my friends parents didnt save up money for her to go to college and they tell her that she cant live away from home and has to go to community college or the one nearby even tho she wants to go away - shes smart tho, like she gets good grades and stuff just not high enuf to get a large scholarship and i feel bad bcuz she doesnt have much options and i do ~ is there any way to help?
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:38 am: well what she can do is get a job and start saving up... by the time shes 18 if she has enuff money to support herself she can go to college... if not she can go to a community college for a couple of years than transfer to a university by the time she can support herself... community colleges arent all that badd :) [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
Ryan answered Thursday August 19 2004, 1:01 am: there is always financial aid. Almost everyone cant afford to go to college they get help through financial aid. Or she can join the military like me and have it all paid for in full. But i doubt that will happen. Good luck though [ Ryan's advice column | Ask Ryan A Question ]
sk8rgurl answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 9:05 pm: she can do those gibbs or chub institutes for jobs. there not like really expesive but it helps u get jobs and teaches u to specialize in certain feilds.i think that she can get a benificial education from one of those places!!
xForeverxForgottenx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:33 pm: well any scholarship is better then none. and she should talk to her parents about what she wants to do. its her education and it should be her choice as to where she wants to go. and just be there for her with whatever she choses. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
rugbyNsoccer4890 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:05 pm: well, in ireland every subject you get an A in you can take for free. Is that far away enough.
Wow, this ones hard. You could help her raise some money. Wow those are some crappy parents.
AH
She should stand up, and so should you. You both should sit her parents down and give her a long talk. She's old enough to move out and thats what she wants to do, her parents are no longer in control of her life. She's 18 she's old enough to make her own decisions and choose her own future. Not her parents. Her parents cant do that. And if a talk like that doesn't work start a petition and get donations with the signatures. She's not a little girl anymore [ rugbyNsoccer4890's advice column | Ask rugbyNsoccer4890 A Question ]
Luscious_Kisses15 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 2:57 pm: My parents and i talk about this all the time. Well if she's pretty smart, then hopefully she'll get a partial scholarship. That should cover hopefully half of it, then there's always the other half, and the books/ room and board. I always like to think that there are 2 options.
Number one, she could do what her parents want, and go to a community college close by. She could live at home and just drive back and forth, then she would save the costs of room and board. Hopefully she has a good relationship with her parents and they won't put restrictions on her if she does live there. Other wise maybe she could go to the closest 'real' college and commute there and still live at home.
Or, she could get a partial scholarship and go away for college. There are always school loans she could take out, and you don't have to start paying them off, until she gets her first job after graduating. Maybe even her parents could make payments with her on her school loan like half and half or just help out a bit. Also she could do that, and try to get a cheap apartment and get a roomate to cut costs.
under15dog answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 2:26 pm: well if she goes to a junior college for a year and really works hard and pulls like all a's or something she can get a big scholarship for a big school or she can get a job or a loan but a loan follows u for a long time. if shes in florida she could try bright futures but that might jus be in florida. (thats the state where its hot all the time) [ under15dog's advice column | Ask under15dog A Question ]
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