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HIS FACE!AHHHHHH!


Question Posted Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:11 pm

ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks!

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Noni_White2000 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:02 pm:
Hey, I have been in that situation a lot of times before. I, but this is just me, break up with them, but in a nice way. Like I say, I'm sorry, but I think we should just be friends.

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xRuBbErDuCkYx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 4:28 pm:
DuDe, you are an idiot well if you didnt like his face why would you lead him on that is gay and then go break his heart obviosly you dont deserve ne one and i am serious i can tell that noone is slapping you across the face but now you are getting it i can tell that you are not ready for a commitment and since your not you should probly dump him and just find some one else that doesnt hve a bad "face" you should you are shallow you need some help you are not going to get any guy if you are going to be that way what if he was the ugliest guy but had the most money he asked you out woud you go out with him? well there you go
you need a reality check and here it is
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AdViCeGrL123 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 4:09 pm:
HI ASHLEY YOUR MEAN! you shouldnt judge people on there face,wat are you joking me>?Your never gonna get someone worth while if you keep being shallow like that..... your missing out on something great .........and are you sure that you can get all those HOTTTTT guys??????????/ if you can then y are you with those (so called) ugly guys? well looks dont mean anything and if you dont stop the your missing out....

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kevin1986 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:05 am:
I'm confused. You have a boyfriend,things went ok for awhile,but then you just decided you didn't like his face? What went wrong with it? Hadn't you seen it like 50 million times before and it was ok then? I have to ask:Really what the fuck is wrong with his face? If you really can't live with his bad face,yeah I guess you should dump him. But I have to know,what's so bad about his face?

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BaByAyA answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:03 am:
well if u reely like him then go out wif him .. wen u kiss u eighter waii close ur eyesz .. soo i think that if u reely dont wanna look at his face .. u wouldnt be a bitch if u broke it up

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selectopaque answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:52 am:
If your really that unhappy and that uncomfortable with the situation then he's obviously not right for you. I wouldn't say your being shallow, as much as people try to say they look for personality, not looks, physical attraction DOES matter. A really good personalitie definately can make someone seem a lot sexier to some people, but this person might not be the one to do that for you.

If your going to let him down, do it easily, don't tell him that it's about his looks, that will just crush him and bring his self esteem down so badly. Try to be friends with him, maybe you'll have a change of heart sometime in the future.

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missing-identity-seeker answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:26 am:
TO: HIS FACE! AHHHHHH!

i hab thah exact same problem with my dad..i mean not to be mean buh he DOES look reallie garfunkle and you just cant help and like at least SMILE evry time ya see his face... anyways the onie thing ya can reallie do is just tell him about it...like if he has acne er sumthin then tell him to use acne cream...gib him a make ova..ya noe?

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:23 am:
No, I wouldn't say you're a shallow person or anything. But, when you're in a relationship, you have to be comfortable with that person. Its not about all the sweet things he says to you or anything, its being able to trust him and being comfortable with him And in your situation, you dont seem very comfortable with him. And when you guys kiss, you want it to be romantic and sweet and stuff, you don't want a kiss like "eww I hope this is almost done" or "this is like kissing my brother" So, if I was you I would break up with him and find someone you're more comfortable with and someone you can kiss and not be grossed out by it lol. Hope this helps!! Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:53 pm:
If your not happy about the way he looks then i think its time to break up with him. If you feel uncomfortable just tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore cuz of the distants or something.
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browneyes175 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:39 pm:
Hey Ashley, id say if ur not happy with his looks then dump him, n i hope no one thinks im mean for saying this but its true... y be unhappy when u dont have to be. and if it helps i dont think ur shallow, a girls got to be happy with her mans looks (lol) so i hope i helped and tell me how it all turns out for ya hun!

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AnDiE answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:30 pm:
l0l.. ur not shallow.. i thynk that if a guy ios kinda not so cute.. then ya kno.. its all about tha hart.. but if lyk.. u cant stand to look at his face.. then thats not too great.. l0l.. i wouldnt thynk ur bein mean.. i thynk ur bein nice by savin him tha trouble of goin to kiss you and have you turn away.. l0l.. just.. dont tell him hes ugly.. that would be mean.. :)

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