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cant let go... Ok i need help! i havent really gotten over any guy i have ever went out with. crazy i know but once i really like someone and went out and what not i havent really gotten over them just moved forward in a way. and like i want to not have feelings for this guy cuz he is not good for me or so everyone tells me and i am having a hard time with this.any ideas or ways you do this... any kinda of advise or openions is greatly appreciated.
Lisa :)
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You haven't really moved forward. You've just made up a routine to make you think you moved forward.
Perhaps a personal reflection is long over-due.
If your friends are giving you such advice, I suggest you proceed with caution. They can't always be right.
I think you need some alone time to yourself in order to gain a sense of emotional independence.
By the way, just because you think of them doesn't mean you have not gotten over them. Keep that in mind. ]
Same with me. Once you fall for someone, anyone, it takes very long to get over them. It could even take years! I suggest you remind yourself of why this guy is bad for you and think of all the reasons you SHOULDN'T like him. Keep yourself busy so you don't find yourself thinking about him and then liking him more. Spend time with your friends, meet new guys, talk to new guys! If you still can't get him off your mind and out of your heart, maybe he's stuck there for a reason girl! If you really like him, talk to him, work things out and see if he feels the same. hope i helped xo ]
im being serios here my mom did this and she said it worked dont if it will with you whenever you think aboat him eat choclat ]
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