ok, i went out with this guy and i fell in love with him. then he cheated on me and we broke up. we went out for about a year. on and off though. then a few weeks ago he called me and was like "i miss you, can i come over, i love you" and all this other shit. and so he came over and we did stuff but then like he told me he loved me and i said dont say it unless you really mean it. and he said ok i promise i mean it. and then the next night he called me and said he only liked me and that he didnt love me and never will. so now im pretty much afraid to get involved with anyone. and im afraid of being in love. and so i have kind of moved on from that because i told him that i wasnt gona be his rebound anymore or w.e but then theres this other guy and i like him alot. alotttt alot. and we have gone out before. but there is ANOTHER guy and i like him alot too. one of them is really sweet and quiet and the other is like i can always be myself around. i don tknow who i should go out with. im so confused. help. please. i am so afraid to be with someone.
-helpless lover
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Whiitnie answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:35 pm: hmmm... ii know its really hard to like be in a realtionship right after or to even like someone.. but you need to try and move on. you say you like 2 guys.. well sit down and make a pros and cons list.. see which one you have more in common with.. see who you truley like more.. but most important.. let them now how you feel.. dont keep it quiet.. and dont be afraid! not all guys are dick heads!! juss let the one you choose know how you feel.. and get back to me i would love to know!!
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