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old girlfriends vs. virgin girlfriend
I met this boy at the beginning of the summer, but we liked eachother the first time we talked. After hanging out a couple times, we started going out. He isn't a virgin + supposedly got a girl pregnant awhile ago. He never pressures me or anything. I know I won't do unless I'm totally ready + totally in love. I'm starting to actually love this boy! I'm just scared I won't measure up to some of his old gfs + that I want to take things slow. He says he really loves me + that I'm different from all his old gfs and he likes + respects that. Should I stay with him?
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Sure. If he respects you and knows your views on sex, etc., and isn't pressuring you, then yes go ahead and stay with him. Apparently he doesn't want you to be anything like his old girlfriends- which is great! It means you don't have to worry about measuring up to them. Go ahead and take things slow. Whatever you end up doing will be more meaningful if you do.
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I think you should totally stay with him..But you should talk to him sayin we should wait till im ready to have sex..
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I don't see why you wouldn't stay with him.
He doesn't pressure you, he says he really loves you and respects you...sounds like a good guy to me.
Those are RARE. Keep this one. Just don't let him pressure you into anything you don't wanna do. I doubt you would, but *shrug*.
I say stay with him unless he does something to make you think he's an ass, lol.
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I think he loves you and he wont compare his other girlfriend towards you. I think you don't have much to worry about and he will take it your speed for you...hope i helped
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I think that if he loves you(which i'm sure he does) he wont care if you're as good as his old girlfriends or not xox hope i helped
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I would say you should stay with him... if he begins to pressure you and make you uncomfortable than talk to him.. if it continues than break-up with him!
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YES KEEP HIM
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girl do you even need 2 ask? you sound like you have ur head on ur shoulders, and know what you want.. if he respects you like you say he does, hes gotta be a good guy.. i mean you are the one tellin the story here, so i hope ur not just caught under his spell tellin me you love him~ but make sure to take it slow, especially since you know about his past, and be cautious with him... the more control you have over yourself and your body, the more he will respect your values.. trust me, if you tell him you want 2 take things slow, he*ll listen to you if he cares about your feelings.. what are boyfriends for, if they wont respect you right? good luck with him, and i know you can remain true to yurself because you know what you want.. let me know what happens with him =) KelBel <3
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wow.. u totally sound lyk me wen i first started going out wit ma bf.. he wasnt a virgin n i was.. n i wasnt planning to do n e thing till i was ready n till i was totally in luv n i thought tat was wen i was married.. n he didnt pressure me into n e thing n he respected me 100 percent but i was scared tat he wouldnt lyk me.. cuz i didnt " measure up".. well ive been wit him 4 2 yrs n lyk 1 month ago i lost it to him.. it was cuz i was ready.. he totally understood.. n we luv eachother to death!
if he got a gurl pregnant well tats a lil problem.. but if he respects u n he wont pressure u into n e thing then its all gud! but dont do it till ur ready cuz u dont wanna regret n e thing! but dont wry about measuring up to no 1 cuz he lyks u for u.. u shouldnt have to measure up to no 1.. especially ppl lyk tat.. n let him noe u luv him n u wanna take things slow.. im pretty sure he'll understand! but the second he disrespects u or makes u do sumthing u dnt want drop him! i think now hes ready 4 a real relationship since he says tatur different from all his old gf's n tat he lyks n repects tat.. tats wat ma bf told me! so gud luk n lemme noe wat happens.. i think hes a keeper tho! xoxo angie
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Awww! YeAh! You should definitly stay with him especially if he is very respectful and he loves you!! You dont need to worry about measuring up to his past girlfriends because obviously he thinks your different and wont pressure you into sex like the other girls. But once he starts asking for sex and you arent ready, thats when you should have second thoughts on this guy. No girl should be pressured by their boyfriends or someone who loves them, its just not right! Good luck with your boy!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
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If hes not pressuring you nd he respect you even if you want to take things slow then hes a keeper
I wish i could find a guy like that. Your not alwaisz gonna find a guy thats on the same page as you exactly. Good luck...i hope things work out. please rate me!!
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It is kinda hard to wonder why he likes you if u aren't like all of his other girlfriends. But it seems like he really likes you, and he will do anything to be with you... including taking it slow. You gotta remember, he's been there before, he was a virgin too! So don't feel pressured to do anything with him. And if he really does love you, then he will completly understand. Just tell him to give you a while b4 we can take it to the next level, he'll know what you mean. If he doens't want to take it slow then it isn't meant to be and he is an ass hole! But i'm sure he will understand, and u should hold on to him! Hope i helped!
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why not? hes not pressuring you at all! but if he starts pressuring you, you sould get rid of him. a lot of guys arent virgins, so dont even worry about that. if u want to have sex with him, do it. but make sure u use a condom so you dont end up like his ex. haha. good luck with him, he sounds like a keeper from what u said.
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ali
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