i've been going to school with the same people for the past 10 years. I go to a private school and there is only about 30 people in my whole grade. we've all been friends up until this year. it all changed. i don't know what happened but all of a sudden, no one really likes me anymore. i've been nice to them all and tried my hardest to be there friend. i only have 4 really close friends now and it really bugs me because none of the guys like me because i'm not popular. help!!!
xobabyox254 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 9:27 pm: it dosent matter if ur not popular or have alot of friends but......mabe u should talk to them and ask them y they dont like u and that should clear sothings up [ xobabyox254's advice column | Ask xobabyox254 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:59 pm: Oh, I SO sympathize. I went to a private school about that size for 8 years of my life. I was never too popular either. I was just content to know that I had a few really close friends. Guys didn't like me either until I was in about ninth grade. Just be patient - maybe it'll work itself out.
Which is better, though - four really close friends or thirty people you sort of know? I'd go for the close friends.
There will be a point when guys will start to look at you - happened to me out of the blue. Happened to a lot of my friends.
The guys might not like you because they've known you forever and kind of think of you as a sister or a friend, and not really girlfriend potential.
Maybe you need a change of pace if it bothers you so much. When I left that private school, my life improved drastically. More friends, better choir, great boyfriend...*Shrug*
I hope I helped a little!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Rockwell888 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:16 pm: OMG! I used to have the same problem! Then after, I ended up switching schools, then everything turned out okay. Anyway, just try talking to your classmates, asking them if they did anything. If they said that you didn't do anything, maybe your just thinking that no one likes you. Try thinking positive! And don't worry about the guys, just go up to one, and get to know him!
texangirl01 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 7:58 pm: go to your friends and just ask them if anything you have done or if something you did in the past offended them...and if so then try to work it out!!! [ texangirl01's advice column | Ask texangirl01 A Question ]
xoashton answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 7:53 pm: well one thing is dont let it affect u, maybe ur not cut out for private schools anymore try going to a public school where there are more ppl and u could make more friends there and not have to worry about trying to impress just those 30 ppl becuz ppl change and for wut reason no one knos if u need any more advice just ask =)
xRuBbErDuCkYx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 7:51 pm: well once you get out of school you will have more options and then you will no more people and then you will have more friends so dont let the people at your school bug you and if you didnt say ne thing or do nething then they dont have a reason to be mad unless some one was spreading a rumor that they totally hated you so i hope that i helped
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