ok my best(guy) friend just told me he liked me. i was gonna tell him that i kinda liked someone else but then he sed that. ive always kinda liked him tho. and now he wants to not go out but he wants to just hong out and know that we both like eachother. thats fine with me but im not sure if i like him. tomorrow we are going to the library and he wants to know if i like him or not. i told him that i would think about it and tell him tomorrow. im not sure wut to do cuz yea i kinda like him but i kinda like someone else to. and that someone else is his bestfriend. i dont want to say that i like him cuz i dont think that would be fair. but i dont want to say that i dont like him cuz thats not the truth. please help
mob-boss answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:06 pm: just go out with the one you know that likes you and if u find out you don't really like him go out with his best friend.
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:00 pm: You should definitely be honest and straight forward with him.It's not fair to lead him on.Let him know that you do like him,but that right now you're unsure of what to do because you do like someone else too.Make sure to let him know that you really do care about him a lot and that's why you want to take it slow and think things thru!! [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
BigBadAdViCeGiVrKT answered Monday July 26 2004, 9:50 pm: In my opinion i would say you should tell him the truth and how you feel. Tell him that youre not really sure whether or not you like him as more then a friend, but your willing to hang out and see where the relationship goes. When you like him, you will know. You have to find things in him that really make you happy and that will help. Im not sure if u should tell him about liking his best friend, but if you think he wont mind to much then tell him. Truth is the best way to have a relationship. If your not ready for a relationship let him know that. Tell him you need more time.
Hope i helped!
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winks4life answered Monday July 26 2004, 9:49 pm: ok the best thing for you to do is tell him how you really feel.. tell him that you kinda like him and have always kinda liked him but yuo also kinda like someone else right now. maybe you guys should give a realtionship a try but in order to do that you should hang out more cuz if you both only like each other a little it wouldnt work. i have someone who is just like that and its the type of thing you will always kinda like that person but not strong enough to date. the best thing to do it *Follow your heart girl) hope i helped!!! :) rate me!!!
GC_rox_my_sox answered Monday July 26 2004, 9:47 pm: I think you should give him a chance. Best guy friends usually end up making really good boyfriends, because you already feel comfortable with each other. It's a big change, so things may be awkward at first, but take it slow, and it will probably work out. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
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