hey its me again ull probally reconize me comparing to all of my questions. well anyways anthony now likes me and im so0oo frikin HAPPY! he started to like me yesterday. but turns out his grandfather passed awa too. he didnt tell me my friends brotha did. But the problem is i took your advice b4 and i went for it and asked him out. And i kno hes gonna say yes but he hasnt yet. and i dunn wanna rush him or anythin cuz he still pretty sad about his grandpas death. and i juss wanted to kno how longs should i wait to bring it up its already to been about 3days since i mention about askin him out. Ps. he still dont know that i kno bout his grandpa hoo passed away yesterda y sadly.
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Friday July 23 2004, 10:26 pm: Hey! Aww yay he likes you!! But, now that you know he likes you, he'll say yes. Just give him time to get over his grandpa. I mean, I can't give you an answer of how long it will take him. But when you two are talking just be like "I know you didn't tell me about your Grandpa, I found out and I just want to say I'm really sorry! I just want you to know I'm here for you. And you know I like you, and you said you like me too, and I'm not trying to rush anything, I just want you to know whenever you are ready to go out, I'm ready too" Just say something like that. And just wait for his response. And if you still need help, just post back. I'll be glad to help. Hope this helps and good luck!
JamesBaybiGurl answered Friday July 23 2004, 9:25 pm: tell him you understand what he is going through and you will be there 100 percent throughout the whole thing to support him and that should make him more comfortable to tell you things and to be with you more!
KiSsEs answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:58 pm: Tell him that your aware of his grandfathers desceasness and your sad to hear about it. Just be there for him cuz im sure he needs someone at a time like this. I say...if you REALLY care/like him you'll wait untill he's ready.
Courtney answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:26 pm: Well, you want to bring it to his attention that you know that his granfather died, but you don't want to drag it out and don't act too sympathetic . Let him know that you are compassionate about his lost . Then wait a day or 2 before you mention dating and if he mentions it then do what u think best . You probably don't want to rush him into a a relationship because of the death and all though . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:20 pm: dear confused girl,
just be there for him rite now. he needs you. so just be there for him rite now and then later ask
him. you'll know when it's rite. good luck.
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lizzie8246 answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:25 pm: i think you shud wait a bit until his grandpas death dies down a lil. like a few more days or a week. but until then, let him kno that you know and tell him that your sorry for his loss and stuff. show him that u care about his situationa nd him. plus, (lol) it will prob make things easier in the relationship-to-come if he knos he can talk to u and trust you. good luck! hope i helped!
~Lizzie [ lizzie8246's advice column | Ask lizzie8246 A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:11 pm: I would wait a week because my moms best friends brother died and it takes a while to get over someone really close to you dieing...I would wait until he comes to you or wait a week...
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