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hey guyz so im :.:kelli:.:, and live in ohio... i LoVe talkin* to new and inTerEsTIng people as often as i can on here~ my birthday*s comin up (!) so leave me some love on here! i jus got a new baby brother -->nathan
E-mail: flirterchicky@yahoo.com
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Location: ohio
Occupation: student
Age: 15
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Member Since: July 24, 2004
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Well today I woke up with a really stuffy nose. I went to go take a shower and I bent down to pick up some shampoo and when I got back up I got dizzy and this gray fuzz took up like half my vision. It started from the bottom of my eye but seemed to stop halfway. It made my eyes water and head spin.

Maybe it was from getting up too fast + a head cold? This never happens when I just get up really fast, but I do get a little dizzy. But I was hoping for your help...because I'm not sure. =o/

Thanks! (link)
ya i always get that 2 every time i stand up cuz i get up 2 fast.. nuttins wrong w/ u as long as it completely goes away n like 15 seconds


omg!! i just contacts and i dont seem to know how to get them on or off* i have to like play around with it for 1 hour until it comes out* if ne advice plz answer me* (link)
kay 2 put em in, try looking a lil 2 the side, but not 2 far.. make sure 2 put it on the colored part of your eye.. before putting it in, wipe off the finger ur putting it in with so its dry, and put a drop of solution into the concave part of the contact, that way, once the contact comes in contact (ha) w/ ur eye, itll stick 2 it~ 2 take em out, pull it with your finger 2 a lil lower than the colored part, then squeeze and pull str8 on outta there.. make sure if u have nails not 2 pinch ur eyeball lol ive done that a few times~ itll become more familiar 2 u as time goes by.. i always got sooo frustrated when i first got mine since it took 4ever 2 put em in, so jus chill ---> and always remember 2 wash your hands b4, and make sure alllll the soap is off, or else itll sting like craAzy! ttyl mE


I met this boy at the beginning of the summer, but we liked eachother the first time we talked. After hanging out a couple times, we started going out. He isn't a virgin + supposedly got a girl pregnant awhile ago. He never pressures me or anything. I know I won't do unless I'm totally ready + totally in love. I'm starting to actually love this boy! I'm just scared I won't measure up to some of his old gfs + that I want to take things slow. He says he really loves me + that I'm different from all his old gfs and he likes + respects that. Should I stay with him? (link)
girl do you even need 2 ask? you sound like you have ur head on ur shoulders, and know what you want.. if he respects you like you say he does, hes gotta be a good guy.. i mean you are the one tellin the story here, so i hope ur not just caught under his spell tellin me you love him~ but make sure to take it slow, especially since you know about his past, and be cautious with him... the more control you have over yourself and your body, the more he will respect your values.. trust me, if you tell him you want 2 take things slow, he*ll listen to you if he cares about your feelings.. what are boyfriends for, if they wont respect you right? good luck with him, and i know you can remain true to yurself because you know what you want.. let me know what happens with him =) KelBel


i have a ? for anyone who is willing to help me out! i was with this kid eric for a month n i really likeed him alot but he thoguth i cheatedd on him but i didnt n i broek up wit him to sort out my family n guy problems n then i went out wit this kid ian n now me n ian arent goin out n now i like eric again actually i never stopped liken him n i want him back but i dont think he trust me b/c wen we broek up people siad i cheated on him but i didnt and now he doesnt trust me n this girl aktie likes him n he likes her n i told her that if they hooked up id be happy bc i cant do nething bout it n i said goodluck but she better not hurt him . im reaslly upset tho and i want him abck but i dunno if he likes me! plz help tell me wat i should do ill rate you! ill give u a 5 n comment plz help! (link)
hey chica! is there any reason why eric would think u cheated on him? are you extra flirty w/ boys? sometimes with their boyfriends around, girls tend to flirt more with other boys sort of showin* off.. or is there a good guy friend of yours that he could be jealous of? b/c that causes guys to think ur cheatin even if ur jus best friends or comfortable around another guy... and what happened with ian? did you actually like him? or was he a rebound guy? what made u decide 2 go out with him? did u overcome your family problems? or just need someone in your life? well if you answer a few of y Qs i can definately help you out more....IM me and we*ll talk about this aktie chick kay? good luck hunni Swackums


