I'm a 15 year old girl & I love giving advice ;] If you need any help, ask me and I'll try my best to help ya out! xo
Member Since: July 18, 2004
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Last Update: October 18, 2004
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Ok i need help! i havent really gotten over any guy i have ever went out with. crazy i know but once i really like someone and went out and what not i havent really gotten over them just moved forward in a way. and like i want to not have feelings for this guy cuz he is not good for me or so everyone tells me and i am having a hard time with this.any ideas or ways you do this... any kinda of advise or openions is greatly appreciated.
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Same with me. Once you fall for someone, anyone, it takes very long to get over them. It could even take years! I suggest you remind yourself of why this guy is bad for you and think of all the reasons you SHOULDN'T like him. Keep yourself busy so you don't find yourself thinking about him and then liking him more. Spend time with your friends, meet new guys, talk to new guys! If you still can't get him off your mind and out of your heart, maybe he's stuck there for a reason girl! If you really like him, talk to him, work things out and see if he feels the same. hope i helped xo
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14/f. I think I have a genuine problem with crushes. I just can't stop crushing on new guys. I like everyone and everybody. My current crush count is around 9 and it just keeps growing. I like all kinds of different guys, and even 2 brothers! I also like 3 of my brother's friends! Is there something wrong with me? Is this normal? Is it possible that I make this stop? I'm so torn. (link)
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It's absolutely normal! I'm 15 and I have tons of crushes. Don't let ANYONE tell you its not. You're young and your meeting new guys, it's a great experience. Crushes are always going to happen, grow and then fade away. Don't worry about it. If you really like one particular guy though, go for him! hope i helped hun xo
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This may be a stupid question but...
I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?
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I was really scared at first also. I STILL use the slim/slender ones. If you do want to start wearing them, start out with those kind and then when you get used to them, you can get bigger ones. Instructions come with tampons so you will know exactly what to do. If you aren't that experienced with your body, use a mirror to put the tampon up there, I used to do it! It's not stupid and it's easier to see exactly where the tampon is going. Don't worry and remember to RELAX when you're putting it up and taking it out! Hope i help :]
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How come i see so many kerry bumper stickers? I have yet to see one single bush bumper sticker. Is everyone voting for kerry or is bush just being cheap and not making any..??? (link)
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fuck bush. lets all hope & pray for kerry before bush seriously destroys this country. i say -- wassup to all the kerry voters n fans, holla! ;]
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i have these weird spots on my boobs and tummy their nto goign away wtf am i suppose to do?!!! im only fucking 13!!! HELP PLEASEEE!!! & i refuse to tel my mom or doctor... PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
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I'm sorry but you're going to have to atleast tell your mom or some other female who you are close to. If they do not go away then it could be something serious and you should tell S0ME0NE. Anymore questions -- drop one in the inbox anytime.
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i know how to kiss and everything..like i haven't yet, but i'm pretty sure i got the hang on it..>? (link)
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I know how you feel. First kisses are always scary but they always end of perfectly fine and sometimes even wonderful! Don't lead on that it's your first and he won't be able to tell at all. hope i helped xo
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okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..
but heres my question..
I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate.. (link)
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if your going into 9th grade, huni your a little too young to be doing that stuff with your boyfriend. sorry but its the truth. he thinks he can get it whenever and thats not right. he wants to have a baby with you? N0 thats a lie boys tell. get rid of him and start a new life where your moving to, thats the best thing to do. trust me on all this, i've been through it.
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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help (link)
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It shouldn't matter if he's shorter than you! If you like him and you guys get along really well, there's no problem. Don't listen to other people's opinions, it only matters how you feel. If you feel that its too embarrassing, then don't go out with him. Nothing should stand in the way of you two if you like eachother. hope i helped xo
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SORRY IT'S SO LONG, BUT I HAD TO SAY IT!!!!
STUFF SOME OF THE MODERATORS ARE SICK OF DEALING WITH (actually im speaking for myself, and i'm not sure but maybe a few others)
the people that ask to be rated, I usually rate them LOW, just because it seems like all they care about are ratings, and they aren't in it for the advice
the people who say I Rate, it's like they're so desperate, that they tell people that they rate, just so they can get better answers, WTF¿?
And what bugs me, are either the non-advice questions, like asking for a screen name(thats what you have friends for)
And, the people who ask the following, I like a guy, I'm Not sure if he likes me, What Should I Do? Uh Hello obvious, TELL HIM!!!
And people who say, My boy Friend wants to have sex, I'm not sure, I almost feel like I'm to young, what should I do? well thats easy, if u have to ask, then the answer's NO
The one thing that gets me is people who say admin please don't delete, HELLO that just makes the admin know that it's a Dumb question
All these repeats, and stupid I Rate, Rate me questions are SO ANNOYING, i just wanted to state that
sorry i know that it wasn't asking for advice, but i just felt like posting that, it just really gets on my nerves, i mean i have done that before, but i've realized how stupid it was!
by the way, if u wanna leave something in my inbox, like a rude reply to this, or just any question, then my name is SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
i don't care if this gets deleted, i just HAD to post it!! (link)
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god, i feel the same way. good for you for posting that. people should ask real questions that need real advice! x0
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well, i always flat iron my hair. it takes foreverrr..but anyway, i live in GA ..so its really hot and humid here, during the summer monthes especially. soo my hair always frizzes up and gets kinda wavy. any suggestions on how to keep it stick straight all day long..thanks=D! (link)
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I know exactly how you feel! There's shampoo to keep hair from frizzing and other products you can buy at stores. So, go shopping in the hair section and I'm sure there will be products you can buy that'll work really well. Also, maybe you can wear your hair up, since it's so hot there anyway! hope i helped xo
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there's a guy... we'll call him bill. :D he's 16, and i'm 14. he is the lead singer of my brother's band... he and i have had an INCREDIBLE friendship. we click REALLY well, and i care about him so much. i would do ANYTHING for this guy... and, i see myself married to him and starting a family with him someday. we are both into the same things, we both are crazy, and we both relate to eachother really well. he means everything to me. (sorry, i think we've already accomplished that... lol) anyways, he thinks that 2 years is too big of a difference, he treats other girls the same way that he treats me, (like a princess), and i just wish that I would be the only one that matters to him. forever. If only the arms that he throws around me could be around me forever. i want to wake up beside him every morning for the rest of my life.
