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Ok well I am still very much in love with my ex. July 8th we would have been together for a year. We broke up in Febuary. He was my first love and the first person I have ever had sex with. We were suppose to go to prom and everything, but he said that we fight to much. He said that he would always love me no matter what. Then a couple weeks after we broke up he decided he wanted to take someone else to prom and just treated me like shit. We talked about it and he said he loved me but he just wanted to be fiends for now that later on we might get back together. That was in april and I have not talked to him since then. How do i get through to him and get him back??? 16/F
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Well i would start to get in touch with him first and not jump to conclusions because over so many months people can change its been 3 months now and he could be in a serious relationship so dont ruin that for him if you do love him but you should just try to move on..or if you have already tried that..then give him a call and just ask him what he has been up to-trix
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hmm i pretty much went thur the same thing and well lets put it this way if u guys always aruged u werent meant to be and just think bout it this way ur better off that u guys arent together cuz u have gotten hurt alot worse than ur hurtin now and that the fact that u had sex wit him ull need up probably regreting it later on thats if u havent already..if i was u i wouldnt even bother bout gettin thur to him and gettin him back have u told him how u felt? in some cases that works but in all..hope i helped good luck
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I know that it hurts that your still in love with him. But maybe this was a sign that your stronger and that you could move on. If he doesn't care why should you. You shouldn't let him think that he has complete power over you. becuz your giving him the chance to say I want you back when im ready for you. then its no longer mutual. I think you could find better and go maybe with a best male friend to the prom. He obviously didn't know what he had anyways.
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You don't - he is messing you about. He clearly treats your relationship as a game and if you end up back together it'll go on and on. You haven't spoke since April - I think that says it all. - buy for now
Derfel
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You should talk to him on the phone and set up a time to not *go out* but hang out. Then when you are there you should tell him that you still love him very much and that you would like to "be-with-him".
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Well, it won't be easy. It's obvious that you're stuck on him, but he's moved on. Guys are just out there to get a list of girls, some aren't, but you can't wait around on him. Tell him that you still love him and exactly how you feel, and that he needs to make a choice, it's now or never. If he says never .. well he was never in love with you when he said he was all those times when he was with the other girl. That's when it's time you move on and find someone else!!
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okay explain to him that if he really loved you he wouldnt be able to wait! because love cant wait! tell him what you told me! and tell him about how you feel about him. i think that if you really love him andhe really loves you like he says he does then things will work out but if they dont...maybe it wasnt ment to be! your only 16 theres plenty of time to find that special guy! good luck! xox Emily
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Okay, So I went through pretty much your exact situation, except I was the one who broke up with my boyfriend and treated him like shit, and all you really can do is give him his space. It sucks and all, but you can't force someone to be with you if it's not what they want, you'll just fight constantly and and say things that hurt each other more. You should try talking to him about it and let him know you're hurting, and ask him once and for all if there is any chance of you guys getting back together, because you can't just sit and wait, I mean it's already been 5 months.
...Hope I helped!
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Be really flirty with him, drop hints and stuff, tell him you like him still, show him you like him...
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