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Sex <Again or not?>
I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it?
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Just go for it. The only thing you really have to worry about is if it feels good to you or not. It's a better way for yourself to control on wether you want it in deeper or not as deep, harder or faster or w/e else you want at that time. N don't feel like you have to impress him with anything because the more you do that the better you'll get at it.
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First of all lets hope you're using some sort of protection. The world doesn't need another fatherless teenage pregnancy. Being on top can actually be a lot of fun. This time you can be the only in control. The dominating one. Theres ways you can hint around to see if he likes it and if he's had a girl on top he should know how it works and will more than likely guide you to where and how he likes it. When you're on top he's your playground. Have fun!
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aright here goes......from a guys point of view, all this guy wants is to try new things, and like all men he fantasizes about different sexual positions yada yada, the point is no matter where you are top, bottem, or whatever the most important thing is to just make sure your both comfortable....asking a guy if it feels ok during sex is perfectly normal...even if it seems awkward believe me if this guy is straight he wont mind the extra few seconds it takes to get cituated......my last point is that if you are uncomfortable with being on top or are just nervous about it the obvious solution is to just tell him you dont want to or tell him your not comfortable with it.....i personally recomend trying it because i think it increases pleasure for both, as the girl gets to do, and move about however she likes the guy is still getting the same sex just in a more sexy and fantasy like position hah......hope i helped
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the person on the top is the one givn it the person on the bottom is receiving it so usually you should like just work it..and kiss n stuff just u prolly have to do mor work whitch isnt too bad unless u dont want to just do something kinky to get his mind off of u bein on the top!
-stephanie
*u sound like u kno what u doin im sure u can pull it off* lol..-x0x
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Well, it's not like there's a plethora of ways to do it...uhm....well, it's the same as missionary, except that you're on top o_O
Uhm...but it's good, because you get to control how deep he goes. The only downside is that if he slips out of you......yesh...
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well u sound smart just do wat u did last time but u will just be on top it is exsacly the same
luv vanna
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dear sex,
if you don't know how to do it either tell him that you don't know how to do it. or just ask him what he wants. like what will make him happy.
but you don't do it all! let him pleasure you. just be honest he will help you.
*~~~shana~~~*
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Tell your friend that you are not comfortable with that. If he really wants it, he will work with you.
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If you want to do it again then do it. Just go with the motion up and down...
x0x JamieLynn
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