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Drifting away...
I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore!
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You sound liek your to clingy but idk you so here we go! lol. uhm well you could confront her about it but that would make her more angry at you than she might be already. So what i would do is try to do more exciting or adventurous things or just things that you to have never done before. She may feel like maybe you guys could hang out more.
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thats happened here before, well not the whole jealous part, but i have lost some good best friends.. but listen, you cant get stuck in the past... everything changes, and you have 2 learn to go with the fLOw.. when i first realized me and my friend were drifting apart, yeah it was sad, but u cant let that get you down, i mean she makes new friends, and you will too.. dont focus too much on winning her back, she can share her time with other people, too.. its not all about you, but be grateful for wut u once had, and all the memories that are stuck in your head.. and also be grateful for what you have now, @ least it didnt turn out like what you see in the movies, or TV shows...yah know? 2 chicks used 2 be best friends back in the day, and then the one gets different friends and becomes all popular, and the other remains a loser with new dorky best friends (take lizzie mcguire for example, lol) so dont let that happen 2 u unless shes bein rude 2 u about it, ok? continue in your friendship with her, but also leave some room for growth with new friends.... and just remember that she*ll always be there for you even tho she has new friends as well
ex oh~ Swackie
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I think your friend might just not realize what you are trying to say. If she does get another best friend she never realized she had a good concerned friend like you. I have had this happen to me before a lot. It is a part of life. If you feel left out you shouldn't.Try to have fun with another friend of yours. Ask your friend to meet this new friend of hers who knows you might end up all of you being best friends! ^^ I hope I have helped if you have anymore questions please ask me!! ^_^ ~ puppyluver9000
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truthfully your worrying about this way too much....if this girl was ever your best friend don't worry about it all. If she was actually a best friend shes not going to just ditch you (permenantly that is) see the thing is when you meet knew people(in this case when your freind met her new friend) you are initially more interested in them becuase the way they talk act and feel are all new and interesting to you....but actually in this situation the best thing(in my opinion) to do would be to start hanging out with both of them....like say your best freind says "me and xxxxx are goin to the mall" just ask if she minds if you go too, and obviously if she is any kind of best friend she will say of course. This way you get to still hang out with your best friend but you might also make a new friend.......win win
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I think you should tell your friend how you feel again, but this time let her knoe your serious. I've been in a situation like that but you really just have to realize that as you grow older you grow apart. It's not anything that you really wanna admitt to...but it happens! You still have all the memories to last a lifetime! just try and make new friends
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I know how you feel about that....(I'm 15, too) and we just sort of...drifted apart. It's sucky, but there's nothing you can do...eventually, you'll find other friends who are more devoted to you and all that....
It's hard on you to be jealous, but it's even harder to confront her about it. Which is why you should do it XD
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it sounds like you depend on her... it happened to me it reallii wasnt fun. i wuz accually depressed over it. getting sum new friends is how i got over it. you can still be her best friend but just with sum other friends by ur side. i kno wut ur going thru this is the time in the best friendship where u guys make new friends... its happend to lots of ppl i kno... u miyt not believe me but its tru. i hope i helpd my heads just not in the riyt place todaii. but dont rate at all if ur gunna rate bad!! plz!! okay well if u need anything else pop it ^ in muh inbox and ill answer it 2morro when im all good. =) hope everything gets straitend out.
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i think that you should hang out with her and new new friend! but im sure that she hasnt replaced you!! because nobody can replace a best friend!! shes just making new ones!! i think you should just get to know this new girl then see how you feel about her *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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hun if shes gonna leave you for a different friend i dont think she was that good of a friend jus try to make some new friends and forget about her..hope i helped
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0o0k u should alwayz be true 2 ur friends n best friends. U should tell her tha way u feel.Cuz Maybe ur gonna get hurt alot more then u r now cuz u didnt tell her how u feel.
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Omg! I have the same feeling with alot of my friends. I always think that when my friend meetes another friend she is gonna leave me out and I think on of my friends just did that to me. I think we should just hoipe for the best and try to keep in contact with them. I hate when they are silly but you gotta try.
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Talk to her.. if that doesnt work.. try to be friends with her other friends... :)
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Well you should not get so jealous...invite her do do something with you...
XOXO
Haleigh Ann
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