Hey I`m Zoe -- completely into music (violin and electric violin) and soccer and tennis among other random sports .. I love to help people so ask whatever!! xox -z0e!!
Gender: Female
Location: U - S - OF - A
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Age: 13
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Member Since: July 25, 2004
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I have this friend i think he is GAY and he is like always making fun of me and my one friend and i think he takes everything WAY TO SERIOUSLY by the way i am a 14 M and he is a 14 m HELP
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theres nothing wrong with gay people...just because he acts the stereotypical "gay" way doesnt mean hes gay. confront him and dont be so prejudiced
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Does anyone know about record deals? Like does it cost money and like around how much? and like is it hard and do you need anything to get a record deal? (link)
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find a local recorder..if you know any people in bands ask them where they record music if they do. make a demo then take/send it to a record company thats kinda local. it`ll make a good impression and show youre pretty serious and it`s normal procedure for a lot of them .. some teachers might know some companies or where to record the demo!!
xox - hope it works out!! -zoe
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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
i rate (link)
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my immortal -- evanescence *holy crap good song :) love it!!
xox-zoe
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see i want a classic guitar but i don't exactly know were to get one and i don't have the money to buy oneand so what should i do?
-bubba78
P.S.i am a girl who needs advise
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eBay ..
google searches
local music shops [scottie`s .. guitar place]
ask anyone you know plays guitar
check out the local college`s music dept if they have one, they`ll have connections
you could try a kc music or rayburns if you have one locally!
good luck!!
xox-elle
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okay here's the situation. my parents are going through a divorce. my dad has a good job, but my mom is only part time. to spite everyone, my dad refuses to buy groceries for the house and my mom cant really afford to either. so i have just been accustomed to rarely eating ( i usually only eat at work). now whenever i get hungry, i eat only a little of something and i feel really full.. like sick full. whats wrong with me? am i anorexic? im not skin and bones or anything, but i think im underweight ( im 5'2'' and 110 lbs.) ugh i think im broken :( help fix little old me (link)
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since you work, you must get a paycheck sometimes! so maybe you could donate a little of that money to your food cause. you should start small and work your way up bit by bit to larger amounts of food. remember to try and keep it healthy-ish is you can =( i hate health food its crap ..
good luck!!
xox-elle
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I'm going to get braces within a few weeks and I'm kinda starting to worry about playing flute with them. Do any of you have braces and play flute? If so, is there anyway you can position the flute so it's not right on your chin when you play? Also, will having braces dramatically change my performance? (link)
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crap!! i hated that! it`s harder with piccolo though =( try to keep it in the same place and maybe you can put wax over your braces to stop cutting in. it won`t really interfere, but you really have to keep at it!
good luck
xox-elle
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i just reciently got an juvenile iguana, named Draco. hes pretty small, and verrrrry skiddish. whenever i put my hand in the cage, he spazzzzes out so badly. my mom and the pet shop ownver said he will sooner or later get over it and trust me. does anyone know how long it will take, and what i can do to help our relationahip grow?
please help---will rate well if answered;)
-britski- (link)
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my brothers lizard was an anole but the same situationg. if possible, find some food that he likes [not living] and put in your hand and let him eat of it. take him out every day for 15-20 minutes. he`ll get used to you in no time!!
draco .. named after malfoy in harry potter..shit he`s hottt!!! 0:)
-xox-elle
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Do any of you know where I can buy Evanescence's CD "Le Nouveau Gothique"? I've searched the local Target, Wal*Mart, Best Buy, Circuit City, and music store and I've not been able to find it. I don't really want to buy it on eBay because shipping and handling is ridiculously expensive. So... any of you know where this magical CD can be found? (link)
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amazon.com -- wicked cheap babyyy
daddy`s junky music store
goody`s
strawberrie`s
ring any bells?? best bet is amazon .. they have new and used so you can find something really cheap if you want!! =)
xox
ps-- awesome cd!!!! love it
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I don't wanna sound cocky by this, but I wanna make the big time. And I know I have the voice for it too. My friends, family, everyone tells me that I have a fabulous voice and need to be revealed to the public. I've been doing everything musical for my school, community, and town. For example, talent shows, school plays/musicals, taking vocal lessons, in region chorus. But my question is, how can I, a fourteen-year-old from NJ, make it in the music bizz? please help me... i'll rate fast..thanks
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i`d say, as a musician myself, is to get a really top quality voice coach at a conservatory or college. depending on the type of music you wanna do, you can get connections from him. you try slapping together a band to play at charity events and everything. that`s how i`m starting out and i`ve already gotten a ton of requests after only 3 months .. it`s a good way to begin.
hope everything goes your way!!
