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Question Posted Saturday July 24 2004, 5:14 pm

Alright so this guy really likes me. Hes a grrreat guy-funny, smart, musician, and one of the sweetest guys I know. Hes also one of my best friends. I've tried soo hard to like him and I don't understand why I don't. Should I try going on another date with him even though at times I think I might like someone else? Sorry that's a lot of info...but believe me it's confusing. Sometimes I think I like him, but then there's a couple other guys I like at times as well, even though they don't like me like guy #1 does. I need heelllpppp!

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flirterchicky answered Saturday July 24 2004, 7:03 pm:
hey gurlie! this guy.. he sounds like a really good guy- but sometimes even the funniest, smartest, sweetest guys are the wrong ones for you.. you have to look inside yourself, and remind yourself how you feel about him.. if you dont seem to like him at all, there is no magic wand that can make you like this guy. and who knows? maybe its a good thing you dont like him in a dating way.. sometimes you just need those kinda guys around that you can always count on to talk you through rough times when you need them, and to be unlike all those other guys that only want one thing out of you... and from the way you describe him, you dont want to hurt his feelings when you tell him how you really feel (or dont feel) about him.. and by leading him on, he*ll eventually find out how u really feel about him, and that will crush him even more than you telling him right up frontl. but if you ARE confused, even if you like him on some days, and think ur better off without him some days, let him know that ur not sure how you feel if he asks you. if he doesnt ask you how your feeling about him, maybe that first date was enough. how was the first date? if you felt like you always have before with him, maybe you should just remain friends, until who knows? maybe one day you*ll start liking him romantically... but if you felt something on that date, it would be a good idea to go on another date to see if it was just a lil fling or if you actually do like him when you are out alone with him.... either way, make sure 2 be COMPLETELY honest if he asks you how you feel... but if he doesnt ask, dont worry about it girl, guys will come and go, and if this guy really likes you, he*ll respect your decsision to remain true to how ya feel.. i hope i helped :D you can talk to me ANYTIME about ANYTHING chica! xO Swackerz Ox

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