i have it bad. help! –jessi
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You do got it bad girl! I had it too, with my brother's band lead singer, weird huh? It's great you have such a connection with this guy, he sounds like a really good guy, and there rare. 2 years isn't that big of a difference, it's not like hes 18 or something. Explain to him that 2 years isn't much and you guys seem to click really well which should make the 2 years not even matter at all. I really do know how you feel and it's hard having it S0 bad for a guy you'd do anything for. Just don't come on too strong or he'll back away! Take things slow, talk more and get to know eachother even more than you do now. Stay friends for now until he starts realizing how great & devoted of a girlfriend you'd be! hope i helped xo
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14/F ok so i like this guy alot and i have for a while and one of my friends knew about and said she would help me...so she told him i liked him and he told me things couldnt work out so then the next day i was with my friend and the kid i like, and she was all over him! i didn't want to say anything then, but shouldn't i have a right to be mad? oh and to p it all off, he likes her too now!!! ugh i just wish there were cooler guys around here... (link)
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I know how you feel. When my friend finds out I like a certain guy, she goes right for him. She just wants to make you jealous & you have every right to be mad about that. And the guy is a jerk, if he knows you like him & he likes your friend. Don't worry, forget the boy and have a long talk with your supposed 'friend'. hope i helped xo
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Me and my boyfriend were going out..But my other ex still liked me..Then i broke up with my boyfriend..Now i like my ex..But my ex gotten over me and i want me other ex bac..If you can im me on aim on lilsweetie69213 or write to me at lilsweetie69213 or just leave advice im so upset right now..Plz Help
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Seems like you don't know what you want! First, decide who you want to be with. When you got that straight, go for him. Tell him you made a big mistake & you want to get back together. If he still loves you, he will understand and want to be with you again. Just don't play with his feelings, make sure you really do like him! hope i helped xo
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Okay herr it goes.. My best friend is haveing a swimmin party at her house. On the same day i get my peroid. It would be my 2nd period ever so is therr a good chance i won't get it cause i'm not on a regualr cycle.. or ami most likely to get it? i'm a pad wearer.. i'm swichin to tampon in bout a year or so..so i really done wanan try 1 but i have to go kuz she's my best friend.. wut do u all think..
Signed,
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You are probably not going to get it the same day. It's only your 2nd period and those are usually never around the same time as your first. You're still not regular, so don't worry so much! If you are still worried, bring a tampon with you. I know its only your 2nd period, but there are tampons that are slender/skinny and very easy to insert + use. I would def. go with those kind of tampons since your period will be light even if you do get it. hope i helped xo
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im upset because my friend has a boyfriend and i dont and she doesnt have a good relationship with him but at least she has 1. i think im mature enough to handle 1.. and i could be with someone in my own grade but at the same time i want to be with someone who is older and more mature than i am. I dont know if i should stick to where i feel comfortable or take a risk and go for the older guys. help me please (link)
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Make sure you want a relationship with someone because you want to be close to that boy and not just because your friend has a boyfriend! You sound like you are very mature and could def. go for someone older. Good idea to stick with whats comfortable, though. I would first stick with whats comfortable with you. If you really want to go out with an older guy, go right ahead. If you want to go out with someone your own age, there shouldn't be any problem. Go with your instincts! hope i helped xo
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ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
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I know exactly what you mean. Guys think they rule the world and they can do whatever they want. My boyfriend is allowed to talk to girls, but I'm not allowed to talk to guys! It isn't fair and you have to explain to whatever guy you're with, if they do it...so can you! Tell them it's just fair, and they can't tell you what to do and what not to do. Guys just say it's 'normal' so they can get away with it. Well, tell them you're naturally flirty and you cant help that ;] hope i helped xo
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hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad... (link)
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I'm sorry about how guys use you. That's seriously so wrong and it's happened to me to. Gald you were strong about it & didn't give in, good for you. Anyway, there shouldnt be a problem going up to guys and starting a conversation. Just be yourself and if you're too shy, make eye contact and smile, let them come up to you. hope i helped! xo
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do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs?
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If your boyfriend has never mentioned you wearing/buying sexy underwear, then don't worry. If you would like to buy thongs, etc. then go ahead! In my opinion, it does make me feel sexier to wear things like that..but if there uncomfortable to you or you dont like them, dont wear em! Just focus on having fun & being with your boyfriend. If he mentions something, maybe you could buy a little something, but dont do it just for him, do it for Y0U! There are cute, inexpensive thongs at places like DEB & Rave. hope i helped xo
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if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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You HAVE to be straight up. Guys never get the point. Next time a guy asks you out say, "I don't think so, because..." Think of the reason you do not wanna go out with him. If you just dont like him, say you don't like him like that. Don't say you wanna be friends if you dont. Guys like it when girls are honest and you don't want him following you around like a little puppy! hope i helped. xo
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all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out? (link)
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Don't feel left out. Being single is wonderful! You can flirt like crazy and everything. Do you want a bf though? If you want one, girl you gotta start looking and getting to know some guys! Ask your friends if there bfs have any cute friends you can get to meet. If you don't want one though, start hanging out with friends that don't have a bf but if ALL your friends do, meet some new people! hope i helped. xo
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