-xoxox-elle
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i dont live with my dad.my dad is mad at me.I dont want anything to do with him anymore. his friend tim from highschool is his best friend. and he is afraid to stick up 4 me. heres the story.... tims daughter (chelsey) and i have known eachother for 12 years.. just recently, we got in a BAD HUGE FIGHT. bad language was involved. and i got blamed for everything that we both said. and i told my dad its not fair that i have to get punished 4 somehting we both did. so he said he was gonna do something to me. so i refused to go with him. and my mom is stickin up 4 me.she is the only one i have. and like 3 days ago i got a call from my dad. he was tellin me i got grounded and i didnt. he told me to stay off the internet. he also asked y i said i hated chelsey and didnt want to be her friend any more. and i said i hate chelsey cuz the things she does to me. and i also told him i didnt want anything to do with him and he got mad at me and called me names. he also said im never welcome in his house anymore. he told me he would get me someday and hurt my mom.. what should i do? i have no clue. i dont want anyhting to do with my dad he gets into trouble with the law and i dont want anything to do with that or him. i think he hates me and i dont trust him anymore.. what should i do? this girl chelsey has also been tryin to be my friend but i dont want to be friends with her. she is also telling everyone she hates me and all her other friends filled my hole. now i hate her. im so confused and my dad makes my life miserable!!! help me please!
~Confused~
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you should tell your mom what he said. it`s illegal to threaten someone like that. tell your mom that you don`t feel safe with him. are your parents divorced or separated? maybe he`s mad at your mom about something and he`s taking it out on you because you are an easier target as you are younger. your mom will be able to help you and will in any way she can, i`m sure.
hope it works out
-xOx-elle
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my cousins have both had a lot of trouble with drugs and addiction. i am very scared they will die and i always cry when i talk about it. I get so sad and i dont no what to do, my emotions are taking me over! (link)
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maybe you should consider confronting them about it .. but that would totally hard .. even better would probably be to talk to your parents or your aunt/uncle. it`s obviously important to you that you want your cousins to be safe so you shoudl tell someone about their problems.
hope i helped and everything works out
-x0x-elle
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i want to paint my room black, and then splat paint it with bright pink. i thin kit would look awsome!!it would really reflect my wild, punk personality..im sure it would. but my mom says she will never paint my room black. i get soooooo pissed off!!!! nop matter what i do she always says no. i want the theme to be pink and black no matter what. please tell me what to do or how to get my mom to consider it!!!
please help!!
-britski- (link)
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you could maybe just do that on one wall then do the opposite on the others, maybe your mom thinks it`ll be too dark ..
hope i helped a bit
-xox-elle
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I'm 18 and I'm 5'3'' I weigh 132ish. I'm not really overweight or anything. But My tummy is just flabby. For 8 months due to sports I did 200 crunches and ran a mile, also did leg things on the wall. None of that is toning my stomache. I don't know if I'm doin something wrong or if any1 els has had this problem before. Maybe Im just weird. If ya kno anything else I can do to tone the tummy let me kno! (link)
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Hey,
I`m suggest going to a gym once or twice a week and using a Bowflex type thing and do cruches on that. It adds more resistance to your abs and helps tone up!
Hope it works!
-xox-elle
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Okay I'm 5'1 and my weight is 117!!!! Im not really sure if I'm fat. In my clothes I dont look fat n in my bikini I guess i dont either..I mean I dont look super skinny though either. I think I'm fat but my sister and bff say its mostly all muscle which may be true bc i am a dancer (Tap Jazz and Ballet) n I have been dancing for about 5 years. I dont think its muscle though...I really wish i was skinnier but my sister says it would look dumb bc i have a "BIG ASS!!!!" which guys like so its nice but i am REALLLLY insecure about my thighs and stomach..my bff says they look fine n they are all muscle but i still feel REALLLLLY fat...About a month ago i starved myself for 3 1/2 days n i lost 5 1/2 pounds! I would have kept going except my bff basically made me eat..I know that starving myself probably isnt tha best thing to do but its sooo easy and pretty fast. Im not sure what to do at all!! PlZzZ help!! Thanx xo0ox!! (link)
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I don`t know how old you are, but you seem to be fine! It probably is all muscle. You have been dancing for 5 years!! That builds it up! A lot of my friends are dancers and they are rock walls! But if you feel really insecure about your weight go to your doctor and ask him/her about it! Ask if you are normal and if you are, then work on your self confidence. But if you are a few pounds over, exercise more often, jog for a while every couple of days or lift weights. You might even try aerobic classes (they are fun!! get a friend to do them with you!!!) The only thing you should not do is starve yourself. That`s anerexia. And it`s not that easy. You are depriving yourself of food you really need to survive. You would begin to get really weak and tired all the time, and that would not be easy as you are a dancer.
