I may be 13 but I can find just about any solution to someone's problems. Please talk to me if you need anything bnecause one thing I love to do is help people.
E-mail: Noni_White2000@yahoo.com
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Location: GA
Occupation: school
Age: 13
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Member Since: July 21, 2004
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me n my boyfriend are going to different highschools and i really think hes going to find someone new... What should I do? should i dump him...or what? its going to be really hard (link)
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Hey, I don't think you should break up with him because if he really loved you he wouldn't find a new girlfriend. But if he does find one, all you gotta do is break up with him because I'm sure you'll find someone just as good as him.
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ok well i really really and i mean really like this boy.. we have like a connection and crap but he loves this other chick and it really hurts and i mean him and i flirt all the time and crap and i think i am starting to love him but i don't want to ruin anything with him and that girl cause they have a history but i really don't know what to do cause i am soo confused and like yeah idk!! and i just am soo confused and i ahh am going insane! But i def think he is better off with me cause that girl won't treat him right at all!!
sighned... HELP ME I DONT' HAVE MUCH TIME! :0 (link)
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If they don't go out, you should ask him out yourself. He probably likes you but isn;t sure you like him. Why I no this? Cuz it happened to me be 4. But Good Luck!
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I'm 11 and I'm a girl (lol)My friend Madison is going out with this guy and I like him (a lot) but I can't flirt or anything cause I feel bad. And I don't want Madison to know that I like him because she won't be exactly happy.I really like him and I don't know what to do. Plz help.....:( (link)
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My best friend had a boyfriend I had a huge crush on. Me and her boyfriend were also friends. But later I found the perfect guy. And I know one day you'll forget about your best friend's boyfriend and find the "perfect guy"
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Ok well in the past year things have gotten really really bad for me! Me and my parents are constantly fighting ans when ever were suppose to have "quality" time we ALWAYS get into an argument!So ive been starting to cut myself! everytime i start to cry i bring myself to cut my arms up! how can i stop doing this to my self? (link)
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I do that to. Its stress. Your anger is like controlling you. Me and my mom fight constantly. And they are really bad fights. But you no what I do? I put elastics around my wrists and pop mysylf with them. I no this is not really good advice but, That's the best I could do.
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Ok my lifes not terrible or anything like that, but ugghh. Things can be so fricken tough. I have a good family, we're all together and nothings bad in that department. Im even really strong in my faith, but geese life can get to be so damn miserable. Just last year my cousin moved into the same town as me. Yep, same school, same grade, same frigen everything. And shes taking over as popular queen. Shes a little bitch that gets everything and has to be so girly and wear pink and be perfect. My opinion is shes damn ugly but whatever. Shes went out with every frigen guy in the grade and shes not done. Shes never satisfied. People actually tell me omg how can you be related to her. I dont even know... my response is gee idk how i got related to a mix of godzilla and the devil himself. To add onto the jumble my aunt (her mom) is always up my butt about us having a good relationship and crap like that. HOW CAN I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? I've tried time and again. I even started hanging around her crowd but they all hated me and couldnt wait to get rid of me and they would even tell her that nobody in their group really liked me. Total assholes. But the best part about her popular crowd is they all talk about eachother. So im done trying to have a relationship with her, she never showed up at my friend or family party when it was my birthday so she basically doesnt give a shit about me. Oh yes dont forget the lovely story about when my aunt came to my house on my birthday and started screaming at my mom and telling her how rude i was to my cousin(her daughter) and to everyone else and that i was a bad person and this and that, god it was miserable. I actually have an awsome crowd of friends and a wonderful best friend, and im always being told im prettier than my cousin and stuff, so im not jealous of her or anything. Shes gotten me in trouble from my parents so many times this year but my mom finally feels bad and has just realized who the girl really is. So all that being grounded for nothing. Anyway..she hates me. She always has. And my annoying aunt is always in my face and telling me to be like her daughter. The best part is that shes got two more daughters, one is my sisters age, so my sister goes through the same hell as me. Well anyway that cousin is the schools whore, biggest druggy in the world, and always lies to her mother about whos shes with. So thats damn screwed up if you know what i mean. And whenever we tell my aunt she doesnt really click with it. She just goes I trust her more than anyone in the world, when really she just loves lying to herself, why, well put it this way, its beyond my worldly knowledge. Then the youngest is going into 4th grade and boy is she a fun one. My mom always has to babysit her and shes the biggest brat on the planet. Shes nasty to our grandmother, screams cries and whines when she doesnt get what she wants, she makes fun of me (or tries to), and she never takes blame for shit. And boy do i hate her! Shes always going through my stuff and chasing me around and trying to do what I do. And yes i live in the same town as them. My relationship will never be the same with my aunt because I will and can never forgive her for what she's done to me. Its left a scar on me forever. Im sorry but what else is there to say. I was here way before my cousins were and now theyre always around me and telling on me and the one in my grade spreads rumors and makes different people hate me in my grade. And here I am, about to conquer another year of it. I used to love it where I lived. But now Im just scraping by. I want to get far away. Or live somewhere else. And I sure as hell cant wait to get off to college. I hate my school, my town, the community, I just want to be somewhere else. I love life, but not where I live. What the hell do I do before I go mad? These people are ruining my LIFE (link)
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Ohhh, I feel sorry for you. My definition for her is SNOBBY PREPP. But there are people like that at my school. I am their #1 source to talk about because I am punk. "loser freak" in their language. What I do, is ignore them. I tell myself, I don't care what they think. And if I were you, I would beat the living HELL outta her. Because your aunt, mom, or anyone is not gonna kill you. And the trouble you would get into, if I were you, I think all the trouble of punching the shit outta her would be worth it. See how popular and pretty she would look when she went to school with bruises and scars all over her face.
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i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know. (link)
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All righty I have these bands that I absolutely LOVE!!!!!!! Try, Godsmack, Blink 182, Linkin Park, Nirvana, Switchfoot, Sugarcult, e.t.c....
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Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help! (link)
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NO! do not have an abortion! Keep the child. And I really think you should tell your friend. And tell her the truth. You had no idea he was going with her while he was going with you.
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my love life right now sucks! i cant get ne guy 2 look at me all i want is a really good looking guy to like me for me!
love iLuv2Shop (link)
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You will eventually find the right guy for you. It took me awhile but I finally found a guy that like me for me. And I am sure somebody out there is checking you out, most guys are also shy to!
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i have this one friend who is so annoying and makes weird noises all the time and she gets on everyone's nerves. i've tried talking to her and she said she would stop but she hasn't yet. what should i do?
-Annoyed- (link)
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Tell her to please stop. Tell her it is annoying but don't be mean to her. If that don't work, just ignore her.
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ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks! (link)
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Hey, I have been in that situation a lot of times before. I, but this is just me, break up with them, but in a nice way. Like I say, I'm sorry, but I think we should just be friends.
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