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how do i say no?
if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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well when they ask you out just dont be so blunt about it. tell him your sorry you still want to be friends but you dont like him like that
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I tend to have the same problem. Once I met this guy and right away dident like him..but he liked me a lot. Then he asked me out and I dident know what to say so I said I wanted to be friends...the guy ended up stalking me because he wanted to be friends so that I would want to go out with him. So after that I realized thats not the thing to say. I know you want to be nice and not say no...but its your life and you have to do what you want not what others want. Try telling a guy that you dont think it will work out or say you have a bf if its someone you dont really know him. Or if you kinda like the guy but you wanna get to know him then just say you dont really know him that well but you want to get to know him more!
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Hope I helped
Britt
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lieing is the worst possible thing to do in this situation, because when he finds out that you lied your of course made out to be the bad guy/girl and people just dont liek liars.....i think you should tell him exactly this "right no i really dont think i can handle a boyfreind :
, i'm really busy with xxxx and xxxx and i really dont have time for one right now" or explain how you have a bad history with relationships and don't feel liek getting into another one....many options only question now is which one you think is the best thing to tell him
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ok well you have 2 options...lie(bad idea)..and say you already have a b.f or just tell them that you dont know them and you need to get to know them better before you go out with them
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Tell them that your sorry but your not interested or that you dont have the time for dating people right now.
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tell him str8 up you dont like him you dont wanna risk a friendship over a relationship. because you would rather have him as a friend that you can go to when you have problems. but if it were me id tell em str8 up i dont feel like going out with him because i dont wanna risk our friendship and he isnt so much my type and im sure he will respect dat cuz u told him the truth!
x0x-stephanie
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Just say that you already have a boyfriend that lives in another state/city
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Hehe...whoever said to claim to have a boy in another city is the smart one XD
But if you'd rather not lie, try to be as honest as you can; "I don't know you well enough" is one of the best things to say if you're in doubt.
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juat say i already have a boyfriend if they say who just say he lives in a different town
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just tell him know you would rather be friends-trix
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i think you shud jus say no i dont want a boy friend right now nd get it over with cuz its not fair for you to lead guys on so jus say no
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This really depends on the person. You could say you already have a boyfriend, or just say you do not want to.
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Just say that you do not really know him that well and that some time you will get to know him better...
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Haleigh Ann
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Well wat u could do iz tell them tha truth! Once u get it out maybe u will feel great! Cuz they r gonna get hurt maybe bye sumone else n if u dont kno them then y cant u say no! U should really get 2 kno a person be 4 u judge them.
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Well theres a difference between you not liking him and not knowing him.. if you don't like him. then just say "look.. i know you like me but its never going to work out between us.. were just not meant for eachother and we have nothing in common" If you don't know him then say " Your a really sweet guy but we don't know eachother well enough to date and i would just like to stay friends"
That way if you don't know him then you can get to know him and maybe you would like who he is!:)
If you need anymore advice.. leave one in my inbox or im me ;)
xoxo
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You HAVE to be straight up. Guys never get the point. Next time a guy asks you out say, "I don't think so, because..." Think of the reason you do not wanna go out with him. If you just dont like him, say you don't like him like that. Don't say you wanna be friends if you dont. Guys like it when girls are honest and you don't want him following you around like a little puppy! hope i helped. xo
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Well then when a guy that you don't like and you don't really know then tell him, that you can't go out because you don't know eachother. And just kinda ignore him and he will go away!
x0x JamieLynn
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well all you have to do is just say sorry but i have a b/f already or just say sorry my mom doesn't let me date yet so very sorry.
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short lil cutie
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guys dont care they'll jus move on
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