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I dont get it!
I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!
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I don't think guys have an aversion to flat girls...I mean, I don't have the biggest boobs - 34B - and guys pay attention to me.
Don't worry so much about guys not paying attention to you. A fourteen year old guy is about as mature as an eleven or twelve year old girl. At least, that's been my experience.
It does not sound stupid. The only stupid questions are the ones left unasked. ^_^
You probably are girlfriend material. Guys your age are really...stupid. (No offense, guys)
Really, though - wait. You'll find a guy who'll like you for who you are and not what you look like. (Or for both. Guys like that are great. Lol)
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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I know that there are guys that are like that for a fact because I have been used for my boob... and those are the times i wished i was flat.. But there are the nice guys who dont care at all and just like you for you! You just gotta keep your eyes peeled for him cuz those guys are hard to get!-trix
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guys suck.. they just want how can i put this nicely either "ass or tits" direct quote from all guys.. its pointless.. but dont worry hun! there are some nice sweet HOT guys out there who will love you for you! xox hope i helped
xox_ LiLbAyBe _xox
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guys only look at boobs! (lol) well, in my experience the guys do go for the bigger chested girls. there are some who go for the smart kind.
which i wish there were more in this world. but if you would like i do know some breast exercises
that will help round and enlarge them. so if you do just let me know. good luck
*~~~shana~~~*
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No truth to that at all. I don't think you're not having a boyfriend has anything to do with your chest. Feel lucky that you're not in a relationship. They're stupid,take a lot of time and tie you down. Date around. If you see an interesting guy,you should go talk to the son of a bitch. Breast size is not a real big thing to all men. It isn't to me.
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hey dont worry most guys that age all go around thinkin boobs boobs boobs but some dont ud be better off waiting for that guy who doesnt care about ur chest. dont worry u have a lot of time to find a guy.
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Most guys suck. Especially at your age. But, personally, I never cared about a girl's bra size. It has never factored. Some guys share this opinion. Another thing about guys your age, ones like me are scared to death of girls. I never asked any girls out at that age, and was semi-mean to the girls I had a crush on. If the reason you think guys might not notice you are because they don't ask you out, then don't worry. Most guys are shy.
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A lot of guys that age are like that =/, but there are also a bunch that aren't! Chances are, though, you'll be able to find someone who doesn't care about that :o). [[ and don't worry, you still have plenty of time left to grow! ]]
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Well, it depends on the guy. A lot of guys just want a full chested girl because their friends like it that way. Three of my best guy friends told me that they hate boobs. But the reason guys aren't going for you is probably because you seem to normal. A lot of the funny smart athletic girls don't like it when guys hit on them, so i bet a lot of guys are staying clear. Let them know you are free!
Lizzy
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I hate to tell you this, but this question is asked about guys of all ages. Most guys do go for the beautiful curvy women. But thats pretty much always just a lust. If a guy gets to know your great personality and see's how your more beautiful because of it then any relationship you have will be much better than if a guy is just trying to get down your pants because you have big boobs.
Pretty much no one gets it. You'll probably be asking this question for the rest of your life.
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your boobs will grow and i wouldnt know ifg you where gf material but give stuff time it will get good sooner or later
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well unfortunately...i could never ask this question ;) if ya know what i mean but...guys are weird and quote from family guy:"girls have boobs so u have something to look at while there talking to u" yeah its a joke but still...they just think there cool i guess lol idk but guys are so lucky bc with girls we never when: if ur flat u want um and if u have some...well some people dont want them but hen again some do! guys need to get aside of that and relize that were human beings...whoa! like that'll ever happen
<3 katie
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Guys at 14 are shallow most of the time. There are the certain few that don't care about the size of the girls bra. but most want a girl that they can show there friends and say Yea i got her and basically point out her boobs.
Well i say don't worry about it just yet. Your skinny developed friends might get all the guys but they don't get the boyfriend material. When you find a guy it will prob. be based on real things like intellect andcommon intrests and not how good you look in a bikini. And besides you don't need a guy right now. I say enjoy flirting and wait till your older to get a serious boyfriend who likes you for you and doesn't care about the superficial things. I mean why would you want someone like that liking you anyways..
Hope i helped..
If you need anymore advice leave on in my inbox or im me
xoxo
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well wen ur dealing with guys u have to have soo much confidence around them becuz thats wut they love and yea thats kinda all i ahve to say if u need more advice just ask =)
-xo- ashton
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I was the same way before puberty and all that stuff. Its actually so much better that your not like your friends, you can actually tell when a guy likes you, for Y0U! your friends could have bfs just because of their chests and not because of who they are. you'll have a bf soon and when you do, he'll like you for you and thats really special! and if a guy doesnt like you because your not developed, than he doesnt deserve you! hope i helped. xo
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Because sometimes boys just don't think! lol. They're just immature right now and all they care about is what their friends will think. Thats just how they are sometimes and plus you wouldn't want a guy who would go around saying "My girlfriend has big boobs" You rather have a boyfriend who doesn't care if you have big boobs or not, they like you for you and not your boobs! So, just wait til they grow up and are mature, you'll find him! If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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Some really shallow guys go for big chested guys. But a lot of my guy friends dont care about looks. They care about your personality. I think you need to be confident about your body and please dont stuff.. i tried it and you dont get any guys. But be confident in your self and guys will get the vibe your confterble with urself so they will go for you.
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