Alright so this guy really likes me. Hes a grrreat guy-funny, smart, musician, and one of the sweetest guys I know. Hes also one of my best friends. I've tried soo hard to like him and I don't understand why I don't. Should I try going on another date with him even though at times I think I might like someone else? Sorry that's a lot of info...but believe me it's confusing. Sometimes I think I like him, but then there's a couple other guys I like at times as well, even though they don't like me like guy #1 does. I need heelllpppp! (link)
hey gurlie! this guy.. he sounds like a really good guy- but sometimes even the funniest, smartest, sweetest guys are the wrong ones for you.. you have to look inside yourself, and remind yourself how you feel about him.. if you dont seem to like him at all, there is no magic wand that can make you like this guy. and who knows? maybe its a good thing you dont like him in a dating way.. sometimes you just need those kinda guys around that you can always count on to talk you through rough times when you need them, and to be unlike all those other guys that only want one thing out of you... and from the way you describe him, you dont want to hurt his feelings when you tell him how you really feel (or dont feel) about him.. and by leading him on, he*ll eventually find out how u really feel about him, and that will crush him even more than you telling him right up frontl. but if you ARE confused, even if you like him on some days, and think ur better off without him some days, let him know that ur not sure how you feel if he asks you. if he doesnt ask you how your feeling about him, maybe that first date was enough. how was the first date? if you felt like you always have before with him, maybe you should just remain friends, until who knows? maybe one day you*ll start liking him romantically... but if you felt something on that date, it would be a good idea to go on another date to see if it was just a lil fling or if you actually do like him when you are out alone with him.... either way, make sure 2 be COMPLETELY honest if he asks you how you feel... but if he doesnt ask, dont worry about it girl, guys will come and go, and if this guy really likes you, he*ll respect your decsision to remain true to how ya feel.. i hope i helped :D you can talk to me ANYTIME about ANYTHING chica! xO Swackerz Ox


0o0ok Now i really hate tha way i look.I am 13 n i weigh almost lyke 169. I am way over weight. I am not very active but at nite i walk around tha track 2 tymez. Sumtymes i walk n run.And i wanna lose weigh by school starts n that is August 31st. N 2 day iz July 24. Iz there ne other way i can lose ALOT of weigh bye then.Ne suggestions on other things bye running n walkin fast? (link)
aight babii first of all you gotta be motivated, then u gotta talk to yo momma! hehe let her know your starting to care more about your body~ ask her to start cooking one extra vegetable per meal, or eat some grapes or yogurt for dessert, instead of that yummie fudge brownie that gramma makes... reward yourself after a week of hard work, and have your favorite fattening food, but dont overdo that.. just enuf 2 keep you wanting more next week~ it can be a group effort if you want, call dad down from his sunday afternoon nap, and go on a walk around the neighborhood, play some kickball, have a watergun fight, all these things increase your cardiovascular fitness, which is what you need in order to exercise more efficiently.. lemme know if this works, if you need even more ideas, leave me a line KelBel


umm i was the one who had the crush on sum1 n didnt wanna talk....ik we should chill but id want him to think im clinggy asking to chill with him too much...helpppppp (link)
hunny be yourself, if you wanna hang out with him, then u BETTER hang out with him! theres no reason why he should think your 2 clingy, he likes all the attention he*s getting, and if he keeps chillin w/ u when u ask him 2, u know hes not bothered @ all... cuz guys def. speak their mind... you would know if hes gettin annoyed
KeLLiKel


How do you breakup with sumone that loves yOU?! (link)
if you are not happy, or just want out because its too much 2 handle right now, don*t worry about it, just let him know how you feel~ since you already know how he feels, its time 2 put his words to the test... you know the old saying "if you love them, let them go" well find out if thats a good line of advice~ if he truly loves you, he should want 2 see you happy, and if you will be happiest w/o him constantly @ ur hip, he should understand MeEe


I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
thats happened here before, well not the whole jealous part, but i have lost some good best friends.. but listen, you cant get stuck in the past... everything changes, and you have 2 learn to go with the fLOw.. when i first realized me and my friend were drifting apart, yeah it was sad, but u cant let that get you down, i mean she makes new friends, and you will too.. dont focus too much on winning her back, she can share her time with other people, too.. its not all about you, but be grateful for wut u once had, and all the memories that are stuck in your head.. and also be grateful for what you have now, @ least it didnt turn out like what you see in the movies, or TV shows...yah know? 2 chicks used 2 be best friends back in the day, and then the one gets different friends and becomes all popular, and the other remains a loser with new dorky best friends (take lizzie mcguire for example, lol) so dont let that happen 2 u unless shes bein rude 2 u about it, ok? continue in your friendship with her, but also leave some room for growth with new friends.... and just remember that she*ll always be there for you even tho she has new friends as well

ex oh~ Swackie


shuld i shave my arms (link)
is there any reason why you want to? just because they are hairy? well everyones arms have hair on them, and once you start shaving them, you can never go back.. and you*ll have 2 do it all your life or else they*ll be even hairier than when u started.. its like shavin ur legs, once you shave, the hair still grows back, and you have 2 live with the prickliness if you dont shave every*day...make sure its ok with your mom tho b/c a friend of mine did it, and her mom noticed there was no hair on her arms {gasp!} and her mom was dissapointed in her and never let her shave her arms again, which made em grow worse! and you wouldnt want that > but its your choice- if it makes you feel better about yourself, do what you feel is the best for your self-confidence


okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly (link)
hun, you gotta know what you want first.. let him know that you*re thinking of breaking it off and tell him why.. maybe he can relate to you because you both know you*ll never see each other, right? you might hurt his feelings a lil but he*ll def. get over it...just throw the idea out there that its not working 2 great, and if hes smart, he*ll agree with you so he doesnt have 2 be the loser of the two.. that way, maybe he*ll see if as a mutual decision and realize the best way 4 ur relationship 2 go on is as fRieNdZ! let me know how it works out!




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