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E-mail: little_one518@yahoo.com
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Member Since: July 21, 2004
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i have a major problem and i dont know what to do! please help me! ok my ex bf cheated on me and him and the girl he cheated on me with just broke up and i still have MAJOR feelings for him i think im in love with him but how do i tell him that or do i not tell him. i love him and i want to be with him more then anything but im confussed and i dont know what to do about this. i have this feeling he dont have feelings for me anymore. he hardly ever talks to me anymore what do i do please help me.
-Crazy in love (link)
hmmm.. same kinda thing is goin on with me! i seriously dont know what to tell you. yes i think you should tell him how you feel and see what he has to say about it, but dont like scare him off but let him know. make sure you let him know what you have been threw and how much he means to know. and get bak to me! thanx xOox Whiitnie


dO yoU lOove me?! (link)
yesh ii do!!! veRii mUchOo* =)


Omg!!!! whitney i got a problem....... well see this guy i really like wanted me n him to meet today and i was like ok and brittany yelled his name for me bc i was nerves n shy lmao but anywayz i said hey to him and he waved @ me and then him n his friends was laughin n talkin about me nd lookin @ me but he was smilein n laughin a lil but idont know and im hurt bc i really like him n i dont think he liked what he saw ...=( bc he went with ppl that kinda have the same weight and idk why he asked like that but what do ii do?! well i dont wanna lose him as a friend or anything........... Help plzz!!!

XoXo-LOvE YoOu! -~* SkaterBaddAsS! (link)
hmm well girl i say you need to like FORGET HIM!! i mean if he was talking about you.. then forget that.. tell him how you feel about the whole thing and see what he says... get back to me on it.. later*


Whitney, i have a problem will you please help me? i have been going with this one guy for about 2 weeks.. it will be three weeks friday, but i am head over hills in love with him. we have talked about getting married and different things and i couldnt be more happier, but the problem is i dont know if he really feels that way. what do i do i dont want to be hurt? please try and help me. thanx --- helpless me (link)
hmm.. ask him about it.. tell him how you feel about it and tell him you dont want to be hurt. let him know!! if you dont, it will bother you and it will make you depressed.. let me know how things turn out!!


HeYy..See i have this friend called whitney and i love her to death but.we never talk anymore? what am i suppost to do :( (link)
hmmm... tell her how you want things to be.. ::blushes:: i know sometimes ppl lose touch with others but you always have you memories and things to hold on to. im sure she hasnt forgotten about you, she is juss goin threw alot prollay.. but tell her.. thanx* Whiitnie


hey gurl!!!=) well....... i need help lmao see i wanna be with this one guy and he loves me and wants to be wiff me but he wont go wiff me or ask me out n i like this other dude to but i dont think what he saw he liked bc he told me the other day that he saw me and i was ugly he wont talk to me but i guess he didnt see me or he didnt like what he saw =/.... but i wanna be with that other guy but we r far apart if i go with the dude i can see but idk if he will go with me what do i do!? (link)
hmmm.. well if you really care for this one guy that "loves" you.. then tell him how you feel and how you would like things to go between yall... dont hold in ur feelings it gets u NOWHERE!! and for this other guy FUCK HIM!! omgosh he told you you was ugly!! i so bet not!! everyone is beautiful in there own way.. it juss takes certain ppl to see that.. and he will and he will be so jeslous that he missed out on you!! tell me how it goes!! thanx xOox Whiitnie


Well i need help.... see today was the 1st day of school... and i want guys to notice me how do i do that?! i dress punk n stuff but they dont look @ me or talk to me or anything what can i do ?! well i dont wanna to show anything like mii tummie or anything i juss want them to look @ me n say something to me!?!?
xoxo-Skaterbadass!=) (link)
hmmm.. change your makeup, hairstyle, the way you dress.. talk to them first!! make small changes that make you happy with urself adn then make your move.. let them know ur interested!! and if they arent..then thats there loss!! no biggie!! theres always way hotter gusy out there!! and you know it!! lemme know how it works out!! xoOx Whiitnie


