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okay..well theres this boy and its been like 2 months since he dumped me..and i just cant seem to get over him, i love him to death..and i miss him more then anything..but i wouldnt say that i was in love with him..but i guess we were pretty close..im trying my hardest to stop thinking about him..but its not all that easy..what should i do?
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Of course its not easy! No break up is easy.. I understand completely how you feel though! Are you and the guy still friends? If so maybe you should stop the communication for a while so you have time to get over him. If your not on a talking basis then just focus on sumone new. I know you think its impossible now but it works! Or spend alot of time with your friends. Go shopping to the movies out to eat swimming to an amusement park and go with a huge group of your friends chances are you'll be talking and you won't even think about this guy! And if hes really on your mind alot then think about the things you didn't like about him. And if you have things of his (hats jackets etc.) pack them away or throw them away so your not reminded. And maybe who knows you'll find Mr.Right and that guy will want you back but you'll realize your better off without him
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ive been thru this 294892834 times lol .. what u have to do is set ur mind either on another guy or find somethinq else to care about .. spend more time w. ur family or friends .. who needs guys ne ways
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Hey gurL .. Well, I've been in this situation before .. N well I still am like that .. I went out with a guy N we broke up..N I still love him N miss him terribly. But I realized that what U really need to do is live your life to its fullest. By that I just mean try to reminsce about the good times yall have had..not the bad. If it makes U feel better..take all of the things that remind U of him N put it away in a box or something. Try N go more activities out of the hosue to stop thinking of him..I know it's easy for me to say all this but it's really hard to do..but just hang in there..Time will pass..N all this will fade away im time. Remain friends with him if yall still talk on a good basis...N just hang out with your friends...Hold ya head up..it'll get better in some time. It may take a while..for me it's been 10 months exactly today since me and my ex broke up...N I'm keeping my head up good..i/m me if ya need anything...don't hesitate..my i/m on AIM is xoxotiggerxo143 ...
<3 HugS N KisseSsSs, <3
.. SoniYa ..
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I had the same problem when my boyfriend and I broke up, and it was REALLY hard to stop thinking about him, but you need to get your mind off him somehow! Try having girls nights with your friends and go places where alot of guys are, maybe you'll meet a new one! Put everything that reminds you of this guy into a box, and hide it from yourself so you don't have to look at the stuff.
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Well you could tell him how you feel and he still might feel the same way for you. Or you could get involved with other activitys, or find like a job or do some sports and you might find a cute attractive guy while doing that. That should totally keep you busy and keep your mind clear of this guy! Good luck
-holly-
Hope i helped
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I understand where you are coming from and it is not always all that easy to get over people but in time you do. What I usually do is become friends with them and try to find someone anyone a boyfriend or just a best friend and I hang-out with them because then you will keep your mind off how you felt and then you will have different feelings for other people.
Love Ya Good luck,
***Haleigh Ann***
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Just try to find more things to think about, do things that will get him off your mind, start looking for another guy it will make you feel alot better
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