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i like to play sports and all that stuff i havea nephew and i sibling and a mom and dad and i dont no what else to say
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What does it mean to have muscle tone in ur cheeks and is it a good or bad thing? I work out this summer so would that help and how can I improve it if it's a bad thing? I don't care what ppl think of me it jus would make my self-confidence higher. Thanks! (link)
hey all i can tell you is to be happy about it an take it as a compliment
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ok .. ive been with the same guy for a year. thats good for me cuz i never do that .. but last summer i talked to a guy noname and we were going to date but we decided not too because our familys were best friends and we didnt want to mess that up if something happened. well me and my boyfriend are haveing some problems because i have a new job maken goood money and we never get to see each other because we have different off days. well my mom and i and nonames family went to see kenny chesney. last thursday. well boyfriend didnt like that to much and was being a rude asswhole.. which in return to that made me cry in front of everyone in the hummer limo!! my whole like was messed up .. well after i was droped off noname was helping me carry some stuff to my car .. he was being really sweet and was tryn to make me smile and i guess just feel better! well he told me he was going to call me i returned with you better because we are really good friends . well needless to say he leaned in and kissed me i was shocked i didnt know what to do but look away and say why? .. now he calls me every day makes sure everythings ok and my days going good .. his little cousin lives across the street and he told her that he really did love me .. thinking it wasnt true he even told his aunt which i know wouldnt like about something like that ... he comes by my house alll the time .. he even came by jus a little while ago. i keep having all these mixed feelings and i dont know what to do . i mean i do love my boyfriend but i feel that im just tired of the same ol thing i dont know what to do ....its been two weeks since i seen my boyfriend and im going to see him tomorrow .. but noname will see him 1st. they have to get sinor pic. done tomorrow and noname is still really mad and ive asked him not to say or do anything to him because idont want to make things worse. boyfriend knows about the whole kiss thing and he says hes not mad but i know deep down it hurts him but over the last couple of months hes really hurt me ... every time iget off the phone with him i end up crying. i dont know what to do anymore.can anyone help me? (link)
well i dont no if this will work but when you have a boyfriend that is going to be a jerk because you have another guy friend well thats not cool the boyfriends that i like are the kind that you can act all dorky with so i think that you should go with noname because he sounds alot better then the other guy and he cares about you and you see noname more then you boyfriend and you and your boyfriend can still be friends but i would go wit noname and if things dont go well with him the maybe your boyfriend will go back out with you
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Okay herr it goes.. My best friend is haveing a swimmin party at her house. On the same day i get my peroid. It would be my 2nd period ever so is therr a good chance i won't get it cause i'm not on a regualr cycle.. or ami most likely to get it? i'm a pad wearer.. i'm swichin to tampon in bout a year or so..so i really done wanan try 1 but i have to go kuz she's my best friend.. wut do u all think..
Signed,
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well if i was you i would still were one just in ccase my cycle is not regular either and i dont wear tampons yet either but since you are going swimming you should were one just to be on the safe side and if you dont swim you can still go but not swim you can put your feet in and that kinda stuff if you dont were tampons well i hope that i helped
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I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it. (link)
well she probly just thanx that for each person it is special until she eets another guy and then goes and does it again i am 14 and never had sex before but to you it may be special because it was your first time so dont let the girl get in your way yeah you can getto no her better but does she want to get to no you do you guys hang out still if you do then there is a chance a goo chance but yeah i dont want to bring you down or sound mean but i do think that the more times you do it it becomes less special i am not tring to be mean but i hoppe i helped
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my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
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well just start talking bout guys then bring up the subject and then tell her she should understand and if she is going to keep acting that way then find a new friend who dont want to be a slut when you have sex you want it to be pecial for the first time so yeah just do what i say if you think that the advice is good
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rubber ducky


my grandma loves me but she loves my other cuzin more and it shows they have like a great relationship and me and my grama dont talk that mutch she always kids around and says o this is my favorite grndaughter and she is not talking about me i just feel so bad because ahe might not be around that much anymore shes pretty old and i want her to love me as much as my other cuzins.What should i do?
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yeah me and my grandma are like that because she will by them more but with me she likes my older brother better because that was he 1st or 2nd grand kid but i still talk to her even thought she lives like 5 in a half hours away so maybe if you talk to her bout that it may work
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well im going to florida for a week and im leaving tommorow and i havent gotten my period when i was supposed to and i dont kno when it will come and i will be swimming a lot because it is florida and i cant wear tampons the whole time can i ? because i didnt think u were sposed to do that .What should i do? (link)
well i would still were the tampons and if ne one sees the string say hat it is the string to your bathing suit
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rubber ducky


my cousins have both had a lot of trouble with drugs and addiction. i am very scared they will die and i always cry when i talk about it. I get so sad and i dont no what to do, my emotions are taking me over! (link)
well maybe if you write them a letter about owe you feel maybe they will stop or if you try to get them help yeah i no that stuff is hard to get ova you can right poems that can get you over it i hope i helped
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what is the best way to lose about 10 pounds fairly quickly? i am 14 years old so i dont have acsess to many things (link)
well you can go online and search for ways but i do no that if you drink 24 oz of milk in a 24 hour day then you should lose weight and if you eat healthy food like veggies and fruits you ciould lose a few pounds hope i helped
or you can do as many sit ups when you are watching tv during the commercial
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do u hav ur period at all when ur pregnant...like u dont gt ur period all nine months? or juss one missed period?? how much r abortions and where do u get thtem done?? *IM NOT PREGNANT!! i thought i was about a year ago bc my period was late and i got it and turned out i wasnt pregnant..but i was s0o0o desperte and i idnt know wat ot do so i was juss wonderin how much it wulda costed and if u wulda needed a parent wid du to do it* (link)
you dont have your period at all i hope i helped
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rubber ducky


