E-mail: bigbadkt382@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: DaBigBadKT382
Member Since: July 25, 2004
Answers: 4
Last Update: July 26, 2004
Visitors: 594
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ok my best(guy) friend just told me he liked me. i was gonna tell him that i kinda liked someone else but then he sed that. ive always kinda liked him tho. and now he wants to not go out but he wants to just hong out and know that we both like eachother. thats fine with me but im not sure if i like him. tomorrow we are going to the library and he wants to know if i like him or not. i told him that i would think about it and tell him tomorrow. im not sure wut to do cuz yea i kinda like him but i kinda like someone else to. and that someone else is his bestfriend. i dont want to say that i like him cuz i dont think that would be fair. but i dont want to say that i dont like him cuz thats not the truth. please help
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In my opinion i would say you should tell him the truth and how you feel. Tell him that youre not really sure whether or not you like him as more then a friend, but your willing to hang out and see where the relationship goes. When you like him, you will know. You have to find things in him that really make you happy and that will help. Im not sure if u should tell him about liking his best friend, but if you think he wont mind to much then tell him. Truth is the best way to have a relationship. If your not ready for a relationship let him know that. Tell him you need more time.
Hope i helped!
KT
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Theres a lot of things wrong with me when I have sex. To most guys my problems sound like a dream come true, but in the long run they are a huge problem. When I have sex, sometimes I can't get all the way up for a while. I'm not even 20, so I doubt I need viagra. A lot of my friends pop a boner the second a girl starts cuddling with them and they hate it, but I save myself the embarrassment and just can't have sex when the time comes. Also, a lot of my friends ejaculate too early (after 3 or 4 minutes) but I personally last for an hour maybe two one end. I know this also sounds like a dream come true, but in the end I usually end up getting tired, bored, and I rarely even finish. I know it's good for the girl, but what about if I ever want to have kids?
I thought about whether I was gay, but I have absolutely no attraction to guys and I really do like girls, just more emotionally than physically. I enjoy the cuddling and long evening walks in the park to getting drunk and fucking in a back room kind of thing. Is there any thing I can do without seeking medical help? (link)
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I dont think anything is wrong with you at all. There are plenty of girls out there who are more into emotional guys. You'll find youre girl one day and she'll make you the happiest guy on the earth. Sex isn't everything, I mean it's great and all, but sometimes its nice to just cuddle, and some girls would much rather cuddle then have sex. Dont worry so much about it, when you get older and start thinkin about having kids then maybe you will decide to go to a doctor and see if theres anything you can do, but untill then just relax and do what you can. Hope i helped. Need anything else youre more then welcome to hit up my inbox!
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
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i dont think you want a REAL relationship yet.. i mean your only 13 you've still got a couple years for thinking about a REAL relationship.
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School is about to start and I know homecoming dance comes soon after that. I'm going into my second year of high school and I skipped the dance last year. I don't have any trouble getting dates or anything like that, I just feel really uncomfortable on the dance floor. My friends have seen me dance and say I'm not bad for a white guy, but I still feel really uncomfortable. Any suggestions? (link)
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Well first off you have to be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with other people, so start off with finding something to wear that youre comfortable in, and shoes and hair etc...
Then once youve done that find a guy (if you want a date) that you feel comfortable around and you feel you would be able to dance with. Sometime when im unconfortable doing things i just have to stick it out if i know i really wanna do something, and once youre getting into it, it will get better and you'll feel way more comfortable and you'll be dancing with all the guys! Trust me, once your out there and you start dancing and having a good time with your friends you'll feel great! You'll have a blast, you might be a little nervous at first but that will fade! Have fun!
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