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okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)
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childish behavior? if you think she's being childish (please forgive me for saying so) then you do something about it instead of just giving her an attitude and walking away! My friend and i are always in 827450827450982370495872 fights a year, and we always make up, no matter how bad it is. one of us always comes out and says somthing. reciently, my friend and i were in a fight, and i confronted her, explained myself, and it was over. please, just confront your friend and say this is what i did wrong, and admit what you did wrong. believe me, it works.
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slowely but surely stop being friends with her. It seems like you guys hate each other and usually best friends don't hate each other.
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talk to her. ask her if she's mad at u...if she sayz yes,ask her what you did. if she says no, ask why she isnt talking 2 u...she may not want to be your friend anymore...dont let that get you down. tell her how u feel...hope i could help <3 Niki Lyn
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Well, chances are in this situation, she's probably feeling the same. You're honestly probably on her nerves, which is why she lashed out and said that. If you're too mature for it the best thing would be to just keep the drama at a low. Just don't forget she's your best friend, 3 years is a long time. I think 3 years is worth fighting for too. Listen, her problem probably is, is that ya'll have just been hanging out too much and the friendship is getting annoying, it happens to the best of friends. Ya'll just need some space from each other and she'll eventually come back around.But trying to talk to her might just make it worse, and ya'll might say some things ya'll don't mean, so just be catiuos about it.
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hang out with other people for a wile and try to ask her why she wont talk to you and just say "im sorry for watever i did" and try to avoid another fight. well hope things work out for u.GOOD LUCK.
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Let her know shes acting stupid and way to childish. Maybe both of you need a break from eachother and hang with new people. She shouldnt be acting like that. Hope i helped
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It sounds like you maybe you two don't understand each other. Everything isn't simple anymore. i think that you should tell her that you are too mature to deal with this childish behavior and that you are willing to talk about the issue. But know that most people only have one good friend that they keep their whole life....maybe she is not that friend.
Hope I Helped........Alina
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then you can go and find a better friend some of my friends are doing that to but i ignore them because they came around and when she relizils that she has noone else to talk to hen she will come around and then tell her off if you want her to straigt in up and if you want her to be herself then i dont no what to tell you try to straigtin things up
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well i think if she wont talk to u u should talk to her first then if she dose not ancer u shre is not ur friend but if she dose try to work it out then 1s u have worked it out make a promse that u will try not to fight a lot and then it will be a little better. i hope i helped
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If you just had a fight she's still mad. Give her some time and hope she doesn't find new friends. In a few weeks she should be over it and try to figure out a way to hang out together, but with other people there too. You should have some time to talk somewhere in there and things will get straightened out.
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I think "Nancy" is being a little immature! i have friends who will do that to me.. but i ask who si the one who usually starts the fights? and is it about stupid things that you are just not seeing the same point of view on? they say that opposites attract but in some cases people are jsut to opposite to have a friendship or relationship. I would sit ehr down and talk to ehr adn ask her why she thinks you have so many fights adn also why she hasn't been speaking with you lately. Make your decision from there!
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