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thanx for replying, but the thing is, everyone thinks that i'm just a backup to him. They think when he wnats something i'll be there. All i'm saying is i dont' turn my back on anyone. I'll be there when he needs me, but i don't look him at him in the same way no more. He ruined my trust,lost my respect! i mean we don't go out, so i shouldn't get all madd and stuff. But why am i so upset? i'm usually "disappointed" towards him, never mad, but really i am! I can forgive but this i really don't know...do u know anyone who had this same issue? What would you do? sorry again for the long questions....thanx tho!take care (link)
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you shouldn't turn your back on him and why shouldn't u be mad? theres nothing wrong with that and has he even made an attempt at wanting your forgiveness? he should want your forgiveness before you just give it too him. I personally im not a girl but i think in your situation i would just not let him take advantage of me always being there. mabe dont let him be so sure that you'll always be a nice back up plan or something.
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Hey,ur really cute.but that's not what i'm here for.lol! well my ex boyfriend and me were off and on, and, we recently broke up(prolly 3-4 weeks ago) He says i'm the only girl he can trust and i'm easy to talk to, and i'm his closest friend other then his bis bff*D*, and his cuzint *J*! He says i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy. That'll never change. I honestly believed it. But yesterday, i went to my friends house, which is his friends too. Well i went over there, and i didn't know if he knew i was comming over but, Zach((our friend,the person house we went to)) was like yea *B* and *DC* and*JAY* are upstairs with these two other chix, so i went up there thinking nuttins wrong, but when i walked in, *DC* was under the blankets with some chik, and muh ex*B* was in bed, under the blankets with another girl. Zach said it was like a make-out party up there. my question is, why is he doing this to me? after he said all those "crap" to me. Oh also, he said he couldn't get over me,dat's why he broke up with this junior he dated(they went out for like 2 weeks) he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. Also a bunch of ppl at our school thought we were going to be High School Sweethearts. but after this i'm really confused. What is he trying to prove? Does he hate me now? why did he kiss her in front of me? i just ned to know in a guys perspective. Thanx so much in advance, and i'm SOOO sorry this is so long.
.:*confused EX*:. (link)
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well u lil confused ex you. i think that this guy feels safe with you and he really can trust you, but this was a big mistake he made. i think you're safe to him and he feels comfortbale in the fact that you'll always be there for him. BUT AGAIN you cant always be there for somebody that isnt gonna give you the love and respect you deserve. in the end i think your what he really needs and wants but by no means does that mean you have to sit around and wait for him to find that out.
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ugh. all of my friends are always talkin about how awesome their boyfriends are and all this stuff. and i really dont have one or have anyone im really into. =[ how do i meet someone that i would be into? any ideas? btw--ur relaly good at giving advice. u take it seriously which is awesome! (link)
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hey well first of all boyfriends are really great now but soon they'll be in fights and angry at each other and it'll get ugly so dont get too jealous about that. second dont rush it ull run into someone ull like and ull know it right off the bat its just how life works so u just gotta be patient on that one n thanx for the complement :) lata
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Theres a guy i've been into for now a year.. and its crazy. I mean sure he felt the same way, but it would "never" work out between us. Honestly we've gone through a lot.. and hes moving on and I am trying so hard. Sure I've told him what i've felt in the past but never directly. ha He told me if I was interested in a guy just walk up to him and tell him what Im feeling.. he said I hesitate to much, never saying whats on my mind then and there and then its to late. Id really love to know what he'd say if I directly told him how I was feeling next time I saw him, yet I dont want to know because nothing will or can happen. what do I do (link)
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haha well it sounds like u've made up ur mind nothing can or will happen so i wouldnt tell him honestly i would just try to move on and see what else life has for you. if hes already moving along u should probably just follow suit theres a BUNCH of guys out there so just take ur pick :) lata
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if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate (link)
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i would gett them somethin but not like personal like maybe a gift card or somethin like that
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my friends parents didnt save up money for her to go to college and they tell her that she cant live away from home and has to go to community college or the one nearby even tho she wants to go away - shes smart tho, like she gets good grades and stuff just not high enuf to get a large scholarship and i feel bad bcuz she doesnt have much options and i do ~ is there any way to help? (link)
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well if she goes to a junior college for a year and really works hard and pulls like all a's or something she can get a big scholarship for a big school or she can get a job or a loan but a loan follows u for a long time. if shes in florida she could try bright futures but that might jus be in florida. (thats the state where its hot all the time)
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hi i moved july 6 and well i have the oppourtunity to stay at my school where i was going before i only have one more year ( going into 7th) and but i can go to a diff school if i want (it a long story) welll if i go to the new school i can start over but im not sure if i want to and if i go to the same school it will be the same ol' borin stuff!! well i need help and i will rate only 4's and 5's so? can you help? (link)
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hey well i switched schools last year and i loved it. u can totally reinvent urself make new friends meet new people and its nice to have a change so i would do that but i can see why u would want to stay with ur old friends and finish off middle school with them too. but try the dif school shake stuff up a bit mabe meet u a nice chica or somethin ey?
