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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':.
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Well Sarah, I am already 13, and I have experienced the same problems. I have been in one or two "serious relationships". Unfortunatly I haven't made out or even kissed a girl. This really sucks considering I look like I'm 15, and have been called a "playa". Many girls have told me that they like me because I'm hot. I have still yet to make out. When school begins, be on the look out for some guys. But first you gotta ask yourself, are you hot? Will the guys that you like want you. If you are hot, you'll probably score. If you have anymore questions check my profile for my screen name. Peace up, a-town down.
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Sarah-
Don't worry! I don't know your definition of a real relationship is but if you want to have a boyfriend go ahead! My only advice is when you do have a boyfriend don't go crazy and rush things. Take things at your own pace. Have fun!
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i was 13 when i had my first boyfriend, it only lasted a week though. and my first real relationship happened when i was 14. i dont think you're too young, but still you have a while before you have to worry about that. and i never got kissed until i was 14 1/2. just enjoy being single while you can.
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I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 14. Incidentally, that was also when I had my first kiss. I was a freshman in high school. It's perfectly fine to be 13 and never had a real relationship, I know people who are 17 and 18 who have never had a real relationship, and there's nothing wrong with them. I'd say.. just be looking for friends, until you get a little bit older. All the people I know who started dating when they were younger realised that there wasn't a need for it. And maybe, if you look around at all the guy friends you already have, there might be one you're interested in. As I've found, most the guys I've wanted to date were the ones I've known for years, not the ones I just met.
~and my name's sarah too! =]
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aw it'll be ok.. ur just going through a lot of changes.. just enjoy being a kid cuz one day you'll miss it all!! when the right time comes and it was meant to be then you'll get your first real relationship and kiss and stuff. jsut try not to rush things even though i know its hard not too.. i know u just want to get kissed and everything but just wait and wait for it to be a specia ltime!! =)
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Hi Sarah,
Don`t worry it`s not sad at all! I am the same as you, 13 without a relationship. None of my friends have been in one either. It`s fine. Your never too young or old to fall in love, but love isn`t real if it`s just because and you will probably get hurt that way =[ And there`s plenty of fun other than guys! There will be new girls too, and that means for girl-friends and guy-friends too!
Hope it works out!
-xox-
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your deff not too young jus go for it if it feels right..<3
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Well, don't go out there with the intent of getting into a relationship "just because" or because you feel like you're missing out if you aren't in a relationship. You have plenty of time yes. Go to school, see what happens. My first real relationship was at 16, and that also spawned my first kiss. So, compare yourself to that and don't feel so bad. There is no need to rush or force yourself into a relationship just because you feel like you need to be in one.
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Dont worry about it! you shouldn't be rushin anything..do it when u think your ready..i mean there isnt really a certain age to be inlove...you'll meet plenty of guys but when u think ur inlove your inlove
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i dont think you want a REAL relationship yet.. i mean your only 13 you've still got a couple years for thinking about a REAL relationship.
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well u will have many guys in ur life! so u dont need to rush anything! and i no it may be a lil lonley! but just try ur best to get to know some of the guys at ur school!! and just live life to the fullest..guy or no guy!
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Hey there!Your Fine!!Its way okay to not have a boyfriend till your older.Your not to young but its okay if you haven't had a real relationship.A few of my friends haven't had any REAL boyfriends either..just boys that like them and that they like.Yeah I and my friends are alwayz talkin about how they wanna kiss someone..so your normal. If you feel your ready for a bf then go for it and get who you want..take chances and have fun! GOOD LUCK!
*much love*
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Thats not sad!! I think thats the age when you should start dating, anyways! Don't worry, everything will be fine :)
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Your just 13? That is not in any way sad!! I dont think people should start dating at 13. It seems that alot of relationships that are at a young age arnt really relationships but more like a fashiong accesory
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Theres really never a time where your "to young" but REAL relationships are hard to find that young.. atleast ones that last! Just have fun in your last year of middle school.. the right guy will come sooner or later... dont rush things! Having a boyfriend wont make your year funner... actually not having one i'd say would be better! But thats up to you. Middle school relationships to me are kind of pointless... but maybe i just say that cuz mine never lasted! Good luck
-holly-
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dont worry about it sarah, u dont have to rush relationships they'll come to you so dont worry or rush just wait till u find someone ur attracted too and go for it :)
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I know it sounds crappy, and maybe you dont want to hear this but hear me out anyway. Relationships come easy.. you dont have to change yourself.. you dont have to anything. Your not too young for a relationship its just a matter of if one will come along for you.. we're the same age and i know what your saying but some things in life we dont understand... and Mr. Right will come at the most unexpected time of your life. When he does.. you'll be so glad you didnt rush into anything...
good luck
XoXo
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