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there's a guy... we'll call him bill. :D he's 16, and i'm 14. he is the lead singer of my brother's band... he and i have had an INCREDIBLE friendship. we click REALLY well, and i care about him so much. i would do ANYTHING for this guy... and, i see myself married to him and starting a family with him someday. we are both into the same things, we both are crazy, and we both relate to eachother really well. he means everything to me. (sorry, i think we've already accomplished that... lol) anyways, he thinks that 2 years is too big of a difference, he treats other girls the same way that he treats me, (like a princess), and i just wish that I would be the only one that matters to him. forever. If only the arms that he throws around me could be around me forever. i want to wake up beside him every morning for the rest of my life.
i have it bad. help! –jessi
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Wow, you do have it bad. What you are feeling is a crush, a million happy emotions and thoughts but there's nothing you can really do to express them. You just have to keep telling yourself that your feelings are mostly an allusion. You are in love with an idea of the boy. In reality you know you would never marry a man that didn't love you back, and you wouldn't want to be in the arms of someone that doesn't hug back. You can't be in a relationship with someone if they don't want to be with you. Give yourself time, and your feeling will fade, and then you'll find the next boy you are in love with. Remember you are only 14, don't start looking for the man you are going to marry quite yet.
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We all have it bad at this age. Since he thinks 2 years is too big of a difference, I'm afraid you have to move on. Start talking to other guys, which will lead to you thinking about other guys. This will lead to wanting to date other guys.
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We all have it bad at this age. Since he thinks 2 years is too big of a difference, I'm afraid you have to move on. Start talking to other guys, which will lead to you thinking about other guys. This will lead to wanting to date other guys.
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We all have it bad at this age. Since he thinks 2 years is too big of a difference, I'm afraid you have to move on. Start talking to other guys, which will lead to you thinking about other guys. This will lead to wanting to date other guys.
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Hey Jessi I think i can help you in a way...I know what u mean about a guy not liking u b/c of the age difference..Well you are 14 years old and u are in love,majorly in love.but think of it this way if he isnt with you because of the age then does he love you?? b/c isnt love a mutual feeling between too people?if its only 1 person "loving" the other then the term is called infatuation. Sweety i would love to tell u u will be with this guy forever and ever but nobody knows-thats the whole deal with life ,and u are just starting out. there are going to be alot go guys and if this one is special to you then i would tell this guy"Bill" that u would appreciate it if he gave u a try.-talk with him and dont like say stuff to him like i wanna marry u and i wanna spend forever with you because he is 16 and that will scare him,-tell him that u think that u guys have alot in common and u like being with him and the way that he treats you and that u would like to be with him and see what he says if u are rational about the whole thing everything should work out-or maybe he's concerned with u being 14 and doesnt want to hurt you-or maybe he doesnt like you and just wanted an excuse(guys r jerks) but if he treats u right i would talk to him and see if your friendship could turn into a relationship..Also ask your brother how he feels about his sister goin out with his friend and singer of his band-cus if u 2 brake up it could mess up the thing with ur bro and "Bill." Hope I helped let me know and write back!!! *Sammi
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You do got it bad girl! I had it too, with my brother's band lead singer, weird huh? It's great you have such a connection with this guy, he sounds like a really good guy, and there rare. 2 years isn't that big of a difference, it's not like hes 18 or something. Explain to him that 2 years isn't much and you guys seem to click really well which should make the 2 years not even matter at all. I really do know how you feel and it's hard having it S0 bad for a guy you'd do anything for. Just don't come on too strong or he'll back away! Take things slow, talk more and get to know eachother even more than you do now. Stay friends for now until he starts realizing how great & devoted of a girlfriend you'd be! hope i helped xo
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