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Hey! well i have basketball which takes like most of my time, cuz we have practice from 3-6 N school startin soon N stuff! our games commin up,well i want to be able to go to da football games to cheer on hawks! N to show a guy i'll support him! u kno?Well i like him a lot, N we see eachotha up @ school,but like he doesn't talk to me, but he talks to this otha gurl dat used ta be muh friend, i dont' kno wut me N her is anymore, but like wat makes me so differ form her?I guess he's busy too, cuz of football, da coaches are mostly on his ass cuz of QB! so yea, but i want to call him, N i have, but l8ly no one picks up, or he doesn't return muh calls, i can understand if muh line is busy, but when i talk to his friends((they muh friends too))he doesn't come wit them to tlak to me, he alwayz did b4 but not now!why is this? for da otha gurl he does! i'm so confused*lol*Our lockers are right next to eachotha N i dunno if it's good or bad, cuz everything dat came out of mouth l8ly wuz pretty mean, but i think he wuz juss messin round....please answer da questions sumwherres ^ therre*lol* but herre's sum mores, Wut can catch his eyes? How can i approach him?should i try to see wuts goin on wit da otha gurl? ((we were once best friends but we drifted away!N now she in a differ crew, N i guess both of da ppl we chill wit, don't clique))should i try to talk to him? if i call him, wut should we talk bout, cuz therre's times therres dead silience N i'm da person talkin, but he's tired, N i'm tired too*lol*! wut do i do? i'm sorry it's long, Thanx a bunch! Take care (link)
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well i would start off by seein whats up with YOU and ur ex best friend i mean u had to drift away for a reason and friends last longer than boyfriends neway. about catchin his eyes i would just wear stuff u like cuz it kinda depends on what he likes girls to wear to catch his eyes. you too obviusly know each other so just talk about like school n ur different sports n if hes nervous about his games n what he wants to do after high school. n his classes. n his friends. n ur friends........theres alot to talk about so just dont be nervous when ur nervous on the phone theres dead time and thats what kills ya. dont call over and over and over again tho just call every once in a while n try talkin at ur locker it doesnt have to be an in-depth conversation just about like his next class or somethin. but i would try to rebuild the bridge between u n ur old best friend first jus to see what sup there n while ur doin that u can find out if theres nethin with her n ur boi. lata
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I don't want to interfere at all with this guys life, not anymore than I already think I did. But seeing him today, all I could do was stare, he makes me feel things that I shouldn't be feelings, especially now, and we're not even friends anymore, but he came up and hugged me, not saying a word and walked away. He's now got a girlfriend, and I really hope hes happy, cause he looks like he is, but I really want to know if he is, so I can tell him how Im feeling and it makes no sense to go back to nothing, before it was useless, I don't know what to do. Hes confusing, and a jerk. as I keep telling myself.. (link)
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hey that sounds like a tough situation but u know things have a way of working out. but for this one i would talk to him whatever u did in the past u can still be friends just start talking see if u can rebuild some of those bridges u might have burned down. just go for the friend thing from there u can find out if he wants to be more.
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I am almost 15, a sophmore in high school, and I am yet to experience a kiss from a guy. I've had opportunites but I don't take them, and I question myself later why I don't. Some of my friends say its pathetic, or that they cant believe i've never kissed a guy. I guess i'm waiting til its the right opportunity, but Im kind of tired of it.. but I doubt you can relate.. I dont know whats going on with me. (link)
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hey i can relate definitly. i've kissed a girl but it wasnt untill recently. ya no rush at all people say ur not gonna be experienced or ur not gonna be good or whatever but it doesnt matter its pretty natural once u get into it like ur body knows what to do. so wait untill u really like a guy so ur first kiss is something u remember forever
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Since ur a guy, I gotta question 4 ya! Haha. I was just wondering, wut are some good present/gifts that u can get for or give 2 ur boyfriend 4 an anniversary or birthday type deal? My boyfriend is around ur age and we have been going out 4 about 9 and a half months. Sorry, this question may be lame or w/e, but I figured I'd give it a shot and ask since I'm clueless when it comes 2 wut a guy would want. Thanks! (link)
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haha no good question cuz it sucks when guys get 15 things of cologne. (i know from experience....last christmas......not good) neway i like gettin shirts like if hes in to sports mabe his fav sports team or a funny shirt or somethin its also cool to get like chains or somethin if he dont have one mabe u could kiss him if u guys havent done that haha that would be cool. comin from a guy :) good luck lata
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Hey! well i'm a colomnist too...VBabi13! but i juss a guys opinion! N i like how u answers things for other ppl, so i want ur advice*lol*, did i make any sense? anywayz....well my ex, we were off N on since like 7th grade, N we freshmens now. i guess u can say we have a history...we broke up N stuff, but i guess we don't actually go out, we look like we do or we act like we do! I kno so much bout him, cuz he opens up to me, N i feel like i can do the same thing back. goin out or not we still friends, we talk, but lately we haven't! I dunno why, i think the last time i talked to him, he wuzn't happy, his voice, juss drifted, i knew suttin wuz wrong but he kept on sayin "nothing"!!! We were pretty intimate, N we did both say to eachotha ((when we dating)) "i love you"...but all in all, u odn't forget your first love,right?well i think, personally, we still have strong feelings for eachother! well my question is, do u think he would have a lot of interest in me like when we wuz dating, N do u think goin out again would last longer?N what we have for eachotha, is it real?i can't stop thinkin bout wut we had N did,N i miss it A LOT! does he? (link)
