Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 10:53 am
Hey! well i have basketball which takes like most of my time, cuz we have practice from 3-6 N school startin soon N stuff! our games commin up,well i want to be able to go to da football games to cheer on hawks! N to show a guy i'll support him! u kno?Well i like him a lot, N we see eachotha up @ school,but like he doesn't talk to me, but he talks to this otha gurl dat used ta be muh friend, i dont' kno wut me N her is anymore, but like wat makes me so differ form her?I guess he's busy too, cuz of football, da coaches are mostly on his ass cuz of QB! so yea, but i want to call him, N i have, but l8ly no one picks up, or he doesn't return muh calls, i can understand if muh line is busy, but when i talk to his friends((they muh friends too))he doesn't come wit them to tlak to me, he alwayz did b4 but not now!why is this? for da otha gurl he does! i'm so confused*lol*Our lockers are right next to eachotha N i dunno if it's good or bad, cuz everything dat came out of mouth l8ly wuz pretty mean, but i think he wuz juss messin round....please answer da questions sumwherres ^ therre*lol* but herre's sum mores, Wut can catch his eyes? How can i approach him?should i try to see wuts goin on wit da otha gurl? ((we were once best friends but we drifted away!N now she in a differ crew, N i guess both of da ppl we chill wit, don't clique))should i try to talk to him? if i call him, wut should we talk bout, cuz therre's times therres dead silience N i'm da person talkin, but he's tired, N i'm tired too*lol*! wut do i do? i'm sorry it's long, Thanx a bunch! Take care
Taylor_mariee answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:42 pm: hey do you cheer for horsham hawks? IM me wit the answer! cuz if you do you probablly kno mee
and the advice i have is juss go up to him and talk, IM him onlyne or call him ... talk bout what yous both lyk dont be shy if you were friends then you shouldnt be... and juss make plans and chyll together! dont be shy round him juss cuz now you lyk him! hope i helped if you got anymore questions drop on in mah inbox ~rate me~ and IM me to answer mah question at the top`! its brunetebarbie0x! well thats all thanx bye
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under15dog answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 2:20 pm: well i would start off by seein whats up with YOU and ur ex best friend i mean u had to drift away for a reason and friends last longer than boyfriends neway. about catchin his eyes i would just wear stuff u like cuz it kinda depends on what he likes girls to wear to catch his eyes. you too obviusly know each other so just talk about like school n ur different sports n if hes nervous about his games n what he wants to do after high school. n his classes. n his friends. n ur friends........theres alot to talk about so just dont be nervous when ur nervous on the phone theres dead time and thats what kills ya. dont call over and over and over again tho just call every once in a while n try talkin at ur locker it doesnt have to be an in-depth conversation just about like his next class or somethin. but i would try to rebuild the bridge between u n ur old best friend first jus to see what sup there n while ur doin that u can find out if theres nethin with her n ur boi. lata [ under15dog's advice column | Ask under15dog A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 11:58 am: Maybe the reason why he doesnt come over and talk to you also is because he shy and also confused like you are.Leave him a note in his locker..that will definately catch his eyes.Yea..talk to the girl..approach her friendly. Just ask if shes into him and if he likes her, etc. Its ok that she drifted away..you can still talk to her for a second.Approach the guy..just talk to him in person, online, get a friend of his to ask him what hes feeling, anything. Just go with the flow, dont seem uptight..definately talk to him. If you call him you can just talk about football and basketball..you dont have to talk for a long time, cuz you both are tired. If he has AIM talk to him on there. Talk about:
-family
-friends
-problems
-sports
-your past
-your favorites ( colors,foods,movies,music,)
-the olympics
-video games
-school
-teachers
-funny stories
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