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my cousins have both had a lot of trouble with drugs and addiction. i am very scared they will die and i always cry when i talk about it. I get so sad and i dont no what to do, my emotions are taking me over!
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hunny...i know where you are coming from. my cuz used to do EVERYTHING! and he still smokes sometimes. it scares me too, because he's 20 and has been in SOOOOOOOOOOO many drunken fights. all you can do is tell them that you are scared for them. If they can't see how much you love them and refuse to listen, than that is there decision! as bad as that may sound!:(
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maybe you should consider confronting them about it .. but that would totally hard .. even better would probably be to talk to your parents or your aunt/uncle. it`s obviously important to you that you want your cousins to be safe so you shoudl tell someone about their problems.
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get help from a older person
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My dad's still adicted to drugs at 50 years old.
He doesn't have a house, or a car.
I think he's the paperguy and a fry cook at a restaurant.
People are always addicted to drugs.
Some of them just get caught up with the wrong hook ups.
Hopefully, they'll find the right path and they won't die.
I doubt they'll OD unless they're the HARDCORE junkies on narcotics.
Who knows?
Maybe they'll get busted and they'll learn drugs aren't the way to go as well...
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listen, i know exactly how you feel. last year my best friend of 16 years died of a heroin overdose, and my ex boyfriend is in rehab right now for it also. you need to talk to them about it. let them know how much you care and that drugs don't solve problems, they only make them. you need to be there for them because addiction is physically and emtionally draining. it's alright to cry about this when you talk about it because it is a scary thing, and you letting them know just how much its hurting you might make them understand just how much you care and you're scared for them. ask them how they feel about a rehab problem because honestly, sooner or later, drugs will mess up their lives. just talk to them, be assertive and tell them that they need to change. they might get mad.. but it's better them being mad & getting clean, rather than them being addicted..
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I would definitely let them know how much you love them and that you are concerned.However,in these cases it's best not to pass judgement,or come off as yelling or criticizing them.That would just push them away even more.Let them know about your concerns and how much you love them and don't want to see anything bad happen to them.Other than that,unfortunately sweetie there really isn't much else you can do.Maybe try talking to an aunt or uncle,or one of your parents and see if they might be able to something further to get them help.Otherwise there isn't anything you can do other than letting them know how much you love them and are there for them.Sadly,these types of things sometimes take a person hitting rock bottom or just until THEY decide they've had enough,for it to end.You're definitely in my thoughts and prayers hunnie,and if you ever need someone to talk to,leave me a note in my inbox and I'd be more than happy to exchange s/n's with you!!!
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Alright, my cousin had the same problem, babe there's really nothing you CAN do. The only way they'll stop is if they're ready, which most of the time only comes up when they have a RUDE awakening call. But the best thing you can do is encourage them both to try stopping, try to get them to go do things with you, keep them busy so they won't have time to do those things.
On another note depending on how old you are, maybe you should talk to someone old enough to deal with something like this, but you could... on ceartain occausains if your cousins are over 18 that means they're old enough to make their own desisions. HOWEVER, you can go to a judge and do something, I'm not quite sure what, but he can put them in a drug rehabilitation place for that kinds of things. Now, if they're under 18,and you're really scard that they might die from it...TELL their parents.... it won't be a bad thing to do, you'll be saving thier lives. And their parents can more than likley do somethign about it.
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well maybe if you write them a letter about owe you feel maybe they will stop or if you try to get them help yeah i no that stuff is hard to get ova you can right poems that can get you over it i hope i helped
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Maybe you should try talkin to your cousins and tell them how you feel and your scared something might happen to thme. Maybe if you let them know you care they'll try n stop. Hope i helped <3 Sara
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do your cousins know how you feel?? if not you should tell them how you feel about there drug addiction..that might make them wanna quit..also u cud suggest a therapist of some sort to them xox i hope they quit and u feel better
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