I'm an loner sort of high-school student, that's the kind of person who observes everyone's problems from a distance and finds the solution right away. Not that there's an easy solution to every problem, that's in no way true, but there's always SOME option.
Ah...what else? Well, I have a passion for J-rock, and I love anime too much.
I'm also an artist (oekaki-er), though I suck.
I love composing songs & writing poetry, and I'm pretty good with computers. Ah, and I sold my soul for a piece of baklava. However, I'm an atheist (or ...what's the word, heathen?)...so in my opinion, I got free baklava!! ^_^
And I like ramen ^_^
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E-mail: a_starr_moon@hotmail.com
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Location: Canada
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hey i have a friend who is sooooooo obsessed with her boyfriend and she is on the phone with him all the time and it gets sooo annoying but i love her too much to tell her that! and like what should i say to her and plus he is pretty ugly!! ick he is gross!
signed-
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Ah...if they really like eachother, don't get in her way. Even when they break up, she'll still be bitter about it, and might end a frienship with you..!
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if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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Hehe...whoever said to claim to have a boy in another city is the smart one XD
But if you'd rather not lie, try to be as honest as you can; "I don't know you well enough" is one of the best things to say if you're in doubt.
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I am so confused. I really want to be freinds with this girl. We used to be really great friends and we also used to sneak around town all the time. We would say we were going to the pool and really go to her boyfriends or my sorta boyfriends. See I really dont know now because ever since my sorta boyfriend went to Indiana we havent had time to talk to each other or hang out. My sorta boyfriend is back and we havebt talked or seen each other in a while. Sometimes I just think that my friend just used me to see my sorta boyfriend. I dont know what do you think? Do you think we are still friends and what should I do about it? (link)
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You seem to still be friends...if not, ask her about it; if she says something like "...huh?!" then she's probably never thought of you not being friends...if she thinks and says "uhmmm....yeaah.." then you probably still aren't friends.
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all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out? (link)
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Be happy being single!! When they're talking about how happy they are with their guys, talk about how happy you are, being independant!
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I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it? (link)
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Well, it's not like there's a plethora of ways to do it...uhm....well, it's the same as missionary, except that you're on top o_O
Uhm...but it's good, because you get to control how deep he goes. The only downside is that if he slips out of you......yesh...
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I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
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I know how you feel about that....(I'm 15, too) and we just sort of...drifted apart. It's sucky, but there's nothing you can do...eventually, you'll find other friends who are more devoted to you and all that....
It's hard on you to be jealous, but it's even harder to confront her about it. Which is why you should do it XD
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My friend has a heart condition that she hides from just about every one of her friends except for me. The problem is that she is kind of a party girl. She smokes about a pack a day, gets high about twice a week during the summer and once a week during the school year and she drinks excessively on a very frequent basis. I've really really considered doing a few things but I have encountered so many problems. The first thing is that she absolutely doesn't want to quit even though it could kill her. Her mind set is that if she doesnt live til the age when fun switches from getting messed up, playing football in the rain and then having sex with your latest boy toy, to sipping tea and knocking a tennis ball back and forth, then she's not missing out on too much. Unfortunately for me, I kind of agree with her about that. Anyways, the last time one of her friends talked to her about it she quit talking to him and now will rarely even answer the phone when he calls. Another problem is that she lives 1600 miles from me and I only spend 3 weeks a year with her this year, though im currently saving up $1200 to go see her and my buds there this winter, so I cant really talk to her face to face. I would tell her best friend but she made me absolutely promise not to mention her heart condition to him, so I'm not sure what to do. The rate she's going a person without her condition would die around 40, and with her mind set, I could accept that, but if she doesnt quit soon she could die before I even get to see her again, and to be honest, that scares me so horribly that it was all I could do to write this. Thank you for any advice you might have. (link)
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If you agree with this way of life...well, that sucks, since you really can't help her until you help yourself. But you seem to really care about her, so perhaps try to talk to her first...it probably won't work immediately, but if she sees how worried you are about her condition, she may find that it's enough to stop her...
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I'm an emapth: a person who can feel a persons emotions when being near them. I can also hear a song and tell you what color it is. (The song "Anastasia" By Voltaire is pale lavender, and the song "..Baby one more time" redone by Bowling For Soup is metallic red). I also have keen gaydar. I want to know if anyone else out there has these abilities. How can I use these abilities to my advantage? (link)
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Mh...I have that ability as well, but...in other ways, too; for example, the letter "a" is a light bluefemale and "e" is a red male...
And the song "iris" (goo goo dolls) is crystal blue...the song "another world" (gackt) is orange..
