrong and you know it. like i said there is nothing wrong with thinking he a great guy or cute, but dont go making any moves on him because that is where is becomes wrong.
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alright, well i'm not gonna say "eew don't like your cousin"...because i know it's not that simple, you can't help who you like...even if he is related to you. but i'd advise against pursuing it any further, considering it's illegal..and try as hard as you can to only think of him as a friend.
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i'm sorry but it's very disturbing that you have a crush on your cousin... it's called INSEST or inbreeding as my dad calls it that normally happens down in alabama or in pennsyltucky.... no offence you guys from PA but the really really country part of PA has alot of insest people
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Well..i kno how u feel...my cousin is awesome and he makes me laugh all the time. I feel so comfortable around him.But its your blood and unless ur family lets you embreed then i wouldnt dare go out with him. But i kno how u feel..
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Dont like your cousin. I'm sure he doesnt like you, but its just wrong... yeah you can think your cousin is cute and everything... I have a "step" cousin I guess you can call him. Hes my step grandma's daughters son or whatever so hes not totally part of my family and hes hot... but I would never hook up with him because he is family. Just dont mention it to him... its just kind of wrong. -holly- hope i helped
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yeah its unusual.. but i think ur alright.. why dont you try askim him something liek this "if we werent related wat wuld you consider me as" .. c his reaction.. i dunno really ive never really thought of that sorta thang.. its all you tho.. hope i helped :) *aSh!
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DONT LIKE YOUR COUSIN I REally dont think he likes you but you never know but it is kindA UNUSUal
lANE
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