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How can I get her approval?
My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?
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say this " i know you wont aprove but im sry i had sex.. its my life to do it.. n i want you to be part of my life but you shouldnt overreact because i can make my own decision.. i want you to be my friend but i dont want you to get mad over things i tell you because i trust you "
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you should just tell her the truth and say thats who you are, but tell her that you will always be my best friend or something like.
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i think u should b honest wif hur... if she gets mad jus say ur best friendz n therez no way ur gunna keep anything a secret. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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No,you have no obligation to tell her about your sex life.
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00ok when it comes to best friends you think you want to tell them everything... well sumtymes itz really none of there Business.Ur friend Overreacts on ur "sexual activities" n you hate it!Now you can tell her just to get it out of tha way but wat you really have to do is sit down n tell her you dont lyke tha way she acts when you tell her bout ur "activities" n if u dont like keepin secrets from her i think u should tell her bout tha way she acts.But if she gets mad @ you-you were just doin wat waz right
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Tell her.. you made a mistake so tell her and i bet she will be mad but thats the outcome-trix
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thats really none of your friends buisness, what you two do.. its only your own buisness. you dont need to tell her. its not keeping a secret then, its just keeping her from too much information and keeping you from getting yelled at. she's not your mother and your activities are your own buisness.
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You shouldn't tell her. I've always believed that you shouldn't "kiss and tell" which also applies to your sexual activities. Seriously, I wouln't like to hear about someone's sex life and maybe you should think about your friend's thoughts before you tell her about the things that you do with your boyfriend. Just keep those kinds of things to yourself from now on and maybe the topic will fade away and your relationship with your friend will go back to normal.
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say it how you just did..tell you actually wait and need her fed back (sounds like you do - thats how i am wit my best friend!) an like i said say it how u just did, tell you cant keep anything from her, cause u can. and u need to tell.best friends always understands.. i had to when my best friend started havin sex at a 11..dont worry.. those who are true wont have a problem wit what you do..
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you dont have ot tell her but i think that if she asks you about it you should tell her because if you lie she could get really mad and you all could get into a fight. BUT you do whatever you want dont stop doing something because she doesnt like it..its your desiscion!!
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Dude.. it's not a secret, and you DON'T need her approval!! First of all.. it's NONE of her business! She is in NO way, shape, or form entitled to every detail of your love life. Secondly, if you two have some little thing going where you must tell each other everything.. why does she even ask if she can't handle reality?? Sorrie, but people grow up, and eventually do their own thing! A true best friend shouldn't judge you on something like that. She knows the person you REALLY are, so she should understand and respect your reasoning. Try talking to her. Tell her how you feel. Goodluck!
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TO: How can I get her approval?
tell your frend thah you totally need some distance some times...i mean so wat if your out having sex...you shouldnt be stopped just coz she dunt like it...tell her straite and let the reqacotion go and cool off...ya noe?
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