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Pregnant
Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help!
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You are right you do need to tell her!! Like right this second before she hears from someone else.. And i highly doubt your ready for a kid but dont go having a abortion.. thats terrible if you dont think you want the kid or ready for a kid then put it up for adoption.. give it a home because it now has a right to live.. sense you made a baby. And you dont seem like a very good friend if you wouldnt tell her so be a good friend and tell her. My question is how could you not know who your best friends boyfriend was?-trix
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I cant exactly say 'yeah have an abortion' because thats your choice.. but if your below the age of 18 if it was me i probably would have an abortion because it wouldnt be fair on you OR the baby! And as far as telling your friend goes shes gonna be upset! but what she doesnt know wont hurt, but then again it will play on your mind if you dont tell her! gud luck xx
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hey, girl naw i dont think u should have a bortion u should tell ur friend about it.. and anyways how old are you?
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NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!! do not have an abortion. that is killing sumthing u created and its not fair to that life that u had sex and couldnt deal with the consequences. i think u should tell ur friend and just tell her u didnt kno. if u dont want the baby give it up for adoption but my mom had to miscarriages, one 2 weeks b4 she got pregnant with me and she is so sad and since she lost that baby she kept me or else she would've had an abortion. so that had nuthing to do with this but dont have an abortion!
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NO! do not have an abortion! Keep the child. And I really think you should tell your friend. And tell her the truth. You had no idea he was going with her while he was going with you.
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I think that u should have the kid and give it up for adoption. But don't have an abortion.
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well my broter is 21 and his ex fianca is a slut and so i no that it is not the same thing but we dont know if it is his kid or not but neway we still love him and all but what i think you should do is have the kid and not have an abortion because you will feel so bad when you dont have that kid and then if you do have the kid then you will be happy and love the baby and even if your friend is mad at you it wasnt your fault if you didnt know it is his fault for not telling you and i would tell you friend just to tell her the truth and then you would feel right i dont no this probly dont understand but i hope that you can under stand it
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Abortion is up to you I mean what if you cant take care of the child why bering it into the world and give it a misarable life? Second of all if you dont have it it wasnt the babis fault u had sex n u got pregant now was it? So see theirs too ways to look at abortion do wat u think feels right n about ur friend thing if shes a good friend then shell get upset with u but shell understand now that ur pregant she does need ot be their for u n help u out and ur babi father better be their to help u out to and neone else u can count on just make sure u look at the abortion thing in two ways u can bring it into the world with nothing or bring it into the world wellin to take care of it or just not even have it and ruin a new born babi who has never had a life and wasnt the one who made u pregant. and ur friends need to be their no matter how upset they are with u so good luck hope u do wat feels right for u!
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Having this kid is totally up to you and what you want to do. You can keep it, put it through abortion if you believe in that, or put it in adoption. Take some time and think about this a lot. Because after all you are the mother of this kid and it's your baby... do what you feel is right. If you think that your friend should know what happened with you and her boyfriend, let her know. Don't just do this for her, do it for yourself. Be honest with her, she deserves the truth. And I'm sure if you didn't know about it..you would want to find out. You probably already know that she will either stay friends with your or she might have a fight about this. But if you are going to tell her you need to be open about it and be honest and let her have a say in it too. Also tell her that you had no idea about it when you had sex with him. If you want to, you can get her boyfriend involved..because he was part of this too. I hope that everything turns out okay for you! And remember this whole thing is up to you! Love ya! -Mandee </span>
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dont have an abortion.. itll b hard to deal wit but be honest!
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NO!!! do not have an abortion. that would mean killing your baby. could you live with that? i think your friend should know. it will hurt more the longer you wait. for the pregnancy you shouldn't get an abortion. go talk to your mom. there are very fine adoption agencies that will help you find a home for your baby. but don't agree with the adoption until after your baby's birth. you might change your mind. PLEASE DO NOT GET AN ABORTION.
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