So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
hey yeah you can have lemon juice and rub it on there it should come off
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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?.. (link)
y would oyou go back to him dont let ne guy walk all ova you and then be so sad and sorry and sweet dont do that all he wants is a piece of @$$ dont let him do that because then he is going to go and do it again again and then again since you already went back with him think about i hope i helped
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rubber ducky


I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help. (link)
well you can always give him an other chance so do it yeah you are 13 you have a long way and when you go into high school there are going to be so many guys who will look at you that arent looking at you right now it is always better to go out with someone older because they are more mature but then if you liked him since the 3 grade i would give him a chance but i hope that i helped
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rubber ducky


here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)

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then you can go and find a better friend some of my friends are doing that to but i ignore them because they came around and when she relizils that she has noone else to talk to hen she will come around and then tell her off if you want her to straigt in up and if you want her to be herself then i dont no what to tell you try to straigtin things up
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rubber ducky


i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do??? (link)
call him newayz its not going to hurt you if you do call he may be happy if he liked you to and if you have ne of your friends # you can cal them and see if they no if he moved and if he did ask if he gave them the new # so call its not going to hurt ya
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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx (link)
I was a cutter 2 and my mom found out i was in therapy for a while and i stoped your not trying to kill yourself or you would nhave cut right arm up and self mutalation is dumg your smarter than that theres other ways to get sadness or anger out IM me if you want wewonstate03 and stop cutting are having little cutts everywhere worth losing your b/f and best friends???????????

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My sister and alot of other people I know like to scrunch their hair. My hairs on the straighter side and it can sometimes curl but it WONT scrunch for anything, with gel, mousse you name it. Does anyone know a GOOD product that curls your hair when its wet..and i mean WELL like for someone with straight hair that doesnt scrunch well at all. Please only tell me if you truly think it could work for someone with straight hair. (link)
well you can take a blow drier and then like a cirlce brush and blow dry our hair wit the circle brush and then i should curl it works for me
sorry if it dont work for you but i have strait hair to
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i've been going to school with the same people for the past 10 years. I go to a private school and there is only about 30 people in my whole grade. we've all been friends up until this year. it all changed. i don't know what happened but all of a sudden, no one really likes me anymore. i've been nice to them all and tried my hardest to be there friend. i only have 4 really close friends now and it really bugs me because none of the guys like me because i'm not popular. help!!! (link)
well once you get out of school you will have more options and then you will no more people and then you will have more friends so dont let the people at your school bug you and if you didnt say ne thing or do nething then they dont have a reason to be mad unless some one was spreading a rumor that they totally hated you so i hope that i helped
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i wrote about this guy before (i'm 15, female hes 15 male) and well i didn't really confront him about the way he sends me mized emotions but well he sent me an email of a 105 questions to answer about my self and then sent it back to him and my other friends .... and in one question it asked if i had cried in the last 24 hours and i answered yes .... so when he read the email he i/med me in yahoo and asked why i had cried and i said well one time was cuase i was watching a sad t.v. show and then i alked right into this part with out thinking and hes like and the other time? and i told him it was nothing since i just met him i didnt want him to know and then he kept arguing with me trying to get it out of me and i kept refusing so i asked why he kept asking and i told him i just couldnt say it right now since i just met him and i was like no offence but you dont share much with me either and then there was a long puase and he finally says its becuase i care and so i went into this talk with him about how i knew he cared and that i cared too but i needed time to tell him and he was really quiet for a long time and then he said he had to go ..... so i sent him an email exlpaining stuff to him and that i needed more time (i know i repeat my self alot) but when he came on today he didnt say anything about it nor did he respond to the email and now his mom might be taking to computer away on friday and he can only saty on untill 8 tonight and i cant talk to him tomarrow since i have already made plans with my friends can someone please help me i am so lost and i jsut want to know what is up with him and if i should confront him on it? please help
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well if he is comferting you you should comfert him back if you really like him that is just what i would do other people may have better advice but hey thats all i can say and no man is worth your tears unless they dont cry for you that is the way that i look at it i have learned my lesson
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Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help! (link)
well my broter is 21 and his ex fianca is a slut and so i no that it is not the same thing but we dont know if it is his kid or not but neway we still love him and all but what i think you should do is have the kid and not have an abortion because you will feel so bad when you dont have that kid and then if you do have the kid then you will be happy and love the baby and even if your friend is mad at you it wasnt your fault if you didnt know it is his fault for not telling you and i would tell you friend just to tell her the truth and then you would feel right i dont no this probly dont understand but i hope that you can under stand it
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