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guys use me....
hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad...
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Yeah if you see a hottie, just go up and talk to him introduce yourself ask where he lives. But i want to warn you something about high school, your middle school guys are always saying want to fuck and stuff, well sometimes it gets worse in high school. Take your time finding the right guy dont rush into things, I dont want you to get hurt! The right guy is out there it just takes time to find him
-holly-
hope i helped
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Ok, you have 2 problems that guys will use you for.
1.Your being desperate... you will NOT meet a good guy by being guy crazy and wanting a bf that bad, slow it out a bit n let them come to you, thats what normally happens anyway.
2.If you dont want to be treated like a sex toy for the rest of your life, look a lil beyond the looks and go for the personality, its a sacrifce most of the time worth taking.
if you correct these 2 things, i promise you that over time (like a month) things WILL change.. and standing up against the guys who say such degrading shit to you will help a lil too ;)
much love
drew
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well see dont let guys use you at all!! and when you go to camp it is a great way to meet guys you just haev to understand that its probably going to the a distance relationship! btu if you want a guy to notice you you have to make sure that he does!
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I'm sorry about how guys use you. That's seriously so wrong and it's happened to me to. Gald you were strong about it & didn't give in, good for you. Anyway, there shouldnt be a problem going up to guys and starting a conversation. Just be yourself and if you're too shy, make eye contact and smile, let them come up to you. hope i helped! xo
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Okay..don't wait for them to come to you..take that chance..you go to them! Just be like "hey..my names *ur name* whats urs?" and then just ask him how long he's gonna be campin where you are and stuff..ask him age and all that good stuff too..i hope i helped..GOOD LUCK!!
*much love*
*~tasha~*
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Yeah course just talk to them how you normally would! But if they hint or whatever.. forget them and look around again! hehe
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