"A whole new world"
Well, gaydar's damn useful ^_^
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my mom wont let me play the gutire because she thinks its for boys only!!!! isnt that stupid?!?! my friends and i are in a band and i want to learn how to play the gutire! how do i convince her to let me??? (link)
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I'm a girl, but since both my parents know guitar, they taught me. Which isn't helpful at all, really. Just tell her that times are changing and you'd like to take a few lessons to see if you like it
...and sit down to watch Freaky Friday with her XD.
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okay i was thinking about getting a tattoo( a little one somewhere) and i wanted to know the best place to put it other than lower back for girls. i know someday i want to have a baby, so i dont want to put it where it's going to get all stretched out. also, what should i get and do guys think its attractive for a girl to have tattoos? (link)
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There's a lot of cute places...like, beside your hips (where it won't stretch THAT much) and also, on your shoulder-blades...ankles are cool, and even on your upper arm (usually people like to put kanji there)
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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird?? (link)
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Neveeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!
I've been watching Passions since I was 10! ^_^
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i completely forgot the html code to upload a picture onto a w/s. someone post it please! (link)
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Replace the filename.jpg with whatever the filename is, but not the quotes.
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Hey Arisu! It's b0ba_tea from mizukori!!! I can't believe that you go to this site too! I was wondering if you wanted to be advicinator buddies where we put links to eachother's advice columns on our advice pages! n__n It's nice to see you! btw, I'm sp4rklingr4in
~boba (link)
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hehe...sure, sounds great ^_^
Wow, it's cool that we're both here!!!
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why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting. (link)
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Actually, it's cause it's so personal, the internet seems to be the easiest way to get answers form real people that you're not connected to...
I mean, if it'a about a guy or parents or school, you can talk to your friends and stuff..
But you can't ask your friend how to give a good blow job, that's just weird..
That's probably why a lot of people ask a lot of sex-health questions...
Perhaps most people are uncomfortable asking their friends "OMG why th' bloody 'ell is THAT there?!"
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There is this girl in a couple of my classes that i like but im not sure if she likes me more than just a friend. I want to ask her out but im not sure how exactly. What should I do? (link)
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Tell her that you like her.
If she likes you, she'll probably have been trying to tell you for ages but not have had the courage to do so.
Just...make it easier for her, it's hard enough to be a girl, mmkay?
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ok there is this guy i'm always flirting with and we always hook-up like this one time i was at this party and i gave him a lap dance and just started making out with him but i don't even like him and he doesn't like me we are just really good friends but with benefits and not sure what to do because i like this other guy but he's weird and thats a whole other story so what sould i do (link)
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Well, FWB are great to have...
But if you over-do it (like the other person said) you'll sound like a slut....
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Well here is the situation me and my girlfriend need new things to do....like I want her to be just super impressed by me and I try hard all the time but I do the same things over and over again and again so can anyone tell me what girls really like to do like honestly what can I do to make her super happy she is like happy but I want her to be the happiest girl ever so anyone give me good ideas on what to do on like dates and stuff........we are 17 and 15 and we live by lake superior so that should help someone give me ideas and like walks and stuff like that we do that and stuff so help me with more in depth ideas thanks alot everyone for your great advice it means a lot.....good times....later (link)
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Listen, if she loves you, impressing her will mean nothing...
Girls like you to try to understand them, be for them not only in good times but in those really, REALLY crappy times too...
And when you go on a date, make sure you act like a gentleman...girls always go for that romantic-y lovey-dovey crap.
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ive been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks and i really have fallen in love with him. weve kissed before, but i really want to take our relationship to the next level. i dont htink hell say no or anything, but im just really nervous. were going to the movies tomorrow, do i kiss him or even MAKE OUT with him?????? (link)
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Well, it's hard to tell if you're in love, but if it's true...
well, you should kiss him at least, if it seems to be the norm...making out's fun too..
But I mean, if you're like....12 or something, disregard what I said.
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NO MORE
You laugh at me. You point, you say "how Weird" you say "how Ugly" you say "how Stupid".
I turn the other cheek so you can just laugh and point some more.
I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you.
I will always be here and you can't change that.
You will never make me feel bad again. NEVER!
So you better give up!
When I see you I laugh and say "How Pathetic!".
You have put me through this to make yourself feel good.
No More.
I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you But no more.
K.J.B.
Hi all advicenators! This is the only peom I have been able to write in the last 4 months and I was wondering if this is a good poem. i also want to know if I did all punctuation right? please answer it would be helpful.
K.J.B. (link)
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Storageanddisposal DOES give excellent advice regarding poetry...his is simply amazing.
I do think that there should be a different way to space it, more distance around "NEVER" and perhaps get rid of the "so you better give up!" and the "No more" would look better with a space above it as well...
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Do girls generally stop growing taller after they get their period ? (link)
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I remember my doctor saying that your bones slow their growth dramatically 2 years after you get your period...generally, all the "great stuff" happens around the same time...
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