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GIRLS????????
ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do??????
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lol... right after you say it maybe tell her you didnt mean it and you'd do anything to make her believe you... that would be really sweet and she might forgive you for saying it.
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Maybe if you planned some things to talk about ahead of time, you won't be so nervous. For example, you could mention a new song or something that happened in school. Just about anything would work (unless it's some OUT THERE topic, of course). Also, if you think about what you're going to say right before you say it, it won't come out as weird as you think. Hope we helped!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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BEFORE YOU Walk up to A GIRL PRactice wAT YOU are gonnA Say
sincerely ASKLane
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i have two words BE YOURSELFF! then girls will see your not a jerk unless you are haha juss jokin hope i helped rate me bye
<3.Taylor
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this may sound stupid but try practicing in the mirrior! try thinking of..suave..things to say that wont make the girls thik that ur a jerk! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota ~If YoU nEeD nE tHiNg ElSe JuSt DrOp OnE iN mY iNbOx
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Well take it from a girl, if a girl really likes you and wants to get to know you and isnt only in it for the looks, she'll take the time to get to know you and not judge you right away by the things you say at first. Everyone is nervous around people of the opposite sex in which they like its just some people show it more then others.
Good Luck ;)*
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when u get close to a gurl dont try to hard n b someone ur not...sometimes when u try to hard gettin wut u want u end up acting stupid...so next time u wanna hit on some gurl relax...okay...n b u...dont try to hard...cuz usually when u try hard u end up doin something stupid :) so relax n b ur self :) everything will b fine :) xoxo effy
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I bet ure not being a jerk... see when i was fourteen and the boys were too i thought they were funny, i still like immature humor but that is just me... what kind of things do u say that make u feel like your a jerk? that would help because perhaps u just feel like a jerk, you could just be beeing too hard on urself.. im me sometime if you would like to discuss this further!
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it sounds as tho ur tryin too hard.... just relax and if the first thing u say to a girl comes off as jerkish, then recover by givin her a compliment! trust me, ladies like that stuff. GOOD LUCK!!
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you probably say stupid things because you are nervous and you are trying to hard. just relax and be yourself.
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one big thing is, if you think they're hot .. it might be nice to say a few times "you're beautiful". girls appreciate the word beautiful more than hot because you act more intrested in them, not their looks. also, when you're talking to her, don't say "You have a big ass!" or "You have big boobs!" or "You're hot!", talk about things like how sweet you think they are, or how funny they are. don't be too perv-ish. if you're gonna compliment on them to show your love, try to talk about their "wonderful personality" more then how attractive they look.
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think bout what you say before you go al out and say the wrong thing because it doesnt take that much to piss a gurl off. so just basically whatch what u say. another thing to do is change the way you act if you come off as a jerk, no gurl wants a jerk, and mayb you should try not bein so uptight to gurls, and just have fun and be you and if they cant accept that then mayb they dont deserve you!
-stephanie
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okay from a girls perspective I think you should just think before you speak...always...what kind of stupid stuff? if its just your personality i guess you cant change it but if its your nerves making you just spit out words than you should try to talk to girls and get closer to the girls you feel most comfortable around if a girl intimidates you stay away for a while until you feel more comfortable with her try and be friends before girlfriend boyfriend...girls tend to fall for the guy friend...happens to me all the time...
<- I hope I helped if you need anymore girl help or anything else just ask ->
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Well, people leaRn by tRial and eRRoR.. just don't be stupid. Watch some chick flicks and wRite down eveRything the hunk says. And if that doesn't woRk... don't talk.. you'Re not Ready foR a Relationship... =D Hope I helped!
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Im 14 and im a girl. Im just going to tell u that when i have a boyfriend he sometimes does and says stupid things. but you know what if a girl really likes you then she will look past that side of you and like you for who you really are. so just because you think that they think your a jerk, just when u say something stupid try and make a joke out of it if you can, but whatever you do DONT make fun of the girl in ANY way if you joke around.
Hope it helps!! <3
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Think before you speak... Very very good thing to learn...
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think before you speak and think before you do things
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