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WELL haha ill take this one step by step. if u guys have been of and on and it still sounds like u guys are kinda off and on mabe u should try bein without him i mean u really dont know what its like to be without him and ur starting high school so theres alotta new people so u could do that. or u could just talk to him about it hes probably into giving it another try but if ur gonna do that u should do something soon because he sounds like hes kinda getting uninterested so u gotta reinterest him ;) haha so there ya go good luck kid lata
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I don't get this guy, last month its we'll I never really cared about you, we we're never really friends to begin with, and have a good life. And I was finally beginning to accept it, that we really we're never going to talk again, now he just started talking to me again and acts like we can pick up where we left off, which was nowhere because "we were never really friends" honestly I think he just wanted me to know about his new girlfriend to rub it in my face, and confronting him is impossible, hes impossible. now what? (link)
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just let him go move on hes not worth ur time. if hes got a 'new girlfriend' than hes already moved on and just is trying to mess up ur life so dont let him. forget about him. detach him from ur memory.
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Help guys, I'm scared to go to the club with my friends because I don't know how to dance! Like even when were just jokin aroudn and dancing I won't do it because I don't know how. I don't know how to move my arms, legs, or stomache. I honestly need help!
Thank You sooooo much (link)
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the answer to this question is simple. u put ur right hand in THAN u take ur right hand out. after this u must proceed to put ur LEFT hand in THAN this parts crucial, and a little difficult you take your left hand OUT. ok doubt that helped but just act real cute n flirty and watch ur friends its easy ull get the hang of it
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? Should I call him? (link)
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haha lets takes these one at a time. he was definitly being sweet the question is why he was bein sweet. i think he has feelings for you just becuz that sounds like a guy thing to do when u have feelings for someone bumping into them and stuff so i think u have a chance with him and i think it was in a good way and u could call him but i personally would make sure he had ur number and he holla at you. :)
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ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
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guys have jealousy in there genes too but its not really right that girls cant look at guys but guys can look at girls but also like if a guy calls a girl whos his friend most girls will get mad and than get mad when we get mad for them callin a guy friend....its a visius cycle that nobody really understands but hey gotta love love. :)
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im upset because my friend has a boyfriend and i dont and she doesnt have a good relationship with him but at least she has 1. i think im mature enough to handle 1.. and i could be with someone in my own grade but at the same time i want to be with someone who is older and more mature than i am. I dont know if i should stick to where i feel comfortable or take a risk and go for the older guys. help me please (link)
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hey dont worry about whether ur friend has a boyfriend or not u have to wait for your guy. ur guy might be ur age or way older or a lil older or whatever but hes gonna be perfect for you and the only guy u want so just wait on him and u wont regret it. :)
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im going to b a freshman in high school and i was wonderin if anyone could tell me what homecoming is like. do u have to get all fancy or wut? i have never heard about it b4 so im kinda nervous. also r there like sadie hawkins dances?(where the girl asks the boy) im just wonderin. thanx! (link)
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homecomings rock u do get dressed up and usualy there are dances and they rock and theirs a football game and that rocks and theres big rocks and they rock? ok that was too far but ya its soo fun its not for a while tho so u got time to plan. :)
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well i still realy like my x bf i dumped him cuz i am dumb and i regret it. but ne way while i was going out with him i gave my friend his sn for this reason and told her not to talk to him..well i found out today that after we broke up (she still knows i like him alot) she IMd him and was flirting with him alot..this just bugs me becuz she knows i wouldnt do that to her and how much i like him. so i didnt find this out till today it happened like a week or something ago but that day he ran into my friend at the mall and they talked and then that night he called me and i am just really confused..i guess its jealousy but idk anyone have anyone to say anything about this if u actually kno what i a,m talking about..? thx if u do (link)
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hey i dunno sounds like ur friend isnt a real good friend. but i would jus talk to her about it and see whats goin on but also talk to the guy he would prob wanna take u back first neway cuz u guys already had a relationship so holla at em chica ;)
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':. (link)
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dont worry about it sarah, u dont have to rush relationships they'll come to you so dont worry or rush just wait till u find someone ur attracted too and go for it :)
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