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lonely


Question Posted Friday July 23 2004, 6:27 pm

all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out?

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liltipsyboy01 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 11:57 pm:
get a bf im me and give more advice my sn is liltipsyboy01

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snapcraklepop917 answered Friday July 23 2004, 10:03 pm:
well..you shouldn't feel left out because if they have a boyfriend and you dont then thats ok..one day you'll haev a boyfriend and they wont s just dont let it bother you and keep lookin

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runawaygirl answered Friday July 23 2004, 10:03 pm:
I felt that way for a long time, I wanted a bf so bad that I became desperate and went out with the first guy that would have me. This turned out to be a miserable relationship, but when I ended it, I still wanted a bf. I went out with 2 more guys right afterward, and it wasn't until after the last one that I realized that I did'nt need a guy to be happy. My 2 best friends both got boyfriends and I started to feel left out, but I kept telling myself that my prince would come. I waited, and now I'm with a guy that I really like and that likes me. There are 2 morals to this story. 1. You have to learn to love yourself and to love being single (you aren't tied down!) 2. The number one thing that guys are attracted to is confidence. If you learn to love yourself and stop caring what people think, you will appear more attractive, and therefore, get a bf!

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Friday July 23 2004, 9:31 pm:
go on a boy adventure like go to the mall and just shop and stuff and then like find someone you like or looks like your type and do something really funny to make him laugh and then like talk to him like make him want u b like why u laughn huuuh huh...and just like b fun with it and usually they willll hang out with you..thats what i do and shoot let me tell ya its worth a try thats how i met one of my boyfriends and we went out for 2 yrs then we broke up!


-stephanie

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KiSsEs answered Friday July 23 2004, 9:11 pm:
i say go boy scouting! Find someone who you can share your interests with and talk about with your friends... that way you wont feel left out. but on the bright side, look at it as being independent!!!!

*hope i helped & good luck*

~*~KiSsEs~*~

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ArisuStarr answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:52 pm:
Be happy being single!! When they're talking about how happy they are with their guys, talk about how happy you are, being independant!

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girdy_goo15 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:25 pm:
dear lonely,
don't feel bad cauz you don't have a bf. be happy
bein single. it's better. so don't feel lonely.
when someone asks you out you won't be lonely anymore. until then. *~~~shana~~~*

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Shortlilcutie answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:20 pm:
ok you don't have to feel lonly about all your friends have a boyfriend....when itz time for a boy to ask you out becuz he likes you then its time but don't feel lonely...have fun being SINGLE.......cuz you get to look at guys and your friends really can't becuz they have a b/f.......so HAVE FUNN BEING SINGLE.....!!



*i hope i helped*

-shortlilcutie-

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Nicegirl06 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:14 pm:
Hey, I felt same away before I always wanted bf and I haded. but thing is now i dont want chase guys i let them come to me lol.. so Just go with the Flow and Have fun and feel Lucky becouse you have lot ahead of you having bfs

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:03 pm:
well think of it this way...its better to be single because i mean..u get to flirt all around!! your not just committed to one guy!! maybe you all could just go on GIRLS NIGHT OUT! and NO boys or the talk of any boys! i bet that would make you feel betta! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dROp oNe In My InBoX]

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dancergal1024 answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:01 pm:
start flirting with a bunch of guys and say something like "I'm so glad I am unatached cuz i can flirt and dance with a bunch of guys without feeling horrible" that will make them feel jealous that they cant

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:49 pm:
go meet someone-trix

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xOx_AdElA_xOx answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:39 pm:
tou shud try to find a boyfriend too thats the onlii thing that i think will help the situation

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bombberries answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:35 pm:
Start looking for a guy! Another alterative is find a hobby or get a job, something that interests you and can help kill time.

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0x0_Krazzi_Shawty answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:18 pm:
Heyy! Well wat u could do iz get a b/f of ur own or sumone else that u can brag bout n join in on tha conversation!

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:17 pm:
You might ask them not to talk about their attachments so much when you're around because it makes you feel lonely.
You can ask your friends to try setting you up with someone, or help you guy hunt. Sometimes even looking for guys can be fun and take your mind off of wanting a guy.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)

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xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:12 pm:
Well talk about a boy your interested in.. Or when they talk about there boyfriends just say.. I know how you feel about them but When you talk about them i feel left out.. or hang out with other girls who dont have b/fs.. or get a bunch of your friends 2gether and do sumthing like an Amusement Park
Movies
Bowling
Swimming
Sleep Over

and just talk about other things... Don't let not having a b/f stop you from having fun and talking to ur girls cuz they have b/fs... cuz eventually you will have one and one of them won't and they'll see how it is.



Hope I helped...

If you need anymore advice leave one in my inbox or im me... ;)

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SuPeRgUrLs_AdViCe answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:08 pm:
bein different is originality! who knows, you might have a bf in the near future and all of them will be upset cuz they got dumped. you never know what lies ahead...so sit back and take what comes your way! hope i helped :)

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anonymous_lil_me answered Friday July 23 2004, 7:02 pm:
Don't feel left out. Being single is wonderful! You can flirt like crazy and everything. Do you want a bf though? If you want one, girl you gotta start looking and getting to know some guys! Ask your friends if there bfs have any cute friends you can get to meet. If you don't want one though, start hanging out with friends that don't have a bf but if ALL your friends do, meet some new people! hope i helped. xo

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