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im upset because my friend has a boyfriend and i dont and she doesnt have a good relationship with him but at least she has 1. i think im mature enough to handle 1.. and i could be with someone in my own grade but at the same time i want to be with someone who is older and more mature than i am. I dont know if i should stick to where i feel comfortable or take a risk and go for the older guys. help me please
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Well make sure you comfortable when taking the risk and then go for it get to know the guy first.. be friends before you make any commitments
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it is better to have no relationship, than to have a bad one.
on the other hand, it's also better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
do what feels right to you, don't do things because your friends are doing them. like whoever you want to like, or don't like anyone at all. but if you like someone, don't just sit there and like him/her, do something about it. take what life throws you, if it throws you an older guy then go with it if you feel right, if it's someone younger then go with him.
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well youll never know about being with an older guy until you try , yea i have went out with a bunch matter of fact im with one now. but u have to know that not every older guy but most are looking for only one thing cuz your young and its easy cuz they'll tell u yea i do love you. that works every time . but no do u think they really love you .... negative they love what they now theyre going to get when they say them 3 little words ... but im not just downing them .. i have a wonderful older guy... and he doesnt want that.. you just have to becareful of which OLDER guys you talk to.. some good some bad like picking out good apples heheh omg thats crazy but true..
i wish the best luck to you!!
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I think you should just stay w/ where ur comfortable..then ur relationships will probaly be more stronger and stay longer..lol I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!
*~tasha~*
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dOn`t lOok fOr a quy based On if he`z Older. believe it Or nOt Older quyz can be just as immature as 6 year Oldz. When ur lOokinq fer a quy, lOok at his persOnality, nOt aqe, qrade Or wat kind Of car he has. Sumtimez datinq an Older quy can be weird, yOu may nOt have thinqz in cOmmOn and yOu may lOose interest in him...abOut ur friend, lOok fOr all tha bad thinqz in her relatiOnship and fiqure Out what kind of relatiOnship yOu`d like. that wOuld alsO help yOu find tha riqht quy.
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well i think its best to try someone your age... and if it doesnt work out tehn yeah maybe you need someone whos older then you i guess it all depends how you feel about someone.. hope i helped!! rate me!
xoxo
*JeSs
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Make sure you want a relationship with someone because you want to be close to that boy and not just because your friend has a boyfriend! You sound like you are very mature and could def. go for someone older. Good idea to stick with whats comfortable, though. I would first stick with whats comfortable with you. If you really want to go out with an older guy, go right ahead. If you want to go out with someone your own age, there shouldn't be any problem. Go with your instincts! hope i helped xo
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hey dont worry about whether ur friend has a boyfriend or not u have to wait for your guy. ur guy might be ur age or way older or a lil older or whatever but hes gonna be perfect for you and the only guy u want so just wait on him and u wont regret it. :)
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