WhY aRe You sOoo GoRgeOUs?! hehe* i LOve You BAbE ..ChEy (link)
well hun.. im not GoRgrOUs!! lol but ii love you sweetie*


I LOVE YOU SOO FUCKING MUCH! (link)
lol.. heehee* ii love you too* =)


what kind of hair gel do you use? (link)
hmm haha* salon selectives!! =)


What kinda of perfume do you wear? (link)
haha* well... heavenly its from victoria secrets!!


i have a major problem! i just got out of a bad realtionship. he cheated on me and then lied about it yeah it hurt but thats not what i need help about. its that i think im getting feelings for an ex of mine again.. and i dont know what to do.. please help
-helpless me (link)
im really sorry about your ex. totaly ass anyways you have already been with this guy you are gaining feelings for again right! so you know how he is.. you know how he will treat you! juss make sure he is what you want b4 you go off and tell him. you never know 2nd chances are DEF worth a shot! but be careful. make sure you want this. and make sure you are able to handle what you are beging! xoxo Whiitnie


Well Whiitnie my dad isnt treating me right and i dont wanna go down there to see him anymore how should i tell him that? (link)
girl imma goin threw the same thing.. except i dont wanna see mii moma* but basically.. juss tell him how bad things he does hurts you.. let him know EXACTLY how you feel.. if you dont feel compfortable telling him face to face or on the phone.. write him a letter.. juss make sure you get it to him nice and clear that you dont want to be down there.. let him know how you feel about him not treating you right, he shouldnt treat you badly.. you are his daughter! let him know!! let him know!!! and get back to me on how that went! im always here if you need anything!!
xoxo Whiitnie Marie :)


ok..there is this boy i just started talking to on the internet..he doesn't go to my school or anything & i think im starting to really like him because friends have told me good (: things about him..but..he is going to be a senior and he is going out with a grl that is going to be a freshman..but anyways..ok..how do i give him hints telling him i like him but i want him to know i respect that he has a grlfriend?
love,
~dunno wut to do (link)
hmmmmm... internet realtionships really SUCK!! lol but ii mean if you really like him.. you have to let him know how you feel so he can respect your feelings. dont juss come off the bat and say "oo i like you" it may scare him off.. when he tells you things.. listen. be a friend and see what happens.. let him know you care.. but tell him you respect he has a g.f... give him clues like "oo yeah ive thought about you today" lil things make him think.. see what happens.. and get back to me!!
xoxo Whiitnie Marie!


ok, i went out with this guy and i fell in love with him. then he cheated on me and we broke up. we went out for about a year. on and off though. then a few weeks ago he called me and was like "i miss you, can i come over, i love you" and all this other shit. and so he came over and we did stuff but then like he told me he loved me and i said dont say it unless you really mean it. and he said ok i promise i mean it. and then the next night he called me and said he only liked me and that he didnt love me and never will. so now im pretty much afraid to get involved with anyone. and im afraid of being in love. and so i have kind of moved on from that because i told him that i wasnt gona be his rebound anymore or w.e but then theres this other guy and i like him alot. alotttt alot. and we have gone out before. but there is ANOTHER guy and i like him alot too. one of them is really sweet and quiet and the other is like i can always be myself around. i don tknow who i should go out with. im so confused. help. please. i am so afraid to be with someone.


-helpless lover (link)
hmmm... ii know its really hard to like be in a realtionship right after or to even like someone.. but you need to try and move on. you say you like 2 guys.. well sit down and make a pros and cons list.. see which one you have more in common with.. see who you truley like more.. but most important.. let them now how you feel.. dont keep it quiet.. and dont be afraid! not all guys are dick heads!! juss let the one you choose know how you feel.. and get back to me i would love to know!!
xoxo Whiitnie!


ok Whiitnie i have this problem with my bf. he seems to juss not care anymore. he says he loves me and he says he cares but i just dont think i can beleive him anymore. what should i do?
-helpless (link)
hmm.. tell him how you feel about it.. tell him you dont beleive he loves you anymore.. make him see you love him.. see what happens and get back to me!! :)




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