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My friend is going out with this guy and I like him
I'm 11 and I'm a girl (lol)My friend Madison is going out with this guy and I like him (a lot) but I can't flirt or anything cause I feel bad. And I don't want Madison to know that I like him because she won't be exactly happy.I really like him and I don't know what to do. Plz help.....:(
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Just wait your turn :o). Don't rush into things, though, because people tend to get angry if a friend goes out with the same guy they JUST broke up with. Try flirting with // getting to know some other guys for now.
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My best friend had a boyfriend I had a huge crush on. Me and her boyfriend were also friends. But later I found the perfect guy. And I know one day you'll forget about your best friend's boyfriend and find the "perfect guy"
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Well I would just leave it how it is and if they break up dont rush things with him give them some space apart let them get there mixed feelings together and then after about 2-3 weeks well it really depends on how close they were and how long there were together then after sometime you have the all out right to move in.. but just keep up what you are doing by not flirting with him thats a smart choice!!-trix
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i think that you should just be happy that she is going out with him..and dont flirt with him..because you are only 11 and you will have MANY other guys in your life!! so just b happy for her for now and if they break up and then shes ok with it (thats a biggie) then u could go out with him *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dROp oNe In My InBoX]
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ok. first off it is never ok to flirt with your friend's dude. second, YOU'RE 11. you have your whole life to worry about relationships and all. focus on your life and friends. sure, have a crush on the guy but don't get carried away. just enjoy your childhood. :)
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Well ur only 11 and ur not ready to love/like someone but if hes going out wif ur friend u can wait .. just be there for both of them wen they break up .. and dont tell him ur feelingsz until their fully over each other cuz then ur friend culd get mad ..
* hOpe i heLpeD *
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my two best friends had the same problem.. and i told one of them that u cant do tat because it'll break her heart.. but she didnt listen to me and she went with wat she wanted and i think she did the rite thing.. my friend didnt get upset and shes been dating the guy for two years now.. but then again every1 is different.. i think maybe u should wait till they break up.. and see what happens.
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i wud just wait and c if they brak up soon or watever. if they break up then hes all urs. if it doesnt look they r goin 2 break up then try introducing madison to other guys that she mite like better. who nos, they definitely wont last 4ever! if they reelkly like eachtother then i wud just leave there relationship alone. i mean az much as u like him, she likes him 2 and u have to respect that :) GOOD LUCK
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just be happy for madison and dont go after her boyfriend u do not want to ruin your friendship over him yull find someone better then u can both b happy for yourselfs and eachother k so just find someone else GOOD LUCK
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That's a rough thing to go thru.Although it might not be what you wanna hear,you should respect your friend and her relationship with this guy.If you truly truly care about your friend,you won't interfere with their relationship.Who knows how long they will be together,and maybe somewhere down the line you'll have a chance to give things with him a try,but only after talking it over with your friend!!! I'm sure you will find a great guy for you,you're still so young,you've got LOTS of opportunities!!!!!!!
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Forget about this guy. He's already taken. A best friend's boyfriend is always off limits. It's just one of those known friendship rules. You should be happie for her! Don't try anything with this guy -- he's NOT worth your frienship with her. There will be MANY MANY MANY MANY more guys comin' your way. Be patient and keep your head up! =D
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okay im 10 and i had the sam problem but i relized their is nothing u can do because she has him. but u can always find the rite guy for u.
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I'd say leave them alone.Maybe when they break up you and him might date.Cause if you flirt with him now and Madison catches you it will be bad.It is stupid to lose a friend over a guy.Guys come and go but frindships are the most important thing to have.
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it's a good idea for you to talk to your friend before you do anything else, she has a right to know how you feel about hey boyfriend. don't flirt or anything. just talk to your friend. and i'm sure that everything will be ok. good luck
*~*shan*~*
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dont get in the way of thier relationship..i know that might be hard but jusst keep to being friends with both of them and let them break up on thier own THEN make you move. im sure it wouldnt hurt for you to flirt with him a little...but dont over do it because it could cause you and your friend to get in a fight!
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Well dont ruin the relationship with ur friend madison so either wait until they brake up or move on b/c there r plenty of other fish in tha sea so i hope it all works out n hope i helped! XoXoXo
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