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Alrighty... My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. And we have a wonderful relationship. A wonderful, sex free relationship. Just because I want to wait until I'm married. And I'm pretty stuck on it. But since we're going to be sophmores in high school. Everyone gives him shit about it. When people give me shit I'm just like ahhh lol whatever... I dont care. But see, He doesn't tell me all the time that people give him shit about being a virgin. This all came up when one of my guy friends was all like "dude, you've been in a relationship for 2 years and you're still a virgin? You are wooped... blah blah blah" And he tells me not to worry about it... But I kinda wonder how he's feeling and if there's anyway I could do something about it. I mean yes, we are sexual... But I don't plan on having sex any time soon... Thanks for your time :)
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Dont worry about what everyone says. if u don't want to have sex... dont let it get to ya that ppl think thats wrong. its completely your choice. i think its GREAT that u r waiting. i wish i would have.. but i cant now. just stick to your values and dont listen to all the bullshit ppl give u
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Well, I'm not shoRe if there is anything you can do about it Really. I mean, they give him shit about being a viRgin, and theRe's only one way to fix that, and we both know how that is. HoweveR, you should definitely NOT feel foRced to sleep with him because of this. PeRhaps it DOES upset him that people say those things to him, but I'm shoRe he feels it's woRth if he knows how much waiting until maRRiage means to you! I'm assuming he's a gReat guy if you've been togetheR so long, and he's so good about taking eveRyone else's cRap, so I sinceRely doubt he'd Run off and leave you if he hasn't alReady. I'd say to tell him how much you appReciate the fact that he's so undeRstanding about youR decision. Just keep youR head up, and shake all the negative comments off! I wish you the veRy best! Take caRe! Hope I helped! =D
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OMG..this is scary..im in the same exact situation no kidding..me and my boo will be a year in october..and the farthest we've gone is making out..and his friends are always like damn..u havent hit that yet..or u still get no booty..and there like u in check..this gurl got u wipped..and i feel bad..cuz they call me prude and shyt..but shoot..i wanna wait till marriage juss like you..so what i keep in my head is this is something very important to me..and if he cares about me as much as he says and hes still with me knowing im not going to give him my virginity then thats all that matters. As long as he respects you and your opinion you got a good boy your with. My boo never complains bout me not doing stuff with him..and i take it he actually cares and respects me..haha..and were gonna b sophmores too..im tellin u this is so freaky..keep up with me i wanna know how things go
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Well ask him about it. Guys get pressured like that a lot more. Because they wanna be the "big" guy in the school and stuff. But it sounds like your boyfriend is commited to you and won't take crap from anyone. Ask him if he wants to talk about it. Hope I helped! <3
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if you dont wANNa hAVE SEX IT IS FINE I agree with you , youshouldnt hAVE SEX TILL YOUR Married your your won person dont be peer pressured ABOUT SOMETHING YOU DONT FEEL RIGHT about doin
sincerely ASKLane
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sounds like you have an awesome bf...just make sure that he knos how much you appreciate the way he respects you...with his friends - don't let it bother you bcuz i'm sure they just do it to get a laugh and your bf probably knos this !
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