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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!

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shelly (link)
There isn't really a specific time in a relationship to have sex, you will just know when it's time, if you're not sure if you're ready, then most likely you're not.


Ok well I am still very much in love with my ex. July 8th we would have been together for a year. We broke up in Febuary. He was my first love and the first person I have ever had sex with. We were suppose to go to prom and everything, but he said that we fight to much. He said that he would always love me no matter what. Then a couple weeks after we broke up he decided he wanted to take someone else to prom and just treated me like shit. We talked about it and he said he loved me but he just wanted to be fiends for now that later on we might get back together. That was in april and I have not talked to him since then. How do i get through to him and get him back??? 16/F (link)
Okay, So I went through pretty much your exact situation, except I was the one who broke up with my boyfriend and treated him like shit, and all you really can do is give him his space. It sucks and all, but you can't force someone to be with you if it's not what they want, you'll just fight constantly and and say things that hurt each other more. You should try talking to him about it and let him know you're hurting, and ask him once and for all if there is any chance of you guys getting back together, because you can't just sit and wait, I mean it's already been 5 months.
...Hope I helped!


this isnt really sex but my boyfriend hasnt asked me for head but i know that he has gotten it before im not scared to do it im just unsure of wut to do .. somebody help me FASSTTT (link)
I had the same problem too, I was SOO nervous I had no clue what I was doing, but I was comfortable enough with my boyfriend and he knew I had never done it before, so I kind of just did the basics and went up and down on it and from there he just told me what he likes and what feels good! There IS a first time for everything, you're not born knowing how to give it and it's not taught in school, just let him know what's up, it's not like he's going to make fun of you or anything... he's gunna get something out of it too!


okay..well theres this boy and its been like 2 months since he dumped me..and i just cant seem to get over him, i love him to death..and i miss him more then anything..but i wouldnt say that i was in love with him..but i guess we were pretty close..im trying my hardest to stop thinking about him..but its not all that easy..what should i do? (link)
I had the same problem when my boyfriend and I broke up, and it was REALLY hard to stop thinking about him, but you need to get your mind off him somehow! Try having girls nights with your friends and go places where alot of guys are, maybe you'll meet a new one! Put everything that reminds you of this guy into a box, and hide it from yourself so you don't have to look at the stuff.




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