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hey everyone, my name is ashton and if u have any questions just ask me =)
Gender: Female
Location: east haven
Age: 14
AIM: sExOnThAbEaCh xX
Member Since: July 21, 2004
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Last Update: July 21, 2004
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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me! (link)
well wen ur dealing with guys u have to have soo much confidence around them becuz thats wut they love and yea thats kinda all i ahve to say if u need more advice just ask =)

-xo- ashton


okay well my frend was sleepin ova one nite last week and we kinda snuck out at like 1am to go see my frend lets call him adam ok well we walked to adams house nd its like 1 nd he came to his window nd was like go to the back yard so we met him in the back yard and he came out nd i guess we were talkin too loud cuz his bro woke up nd flipped out nd yelled for his parents nd everythin so me nd my frend ran like hell to get away from there wit out them noticing so we ran nd idk wut my frend said but i think wen she was yellin for me tryin to find me in the dark she mita sed my name, but we got home nd now its been a week and i just found out that adam got sent to christian camp because of it nd his bro knos it was me nd told my other frends bro who was askin my other frend y i was over there that late and my other frend thinks he couldve told her parents who will tell my parents sooo idk wut to do.. should i just like wait for my parents to find out or should i tell them myself oh ya nd by the way before we snuck out my mom specifically told us not to leave the house nd go walkin round the neighborhood or to adams house... so yea im kinda screwed help out!!! and soon please im kinda freakin out!!! (link)
if she does ask u dont lie becuz it will only get u in deeper trouble and now u kno never to do it becuz if u think about it is it really worth getting in trouble for? and if she doesnt find out u are very lucky and i dont think u should ever do that again idf u need more advice just ask =)

-xo- ashton


i've been going to school with the same people for the past 10 years. I go to a private school and there is only about 30 people in my whole grade. we've all been friends up until this year. it all changed. i don't know what happened but all of a sudden, no one really likes me anymore. i've been nice to them all and tried my hardest to be there friend. i only have 4 really close friends now and it really bugs me because none of the guys like me because i'm not popular. help!!! (link)
well one thing is dont let it affect u, maybe ur not cut out for private schools anymore try going to a public school where there are more ppl and u could make more friends there and not have to worry about trying to impress just those 30 ppl becuz ppl change and for wut reason no one knos if u need any more advice just ask =)

-xo- ashton


How much should a normal teenager weigh and how tall because I know my friend eats n all I see her eating but doesnt gain weight n her parents say theirs something wrong w her but shes onli 14 n I dont think their is she eats normally n eats n doesnt strave herself but neways how tall n how much is she suppose to weigh for a 14 yr old girl? Most 14 yr olds I guess? (link)
hey that is totally normal and if it isnt them in not normal either lol becuz i have the same thing happening to me and my mom told me i just have a fast
metabolsum

-xo- ashton


answer me y does every 1 think we should go out!?
i kno u kno! plz tell me at least wut u think! plz! (link)
omg alex I DONT KNO i told u if u want to kno ask the ppl that are saying it!!!!!!!!!


I have this off + on boyfriend. We always fight & he's kinda one of those 'players' you know. I trust him & everything, but I cant help but worry. He has like 2 different personalities. The 1 where he tells me he loves me + he'll never cheat, etc. + the 1 where he doesn't talk to me for days + talks to other girls(i guess to get me mad?) I don't know if he's gonna cheat on me + he gets mad at me for the smallest things. When I'm with him though, its wonderful. He tells me things that make me wanna stay with him forever & it feels good. When we talk online or on the phone, thats when the fighting starts. Its like he's playing lil boy games with me. Should I cross him off totally or not give up just yet? (link)
DUMP HIM DUMP HIM DUMP HIM!!!! no man is worth it if hes gunna play games, u need to show him he cant walk all over u becuz once he knos he can, hes not gunna stop. trust me u'll be much happier not haveing to worry about him all the time and all teh things he says to u he probally says to other girls. and uu will get over him and u will find obe that is much better for u, one that wont play games becuz a boy that plays games is a boy that is not ready for a relationshio and he my never will be so dont waste ur time with him, and if u need anymore advice just ask me =)

-xo- ashton


if u ask a guy out nd he says no cuz hes gonna go back out wit his x and then they go back out and break up again and now theyre strictly just frends would it be like completely hopeless for her to say yea if u asked him out again??

*Ker~Bear (link)
never. humans change their minds all the time and he said no only becuz he was gunna go back out with his ex, so its not like he said no and didnt mention the part about his ex so theres hope =) if u need anymore advicce just ask =)

-xo- ashton


I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!! (link)
two words. tooth paste =)

-xo- ashton


im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser? (link)
no and u never will be a loser for it, its not ur fault u never kissed a guy before, it will happen wen it happens , but dont go around kissing random guys just so u cant be liek yea i kissed a guy becuz ur fisrt kiss is suppose to be special not something u did just so u can say u did it

-xo- ashton


my love life right now sucks! i cant get ne guy 2 look at me all i want is a really good looking guy to like me for me!
love iLuv2Shop (link)
well a good way to get guys to notice u is talking to them , dont ever think u cant get a guy becuz u can all it takes is a little work on ur part, if u think hes cute go up to him and just be like hey wut ur name? and just start talking to him, if it can work for me it can work for anyone, and the thing a guy loves about girls is if they have confidence. if u need anymore advice just ask =)

-xo- ashton


There is this guy I really like, I have liked him for a really long time. There is just one problem, he is sort off out of my league. Is there anything I can do to make him like me more while still being myself? I rate! (link)
wen ur around him have a lot of confidence, guys like that, try not to be shy and smile at him and if hes around u think of something to say or ask him try and get a convo going. if u need anymore advice just ask me =)



why does every 1 think we should go out? its pissin me off!!! im bored (link)
i dun kno im not everyone u should ask them thats the only way ur gunna get any answers

-xo- ashton


ash...why is our family such ball breakerss?? and why does everyone die on this side of the family huh?

haha loveeee brittany (link)
LMAO omg britt i have no idea why wut happened this time? and i kno its like everyone just dies at once but theres nothing u cant do about it and i think our family are ball breakers becuz its our family u kno we all are crazy

-xo- ashton




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