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Good friends..
I have a boyfriend who I love sooo very much!! I wouldnt do anything to hurt him! I have a few good guy friends who I ONLY talk to on the internet because my bf doesnt like me hanging out with them. Well, one of my friends asked me to go to a party with him tonight or we could go to the mall another night. I'm not sure I should because I think my boyfriend would be mad! What should I do? And if I shouldnt hang out with him, how do I say no without saying my boyfriend wouldnt want me to. He always says "F*** your stupid boyfriend" :-/ Thanks for the advice!!
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Ok ... your bf should trust you enough to let u hang with other guys... all of my friends are basically guys... and when i date a guy... i dont let him tell me that i cant hang out with my friends... friends are friends ... who care what there sex is... so i say go for it and hang out wit tha guy ~ and talk to your bf about what i said cause seriously... he should trust you enough... and he should understand that you have friends that are guys... and they are just friends... *good luck *mare*
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From the sound of your post you are in a relationship that is borderline abusive, you seem pretty young, letting your boyfriend dominate you at this age can only lead to trouble. Your friend's comments were rude but had some truth to them. My advice is to have a time out w/your beau. If he cares for you like you care for him he would respect your interest in spending more time with your friends. If he doesn't then you should seriously considering terminating this relationship and fast before his dominating gets physical.
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Well your friend is right your bf shouldnt control you. You should be able to pick who you want to hang out with not him. Do you pick his friends? He shouldnt be able to pick your friends that is not right at all. I would dump him and see if he shapes up and find a new bf cuz you deserve someone who will let you hang out with whoever you want to-trix
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It seems like your boyfriends a little controling, he shouldn't be able to tell you who you can hang out with! theres nothing wrong with having guy friends, so i mean you can hang out with them and your boyfriend shouldn't mind. just be careful
xoxo
ali
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I don't think that you should tell your bf about going partying with your friend. He seem's a little too clingish anyways. Have some fun. You only live once.
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1 Ur boyfriend shouldn't be able to pick ur friends for u he should be sure that ur only his girl.. something prob makes him feel diffrent like jealous about that so u might want to talk to him..
2 Your guy friends care about u, u can tell... but having them saying stuff like that prob doesn't help anything.. they should realize where ur coming from standing behide ur boyfriend cause u love him and if they wanna be like fuck him and shit like that then u have to tell them how that makes u feel..
hope it helps babe
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your boyfriend is being possesive. there is nothing wrong with having guy friends. explain to him that you love HIM and no one else. he has no right to restrict who your friends are and if he has a problem with it, i'd say he's no good and you deserve better. good luck. send me something if you need more help!!
xox-- kRiS
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Your boyfriend should be able to trust you and accept that you have friends that are guys. If he can't trust you to hang out with your friends then your relationship isn't going to go to far. Plus, if something were to happen and you too split up it will be your friends who are there with a shoulder perfect for crying on. If I were you I'd go out with your guy friends and if my boyfriend was upset I'd just explain we were friends and nothing more. Hope I was of some help!
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ok....ur bf shouldnt be mad that u have close guy friends that u hang out with alot he should trust u....u should talk to him about that and ask him if he trusts u....and if he dosent then hes not worth it
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iF your bf loved u as much as u love him he should trust u enuf to kno that u wouldnt do that to him..if he doesnt u should talk to him about and explain how u r just good friends and that u just wanna hang out..and if he doesnt understand hes stupid..lol no offense..xO mandiE Ox =)
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Well first of all if your boyfriend doesnt trust you around your friends he isnt much of a boyfriend. And I can see why your friends say that because your putting him before your friends. You friends will always be there but your boyfriends will only be there for a little while. Talk to your boyfriend. Maybe he could go do something with you and your friends to get to know them so he will trust you more.
OK well first of all i was just trying to help cause i have been there before. So when all ur friends fuckin stop talkin to u dont come cry to all of us bitch.
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Your boyfriend is being to controling. You should be able to hang around with anyone you want. If your boyfriend gets mad then you know hes not the right one for you.
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That's not nice, telling you to ignore your boyfriend. However, your boyfriend sounds a bit like the jealous type. He can't stop you from having guy friends. I mean hell - most of my friends are guys, and my boyfriend's fine with it because he knows I'm true to him.
You've gotta talk to your boyfriend and convince him that you only have eyes for him. You're letting him control your life by preventing you from hanging out with your guy friends. That's not cool and he needs to know that. Whether you go to the party or not needs to be YOUR choice, not your boyfriends. It's all up to you.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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