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so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want...
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i think you should where the clothes that make you feel good not your friends and nobody is ever a pretty slut but im sure YOU"RE pretty! juss keep up the fact that you are comfortable wit your body! and where clothes that you feel good in!! hope i helped rate me bye
<3.Taylor
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listen ur finally comfortable with ur body, so be comfortable in what u wear...buy some abercrobie clothes for some occasions and comfortable clothes for others.
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you should do what ever looks and FEELS right for YOU If you like the way you look now but dont want to flaunt it then tell your friends that. If they dont appricate it then there not really your friends anyway. Its OK to dress like a slut sometimes and the attention is nice but its also nice to just be yourself. remember that and youll be fine
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I think you should just make sure ure happy with urself! But yes im sure ur loving the attention ure gettting! I think that you should still pull all of the "stunts" and "crack the jokes" so what if ur "hotter" now, the guys will love u even more if u can be hott and funny at the same time! + a girls best look is usually tight blue jeans and a white tee-shirt! so i mean u can be simple but yet "hott." But good luck to yah! and great job on losing the wieght!
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what response did you want?? if you look good and feel good, people are going to notice it's attractive to people. confidence is a good thing.
but do whatever you feel comfortable with! don't let your friends talk to you into it if you do want it. good luck! send me amessage for more advice.
xox Kristen
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well if you are uncomfortable with all the attention you are getting, the just let your friends know that its great that they think you look great but you just want then to treat you like you're the same person, because you are the same person inside. and you should feel good about the fact that you are happy with yourself. thats a good thing.
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If you like the way you dress, dress that way. Let your guy friend know you aren't comfortable with their response, and if they could be sweeter like "You're pretty" instead of "A hot slut" then maybe things this way can work out.
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what response do you want? Its always going to be the first things guys notice how you look...but you dont have to change who you are because of this reaction...but when you get your clothes make sure you arent just being your friends get clothes that match your attitude dont dress like a slut cuz guys are going to think thats who you are a slut and thats the reaction I think that you dont want...so make sure you stil feel good in the clothes but make sure you dont think your going to get the reaction from the guys that you dont want
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If the responce isnt what you want then dont wear those clothes, i know what you mean by ur proud of what u look like and stuff but if u dont like what guys are saying then just take it down a notch, and just out of curiosity how did you lose all the weight?? because im trying but nothings working! Email me please! CrazyChik4eva52@msn.com
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Be you... Find your own style and stick with it. I mean then attention can be nice... But guys give gurls that they think are sluts attention for one reason... And make sure they give you attention because you truly are beautiful.. And not because of your new hott body. I mean yeah it's nice to wear things you like... But watch out for the guys now! *lol* Best Wishes!! If ya need anything ask me! :) -Britty-
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who cares what everyone else is wearing or wanting you to wear...its your body and how ever your comfortable should matter...what kind of a response are you looking for?
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