Hope I helped you.
-xox- elle
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Im not sure if this belongs here...but i think i am underweight. Everyone says i look anerexic and i cant help it. my parents were both skinny. I am 5 feet exactly and weigh 97 pounds. Can somebody give me advice...am i underweight? (link)
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Hi,
You are fine. Your parents and you have fast metabolism. Thats all! I have fast metabolism too, I am probably about 105 and I am 5'6 to 5'7-ish! I don`t know how old you are, but for your height, about 100 is a perfect weight! If you feel self-concious about being skinny though, there are diets to help you gain a few extra pounds if you feel you need it!
Hope I helped a bit!
-xox- elle
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Hi, I'm 14 years old. And I weigh around 115 pounds. I don't exactly have a flat stomach but I'm not fat at the same time. I'm 5'2 and I think that I should loose some weight. I've been trying not to eat so much (I don't anyway) But I get light headed when I don't eat. What I'm asking is, is 115 pounds for a 5'2" 14 year old too much to weigh? I also don't feel good about myself because I don't have a flat stomach. Is there anyway I can get a flat stomach? I used to have one when I danced and did gymnastics, but I've quit those so I don't do any excersie anymore and It's hard to keep in shape that way. Also my parent's don't own any excersie equitment and I don't go to the gym. Thanks..*Love Annoyomous* (link)
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I have friends who are just the same as you! And they are perfectly fine with themselves. I think you just need some more confidence in your own body. If that means that you need to lost a few pounds, take an aerobics lesson or go to the gym once a week. Or get one of those yoga balls and do some exercises to your favorite music or while ou watch tv. The possibilities are endless! And also, it isn`t how much you eat, it`s what you eat. Just try to cut down on junkier foods and eat another apple or broccoli :p Not eating is not good for you!
Hope I helped a bit!
-xox- elle
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This questionis for the guys to answer:
I cant figure out what I am doing wrong....Im 17/female, 5'8", nice body, tan, Im not ugly (this is just f.y.i) I love sports, I consider myself to have a great personality and I dont act fake or anything. The thing is when Im in school guys never seem to notice me. What should I do or what am I doing wrong? (link)
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Hey,
You seem like a really nice person, a lot like my sister! It took a while for her to find nice guys and now she has a steady boyfriend of 2 years. What she did and I think you should do is aim for guys as friends. They`ll introduce you to other guys at parties and school and everything! I`m sure you`ll find someone who shares the same interests as you as well. You could try talking to some guys in your the same elective class as you, if you have a couple of those. Cause you already have similar interests and stuff!
Hope it works out!
-xox- elle
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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?! (link)
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Hey,
I heard the same thing but we didn`t really have to. And the showers for high school at my school and curtains and walls so there`s no privacy issue. But if your school is different and you do see other girl`s bodies, just build up your confidence and know that the other girls are probably just as anxious as you are. If you really are nervous then bring your bathing suit or an extra bra and underwear and change those clothes too! That`s what I`d do!
Hope it works out for you!!
-xox-
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There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other. (link)
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Hi,
I have a friend that had the same problem. The truth is, as much as you think you know and love this guy, it is not safe. My friend met this guy and he is a bully and smokes pot. He beats people up and threatens them. My advice is to just stay online buddies for a while and try and find out more about him. If he seems anxious to meet you, this could be bad. If you do decide to meet him, either bring friends if you are older, or bring your parents and have them watch at a distance in case of trouble if you are younger.
I hope everything goes alright for you.
Good luck -xox-
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':. (link)
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Hi Sarah,
Don`t worry it`s not sad at all! I am the same as you, 13 without a relationship. None of my friends have been in one either. It`s fine. Your never too young or old to fall in love, but love isn`t real if it`s just because and you will probably get hurt that way =[ And there`s plenty of fun other than guys! There will be new girls too, and that means for girl-friends and guy-friends too!
Hope it works out!
-xox-
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