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ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do...
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Welcome to the wonderful world of the double standard! Its a proven fact that girls are more mature, meaning that they don;t need to "check" a guy out to feel like they're a woman,unlike men!
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while that is true that girls get hurt usually more easily... gurls r also a lot more mature and kno how to control themselves where as guys dont really... not very well lol... its not really fair but i say get used to it.. unless ur man is touching theres no reason he cant look... but thats just me
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I don't think guys are joking around when they check out girls. What kind of joke is that? Who thinks that's funny? Does the guy think, "Hey, I just pissed off my girlfriend by checking out another girl. That's hilarious!"? I think it's because some guys just can't control whether or not they look. They've been doing it for so long they don't even notice when they do it. It's all really just down to the individual. I try not to check out girls when I'm dating, and I would be slightly bothered if someone I was dating checked a guy out. It's still okay if she does it though.
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Because for the most part guys are just kidding. Most of the time when a guy checks out another girl while he's out with his girl,he's just speaking his mind but has no intention of actually banging the other girl. Girls don't joke about that kind of shit though,they really mean it. Plus our egos are a lot bigger,so when we see our girl doing this,we get really hurt and pissed off. No excuse,but there's why.
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I don't think it's okay for a guy to check out other girls. There's no excuse for it.
My guy doesn't check out other girls, but if he did, it would probably bother me, just like it would bother him if I looked at other guys.
Girls and guys both get hurt easily (the sensitive guys, anyway.) Girls are just more open about it.
That's why I always urge people to open up to their significant others. Miscommunication = baaaad.
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-Siren =)
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It's okay for everybody to check out people.
It's part of being human.
If your boy has a problem with you checkin' out boys whoop his ass.
Go ahead check the boys out.
Let him check out the girls.
It's just lookin', it's not like he's touching.
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It`z not Okaii` fer a quy tO lOok at other qirlz! but quyz dOn`t seem tO understand that, us qirlz need tO start sayinq sumthinq abOut how we feel. Or, we can just loOk at Other quyz and say, "Oh it`z tha female hOrmOne`z, nO biq deal." But of cOurse as qirlz, everythiqn iz different, and it shOuldn`t be that way!
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guys have jealousy in there genes too but its not really right that girls cant look at guys but guys can look at girls but also like if a guy calls a girl whos his friend most girls will get mad and than get mad when we get mad for them callin a guy friend....its a visius cycle that nobody really understands but hey gotta love love. :)
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It is instinctual for guys to check out girls. I mean technically we are all animals and guys are always looking for a woman. It's not ok, but we just kind of have an urge to look, its just curiosity. Girls can do it if they want as long as they make sure that the man in their life knows that he comes first. Also, girls don't get hurt easier than guys do. I get hurt all the time and Im a guy, guys just usually hide it or express it in anger while girls talk about it and get depressed.
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I know exactly what you mean. Guys think they rule the world and they can do whatever they want. My boyfriend is allowed to talk to girls, but I'm not allowed to talk to guys! It isn't fair and you have to explain to whatever guy you're with, if they do it...so can you! Tell them it's just fair, and they can't tell you what to do and what not to do. Guys just say it's 'normal' so they can get away with it. Well, tell them you're naturally flirty and you cant help that ;] hope i helped xo
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