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my boyfriend wont let go
me and eddie ( me exboyfriend ) broke up about 2 months ago, we went out for 3 years and things were really serious. i was 12 wen i went out with him and now im 15.i lost all my friends, and he lost all his.he broke up with me about 2 years ago and he was cheating on me for the last week of our realationship.i finally got over him and he came back to me.so we have been going out ever since.eddie is very controlling.he wouldnt like it if i had on makeup,he would get mad when i wore a thong to school, i had NO guy friends, and it was jus bad. i broke up with him bout 2 months ago cuz i couldnt take it anymore. he had an anxiety attack and went to the emergnecy room. he begs me everyday to go back out with him .ive been talking to a couple of guys and hes been threatin them.i have to admit- i do play with his head, one day im havin sex with him, then the next i dont talk to him. but now im really sick of it cause we still fite wen we dont even go out. i think i love him but idk if i shood talk to him or jus not talk to him at all. but if i hear he is with another girl ill get upset. im really confusing but i just need advise , should i not talk to him again? [ me and him cant work out as friends ] or jus try to aviod him..oh ya i saw ur pictures ur madd pretty
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Just let him go. If he actually does like you, he would be at least less controlling, and give up some things too, not just you.
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wow gurl....let him go...tha way he is, makin you confused so much fyting and worse...controlling you, who should or shouldn't be your friends and all that, is not ryte. ive experienced something kind of lyke this and i knoe it relly hurts. you may love him a lot but i think its maybe tha best for tha both of you if you two dont go wit each other....lyke dont aviod him completly...styll talk to him but not lyke a whole lot lyke talk to him if he talks to you an all hope all goes well xOxO
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dont ever go out wit him if he that controling then say it was ur faul
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I'm guessing this was asked to a specific person, but I'm going to answer. You sound like your in the exact same situation as one of my good friends. She was thirteen when her and her boyfriend got together, and she was almost seventeen when they finally broke up, and I couldn't have been happier for her. He was abusive, both physically and mentally. This guy sounds a lot like her ex. He wouldn't let her have any guy friends, and he wouldn't let her try to dress nice for school. She lost all her friends and always talks about how she missed out on having a normal teenage life. For a long time they would still hang out, or at least try to, but they would get into a fight every time. Whenever I was there I ended up breaking up a fight, and I have seen some good guy friends beat him up because he was trying to be abusive with her.
She finally figured out that she had to stop all ties with him. She couldn't hang out with the same friends, could absolutely never drink together. She admitted to me that she does the same thing as you, sleep with him, but then ignore him and just fuck with his head.
They went out for a long time, and even though she knew he was an ass, she still got jealous. But she finally got smart and got rid of him. You should do the same thing. Just stay away from him and find a new life.
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hmmm i think that you need to let go if hes that controlling and if you still love him sure but tahts hard to deal with seriously
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